At the feet of THE MOTHER

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AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

I feel completely lost on my path and overwhelmed by academic and inner struggles that may force me to leave my PhD. Unable to burden my parents, I carry this pain alone, yet whenever I look at the Motherโ€™s photograph, an intense guilt arises that my mistakes are too many and that it is too late to fix anything. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’›[…]

One can never be lost enough as to not connect with Her. In fact, the more we feel lost, the more we should call Her

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Alok da, like during the times of COVID, there is a continuous fear psychosis being produced about the incoming mass unemployment due to the threat of AI. People across the globe are sharing their existential condition of living in perpetual anxiety, anticipating the inevitable doom and whatnot. ๐Ÿค–๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ[…]

One cannot deny that there is some truth in the statement. When machines took over, the labourer and the workers were threatened. When big Corporates

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Alok da, I have been observing two persistent, conflicting movements within my being that I struggle to understand. First, despite my conscious mind recognizing negative thoughts like jealousy, rivalry, or criticism as useless, something deep within still gives in and derives a strange, perverse pleasure from them. ๐Ÿชž๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป[…]

Human beings are a bundle of contraries. All of us carry these contradictory aspects which takes time to be reconciled or bridged. The process of

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How can I be kind, loving, and non-violent towards someone whom I feel hurt by? Especially in close relationships, it becomes difficult for me to remain non-reactive. I really do want to be loving despite what the other person has done, but I end up angry and resentful, which only makes my situation worse. My ‘want’ or ‘will’, no matter how strong it is, to still be loving and compassionate doesn’t help me. ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’›

Being kind, loving and compassionate may or may not help the other person but it will certainly help you. Our body and mind respond to

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Mother answers to one of the disciples: Yes, it is morally true, and one day it will also be physically true. Can we say the same about the triumph of Savitri over Death? That the bringing back to life of Satyavan was a spiritual truth, and it is a matter of time that it will become physical truth as well? ๐ŸŒ…โœจ

Yes, absolutely. These stories indicate the opening of a door of possibility for earthly life. In fact, traditionally, after this vrat, the story of Savitri

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Dear Sir, early this morning, while half-asleep, I had a vivid thought or dream about Shesha; I saw the colossal serpent Shesha floating in the dark cosmos. I began reflecting on the symbolism: Vishnu is the sole ultimate reality and we are merely his projections or acts in his divine play; does that make our individual identities completely false? ๐Ÿ๐ŸŒŒ[…]

Sesh Nag with a thousand which holds the planetary system is clearly the force of unfolding Time. Ksheersagar, the ocean of milk is the expanding

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How can we choose a conscious name for our baby? I believe that every name carries its own vibration. During my pregnancy, Truth kept coming to me very strongly. It felt meaningful to me. According to astrology, the suggested starting letters for his name is K, Cha, Bha, Dha. How can we choose a name that resonates with his soul? ๐Ÿ‘ถโœจ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

The name that resonates with the soul cannot be found by astrological suggestions. Astrology deals with the surface events and outer situations, what is generally

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Part of the reason for dissatisfaction is the perpetual busyness of my work. Itโ€™s always excessively busy. You know itโ€™s been 10 years since I received a promotion or some sort of formal recognition at work. During this time, scores of my friends and peers have moved up and are now seasoned principals, while I am stuck in limbo. ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ […]

Life upon earth is far from perfect at present and for long time. It is just the sphere of imperfection that changes. There are people

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Why do so many cling to partnerships and parade happy photos abroad, as if solitude would break them? I see college friends who seemed aimless now grounded with a spouse and child, while those who stayed single often ended up carrying the baggage of toxic relationships. Is companionship genuine fulfillment, or just a mutual crutch for stability? ๐Ÿ’ž๐ŸŒฑ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

Happiness? Is it even a goal worth pursuing? Happiness is a given in life, from the pig rolling in mud to the monkey swinging on

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Question regarding turning towards God: Respected Alok Da, Pranam. You wrote: Turning towards God means desiring God not for the fulfillment of one’s own wishes, but because of His loving nature. However, prayers are usually offered with the desire to obtain something from God, rather than for God Himself. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ“ฟ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ[…]

To turn towards the Divine means to engage with Him in some way. The most natural way is to hear, read, think and meditate upon

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I have been feeling a sense of hopelessness (professionally and personally) these last few days. Most of the time, I am a generally happy person. But this week has been like as if I am being pulled into this darkness. I am trying to shake it off, but itโ€™s pulling me down. ๐ŸŒง๏ธ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ […]

Such attacks come when the spiritual elements in us get veiled, generally by an overall dissatisfaction with life and the sense of loneliness. These are

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