We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Namaste Sir. If, in a relationship like marriage, there is no mutual respect for each other, what should be its fate? Marriage seems like a compromise, a cage, a dependency for the child’s future. I always pray to my mother to help me overcome such dependency. When bitterness overrides love, life searches only for escape. 💗🌿
A marraige that does not fulfil certain basic conditions is not a marraige at all but a forced togetherness for both. Love and mutual respect

My intuition about life, love and happiness has always been proven wrong. Still, I live with an intuition for a dreamful life. This sometimes gives pleasure and sometimes pain; are there any options to move out? 🌱✨
It is not your intuition or dream or aspiration for a beautiful, happy life with love as its core and minister that is wrong. It

Just had a phone call with an astrologer + tantra expert from Tarapith, West Bengal, regarding my situation. He told me that he made offerings to Mahakal related to my problems and said ki aapke upar kala jaadu hua hai by some muslim tantrik. 🙏🏻🕊️[…]
What else you expect if instead of having faith in the Divine Mother herself before whom no magic can stay, you are having faith in

Dear Dada, in my family, we argue heatedly about the interpretation of Sri Aurobindo’s yoga. These discussions end with everyone remaining entrenched in their own convictions and feeling personally offended—to the point where old grievances resurface. How can we grow together in this yoga? Thank you. 🕊️🙏🏻
It is seldom that one can build harmony through discussions. Mind, by its nature divides the integral truth and takes each portion for the whole.

I had a bad dream where I was playing cricket and in the middle of nowhere a dinosaur came and ate me, and I got trapped and couldn’t escape. Help, please. 🌙🙏🏻
As you know Dinosaur are extinct. Being eaten up by a dinosaur means being overwhelmed by non-existent fears, not your own fears but fears from

I read the response regarding social relationships, and another question came to mind. If we live apart from others, don’t we risk becoming modern-day hermits who, the moment they encounter the outside world, fall back into the games of an ego that was merely dormant? 🌱🕊️[…]
We can compare it as the three stages in the growth of a plant. There is the seed stage. This is when we are buried

If all is done by the Divine, then what about our personal responsibility and the karmic consequences? 📖🙏🏻
The lines from Savitri which you quote are from the Secret Knowledge.
‘One who has shaped this world is ever its lord:
Our errors are

Sri Aurobindo talks about Man, Pran and Sharir. Is it the same as Annamaya kosh, Pranmay kosh and Manomaya kosh in Sanatan philosophy? 📖🌿
Yes, the Mind, Vital and Physical parts correspond to the Manomaya, Pranmaya and Annamaya Koshas. The only added thing is that The Mother and Sri

I spoke with you earlier about the conflict between my friend’s parents. The situation between them has become very disturbing, as they argue constantly and often do so in front of their children. 💗🌱 […]
Yes, you should speak to them if you know them. It is the right thing to do to try making them aware that their selfishness

You spoke about making choices during the ‘Delhi Talk’. Dada, what exactly constitutes the ‘right’ choice? I don’t quite understand. 🧭💗 […]
The road we chose to take should be the one that takes us closer to the goal. Therefore the first thing necessary is to be

I know this can sound like a silly question, but I wanted to ask what detachment is. What is attachment? What is the deeper meaning behind these? 🕊️💗
When a person grows fond of another either because of long habitual association such as staying together or some kind of vital interest such as

Alok da, I have read in multiple places that The Mother asks us to concentrate our forces in the body part where it hurts or where we are going through some kind of pain and figure out why the pain has occurred in the first place. Also, I have read that we can use the strong parts of our being to heal the weak parts. 🙏🏻🌿 […]
Concentrating upon the part is not enough. She advices us to use the agency of thought to open and offer the part that is in

There are many jobs related to French, such as French-to-English translation. How can one learn French? I’m searching for some part time job, due to financial issues; my parents are not supportive. 📚🌱
Yes, I believe learning French helps get jobs. But I am not aware of such courses. You can check if there is a course at

I was reading Essays Divine and human by Sri Aurobindo and he is explaining about Moksha. Here is a line where he says: The last bondage is the passion of liberation itself which must be renounced before the soul can be perfectly free. What does the underlined sentence truly mean? 🕊️📖
The urge for liberation may stem from two different attitudes. The first, and more common, stems from the idea that this world is a world

As placement season goes on, I am realizing that different computer science roles require varied skills that I didn’t happen to cover, which is developing “AI-based projects”. I have worked hard and maintained a good academic standing, but it can be disappointing to discover gaps I wasn’t aware of. 🌱🙏🏻 […]
The simplest and best formula is what is given by the Gita, do your best and leave the rest, the results and the fruits of

Referring to our earlier dream discussion, where you inferred that the material vital was the principal field of activity in my case: 🌙🌱 […]
Yes this understanding makes perfect sense. Your mind has become more conscious of these desires and hence is able to reject them. As such the

What do these lines of Savitri mean? In Canto 10 of Book 2 of SAVITRI, Sri Aurobindo talks of a Mediatrix on page 256, who awoke to a greater Truth beyond her acts. 📖💡[…]
Sri Aurobindo is now describing the highest possibility of Reason, the discerning intellect that discovers itself as an intermediary between the higher truth and the

And what about marriages based on money / financial security in the name of love.. How does their state last.. 💍💞
They just linger together for a while. The marraige may last due to social pressures, children or the money or sometimes very simply by force