We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

I thought I had changed my past impure self a little bit; I thought I had become a little better human… but again, something happened and I feel I failed more miserably than before…. I have not changed at all…. I think I am worse… It is heartbreaking to know that I am just the same person as before…. 🌱🌅🙏🏻
The fact that you want to change is itself a sign that you have changed! This is how the change takes place. In the beginning

I have a question like how to do actual self-giving? Even if we say we are completely surrendered to The Mother, there are still points and situations that show, something in us is still there, holding us back. 💗🙏🏻[…]
Self giving to the Divine is more than selflessness. Selflessness loosens the knot of the ego but still we may not act according to the

Could you help me understand the following pad from Tulsidas’s Vinay Patrika? I am not entirely sure what he is really talking about. I think he is distinguishing between ordinary life and spiritual life, and it seems related to my previous question.
Here, Tulsidas ji is speaking about how true bhakti is not easy to practice. Many speak about it but very few can practice it.
He

Dada, after taking my bath in the morning, I used to pray to Lord Bishnu, Krishna, Shiva, Maa Saraswati and Ganesh ji. So also in evening time for five to ten minutes. It has been continuing for the last several years. I could not avoid it. But Lord and Maa are my Ishta and leading my life accordingly. 🌸🙏🏻
It is true that the sadhana brings full results when all our energies of worship and service, our love and especially faith and surrender are

Dada I want to write this letter to The Mother and Sri Aurobindo through you. I shared with you the problem of watching porn and masturbation. I lost interest of watching that vulgar thing and masturbation after that because of their grace. But today after watching nasty video not sexual video but very nasty video and I again made blunder of masturbation. But dada I am facing another difficulty that I cannot concentrate on work and after getting rid of porn due to their grace in 2025 that there are vulgar impure sexual thoughts constantly due to excessive viewing porn in early days.
However big or even seemingly impossible the difficulties, one can get rid of it all if one can hold through the inevitability struggle with complete

Not only in one sloka, but in many places, Sri Krishna refers to Himself with the usage of अहम्, माम्, मम, मत्, मे, मयि, मया. So here my question is: how to take these 1st person statements? Referring to His manifested form? Or His AtmaBhava? 📖🕉️ […]
Much later, after the war is over, Sri Krishna himself confirms that the Gita was delivered in a Superconscious state and hence cannot be replicated.

So then how do we deal with situations and people that feel negative to us – what’s the right approach / attitude to it?
One has to learn to ignore and be indifferent to all that does not directly relate to your inner goal.

What happens when a lower mind comes in contact with a person with a highly sattwic mind – they get awkward/uncomfortable. Aura bothers them? See their own inadequacies/flaws? 🧠🌱
When two different layers of mind come in contact with each other, lets say a sattwic mind and the other rajasic then it may lead

From what I’ve understood, the essence of Integral Yoga is complete surrender to the Divine. But I’ve been reading “Living Within” by Dr. AS Dalal, and in that book, the Mother mentions that we have the ability to heal ourselves of physical ailments through various means (opening ourselves to the higher consciousness, bringing in a sense of quietude or peace, or calling on the psychic being). 🙏🏻🌿 […]
The confusion arises because of a lack of understanding of surrender. Surrender is not inaction or inertia. Rather even inaction is a choice we make.

I sometimes feel that Maa has given me a heart that feels a lot. It feels pain of other beings and animals and various other creatures. I am able to hold that feeling for humans but for animals, birds, trees etc. it sometimes become overwhelming.
What has karma got to do with these things. The karmic law does not apply to animals. Besides the law of Karma is not a

It’s been more than a month since my operation; I’m kind of good now. But Da, now again (as before) there is a tremendous amount of acidity and bloating issues. And also digestion issues. What should I do? ❤️🩹🌿🕊️[…]
You can try these few things.
Eat smaller amounts more frequently, say 4 to 6 times, than larger size meals 2 to 3 times.
Avoid

Namaste Bhai, Thanks a lot, bhai. Bhai, should we keep the biggest photo of the Divine Mother in our house? 🖼️🌸🙏🏻
The size of the photo does not matter. It is the faith that is important, in fact most important.

Bhai Namaste, May Divine Mother bless you. I can’t read it clearly. I always keep it in my purse; it says…keep sheltered in my arms…? 🙏🏻🛡️
It is a message of the Mother as follows.
‘Keep sheltered in my arms—they will protect you against everything.
Open to my help—it will never

I am drawn to the Mother’s teachings, and for the past couple of years spent quite some time reading and taking notes on a variety of subjects. I now feel that I have read enough and it is time for me to start living them. 📚🌱🙏🏻 […]
Your aspiration as well as anguish is quite understandable. Yes, there are so many things in the writings of Sri Aurobindo that would be of

I grew up thinking of homosexuality as a perversion and still it feels as such to me. However, I recently discovered that it was normalized in ancient Greece, which came as a big shock to me. What are your thoughts on homosexuality and whether it is essentially the same as sex between a man and a woman? 👨🏻🦱🌼👨🏻
Homosexuality (and its other aspect Lesbianism) have been known and accepted in ancient Greek as well as Hindu Society. It was considered a taboo, rather

I did go through a week of crippling overwhelm and I thought I could never overcome the darkness. I tried to keep my thoughts on the Mother and Shri Aurobindo. I kept Savitri close to me. 🙏🏻🌅[…]
The Grace is always there to help us not only through the difficult moments but more importantly to show us the way towards progress and

I am deeply inspired by the teachings of Sri Aurobindo and The Mother, as well as by your discourses. Today, I am reaching out to share an inner mental conflict that has been troubling me for a long time. Please guide me. 🕊️💬 […]
I understand your inner dilemma. But often it is better to tell the person that he is being hurtful rather than keep the anguish inside.

Following a period of intense determination to realize the psychic being, I experienced a severe week-long physical illness accompanied by three distinct outer trials. 🕊️🙏🏻 […]
I am glad you shared all this at some length. Such is the nature of this world. It pays a lip service to God but