We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

There are many difficulties in my house. No one is in a position to understand or explain anything. But my problem is that I am in the last year of my MA. Right now, or even for the next few years, I have no desire to get married, but no one seems to understand this. π£ππΉπ¨π»ββ€οΈβπ©π»[…]
A simple thumb rule for our times is that one should not marry until one is psychologically ready and financially independent. One should at least

On one side, it is told that don’t get attached to the Form, and on the other side, it is told that, ‘O worshipper of the formless Infinite, Reject not form, what lives in form is He.’ πͺπππ»πͺ·
Who is asking to reject the form? In the quote from Sri Aurobindo as given above, he is not asking us to reject the form

How to distinguish whether a feeling of presence in the chest is from the Psychic influence or from the Heart Chakra? πͺ·πΌβ€οΈβπ₯
The heart Chakra mainly opens the flood gates of emotions. The psychic which is right behind turns these emotions as well as thoughts and will

How do we identify the Pure Delight, the Delight that Sri Aurobindo calls ANANDA? If we are diving into a Delight, how do we identify whether it is Pure or artificial? πππ»π»β¨
Pure delight is self-contained within. It is there in everything. Delight is not created. It is self existent in the Divine Sachchidananda. But delight has

Respected Alok Da, please share some tips to help me to give a talk on the topic, Sri Aurobindo’s touch is the embrace of the Infinite. ποΈπππ»πΈ
His writings open every possible door towards endless possibilities. You can take several examples as to how his writings break our fixed limited moulds and

I dreamt that someone had kidnapped my Father. I called Papa, and that man answered the phone. I couldn’t believe that Papa had been kidnapped, so I didn’t accept it. Then he did something to Papa, and I heard Papa’s screams, and hearing that, I started crying a lot. Then that kidnapper sent two men who came into our house and started lighting firecrackers. π£ποΈπ₯π€΅πΌπ°πΌ[…]
It is an indication that the adverse forces are trying to put pressure on the parts attached to the old consciousness and thereby delay or

Alokda, what is feeling the βDivine Presenceβ? In our day-to-day life, how can I feel the Presence? In the ordinary state of our mind, is it not an imagination? How to start to feel the presence in my day-to-day life?Β πππ»πΉβ¨
Presence is something that is felt, not as a feeling but as a perception. One senses that the Divine is there in the heart. When

With respect to the Divine relations, a lot of friendships in my life have fallen away due to new values emerging in life. At the same time, a lot of family relationships have become deeper and truer, and they generate a sweetness in my life, especially with parents, siblings and elders with whom I had shared a good connection before (they all have their own connection to the Divine in their own way). π¨π»βπ©π»βπ§π»βπ¦π»πππ»π»[…]
There is no set rule of things especially because sadhana moves largely in the inner being and it is the inner state, motives, attitudes that

Recently, Govt approved the caste census. Why is an organisation like RSS, which was formed with the aim of Hindu unity, supporting the caste census? Previously, Modi ji said that there are only 4 castes-the poor, the youth, women and farmers, but now he took a U-turn on his previous statement. π§‘ππ»π«[…]
My own feeling is that it is a strategic move. Caste census would automatically mean that the factor of nationality is brought into the open.

I have a six-month-old daughter. Sometimes, she falls slightly ill, and my family takes her to people who perform traditional rituals to heal her. When I oppose this, they turn against me. Additionally, they try to take her to lower-level ancestral spirits. π§πΌπ¨π»βπ§π»π»β¨[…]
It is not cowardice but a sense of social behaviour inbuilt in many that prevents them from going against elders even if they are wrong.

What are these new Auroville Information Centres? How does this fit with Auroville International? I am involved in one of the Auroville International Center. Should I leave? π‘ππΌβ¨
I think the new administration is dismantling the old structures and replacing them with new ones. Auroville International is perhaps being replaced by AIC. It

Brahma Loka and all below Brahma Loka belong to Prakrutha Lokas, which are Lokas in Ignorance growing towards Light. Am I right? Then, which Lokas are Supramental Truth Lokas? πͺπππ»πͺ·
If you mean by Brahmaloka, the world of god Brahma (part of the trinity) then, yes all the worlds below belong to the realm of

InΒ “Student’s prayers”, Mother refers: “A great battle of the future to be born against the past seeking to endure” – I asked this question.Β There are many glorious ideals and the Divine perceptions of the past.Β Should they also be driven out? πππ»π»β¨[…]
It is not a question of yourself or myself deciding what will stay and what will go. It is the Time-Spirit, Kaal Purusha, directed by

My question is an ethical one. When we see wrongdoings in the world that others possibly do not see, do we have a responsibility to vocalize this and bring awareness to it? For example, Government behavior directly impacts the health and well-being of its people.Β π°πͺ·π¦β¨[…]
If one feels inspired to act along a certain line, then one should act. But the action should emerge from a space of inner Calm

What were the effects and results of Lord Rama’s life, His action & work in Society & how long did they remain effective? πΉπππ»πΉπ
Lord Rama came to teach us how to master the animal in us by a luminous and awakened intelligence. He taught us by personal example

Dada, until now I used to meditate daily as a rule, but I just read the Mother that meditation is useful only when it comes spontaneously. Should I stop doing my daily meditation without spontaneous inspiration? π§πΌββοΈπππ»π»β¨
It means that nothing should be done merely as a ritual. There should be behind all our activities a conscious aspiration. Spontaneous meditation means that

I read Ramayana, Bhagavada everything in original Devanagari Lipi. That’s why I get the connection with the author Valmiki, at least to some small extent and truly enjoy the scenes. As you said, the purpose of Ramayana is represent The Best human, and The Best human relations, and The Best human world. πππ»π»β¨[…]
Yes that is understandable and a number of people feel so. One part of us is attracted towards the future while another, most of it,

Why does Nature prefer high entropy, i.e., the measure of disorder according to current Physics? Shouldn’t Evolution lead to more order? π€π»β¨
Evolution is not a straight line but a spiral movement. It is because of the complex nature of Reality which is many layered, many tiered.