AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
Ask Alok da

I never say anything to anyone, I just don’t have the courage. My in-laws sometimes insult me but I cannot answer anything back. I just freeze and the other day they were pressuring my daughter for something they should not and still I could not speak up, I feel that I am letting my daughter down. 

Courage is something to be cultivated. One should not allow oneself to be treated like a football or be at the mercy of other’s will.

Self-respect is a healthy thing unless it becomes excessive and one starts seeing insult where there is only a strongly worded advise that elders often tend to give.

However your actions will become a template for your daughter and fears can get transmitted to them from parents. Talk to your husband to especially ensure that all this does not happen in front of the child. 

Affectionately,

Alok da.

Share this…

Related Posts

In the Supramental Path there is no formation of human nature, there is only transformation..The Mother says.. How to combine this with the positive aspect of Progress leading to development of human nature and its perfection.. what exactly is the effort to be put?🙌🌟🌈🪷

These two, – human progress and the transformation do not cancel each other. In fact they very much complement. Unless you mean by human progress simply earning money or getting a lucrative post. That is not …

Read More >

If effort is turned outward to conquer life, there is danger of losing God.. means.. towards what should be the effort to be with God?🕉️♾️👁️🪷

Here he is only setting the different pieces together. He will himself show the path as you proceed. In essence it is to turn our entire life and all its activities into a means to unite with the Divine. It means not to have a divided existence. 

In practice it means to start with works as karmayoga which is how the Synthesis starts. If done sincerely this…

Read More >