We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Â
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Alok Da, I have got attached to someone after a physical intimacy (kind of night stands – about 4-5) but he is not. how to handle it. Actually I thought I am in love with him…so I allowed all that to happen…else i happened to be someone who wouldn’t let anyone touch me. What should I do? I am afraid of conveying my feelings to him as I know he is not going to reciprocate. I am just always craving his proximity, which i know is my problem.. How can I be at peace?? I want to detach myself from those feelings i have towards him?
What has happened has happened. It serves no purpose looking back and feeling bad. Life gives several learning lessons. This is one of them and
Kindly refer to the Mother’s experience described in her Prayer dated 26 November 1915, presented in the “Prayers and Meditations”. ðâĻððŧ […]
This prayer has been taken up by me but it is difficult to trace it on auromaa by me. I will check with the webmaster
My niece is in Class-9th. She is facing some problems in her class. Students ignore her in the class. She is good at studies. They say she has an attitude. She says that she feels alone in the class, especially during recess. ðŦðĪðž[…]
Children who are either above or below the average face this isolation in the class. It is more so if the child is inwardly more
My mother daily recites the Hanuman Chalisa (11 times), Durga Chalisa, and Siddha Kunjika Stotram. She learned these practices from an astrologer’s podcast, which also recommended keeping water nearby during the Hanuman Chalisa and later drinking it as prasad. ðŋðŠððŧ […]
I often encourage her to keep her worship simple and inwardly focused, but much of it seems mechanical and mixed with a fear that the
It is good to be deliberate about being kind and grateful towards others, even those close to you, right? It seems like a simple and very important thing. It is good to be deliberate about doing ðĪððŋ
The first thing is to learn to be simple, like a child who does not judge or overthink but trusts life and destiny, does well
I’m going through a low phase- physical as well as anxiety problems. What I want to tell you is that last night Mother came to my dream wearing a long kurti and trousers, mostly pink-coloured, and told someone, “Tell her to read the book, The Mother”. I’ve been reading this since yesterday. ððððŧ […]
It means that Reading The Mother will free you from all fears. Read Chapter 3 and you will understand.
In any case one needs
My own identity is so mixed up. How to find the Truth within me in daily life?! Yes, I keep aspiring for Light & Truth because Mother says so. All inside is like obscure and very ordinary and material, a physical existence with just a bit of vital and mind here and there. Your answers trigger my emotions because I am failing to find anything very deep, true and pure, high and Divine. What should I do then? ððĄðŠ· […]
What you are experiencing is a passage, a transition that everyone experiences. But the fact that you feel drawn in some way, however vaguely is
How to know what is the truth and what is opinion in our day to day life activities? ðĪðĄðž
Truth, at least ultimate truth should by definition be ‘something’ that does not change. All that is subject to change can be at best a
Dear Alok da, For the last 2 months I have been having dreams of Siddha Yoga Sadhaks and the dreams are symbolic like a Sadhak is giving orders to someone like a king, someone who shows more emotions from outside but from inside bows down to the Guru as a formality! How should these dreams be understood? ðð§ððŧ […]
Yes it is never helpful to see the real or unreal defects of anyone, let alone sadhaks. Human nature is too complex and each one
Can you comment on this Cockroach Janata Party that has recently been started? ðŠģðģïļðŪðģ
On another note about the new ‘Cockroach party’ the lesser said the better. If I am not mistaken the idea is clearly borrowed from Franz
Dear Alok da, I am getting very bored this summer vacation. Then I get irritated and angry and see a lot of phone. What do I do? Please help me! ððĪģðŧðŠī
Seeing phone makes us lose concentration and opens doors to even more agitation. Instead put down the phone and open your mind and heart to
Dada, by the Divine Mother’s grace, I had a spontaneous experience. When I was lying on the bed, then I experience a strong wideness and peace that drew my whole body towards it, it seems my existence has been gone. âĪïļâðĨðððŧðž[…]
It is a true and genuine experience, a beautiful gift of Her Grace. Keep offering these experiences and the doubts and the work, everything to
Administering medicine to my 1-year-old daughter is a challenge. She was underweight according to Australian standards and had a low appetite, so the doctor has suggested iron and multivitamin drops, which she absolutely despises. Initially, I would give them forcefully and we would both end up in tears. ðķðŧðĐļðĨððŧðž[…]
First with regard to the value of an action. It is not the action itself but the intent that matters most. Whatever you did was
Sir, how can Savitri reading change our consciousness? ðâĪïļâðĨðž
The Word has power, the power to create or to destroy. It is because the expressive word is simply a medium or a vehicle to
Is the Mother referring to the soul (Psychic Being) in the quote below? – ‘I am your true mother who will give birth in you to the true being, the being who is free, peaceful, strong and happy always, independently of all circumstances.’ ðĨðŠ·
Yes it refers to the soul which knows itself as the child of the Divine Mother.
I had another question in this question and you did not answer it. (And how can we connect with Param Maa and surrender to her during such an activity and can we experience her as beloved? If we experience her as beloved, then what should be my feeling at that time and in what feeling should I feel myself?) ðððŧðļðĶ
The idea of sex as being related to the Beloved is a misrepresentation of the idea of physical union as the ultimate expression of love.
Two months ago I had a very strange dream. When I left for home from my nearby city, I saw a bull and a cow calf and they called me to them. Then the bull asked me to put my hand inside its mouth. My friend refused, but I put it in. ððððŦ[…]
It is again a deeply symbolic dream. The bull is spiritual Strength and the calf is the spiritual Light. Your cousin is afraid but you
Sri Aurobindo says at one place that the Sri Krishna who united with him in 1926 was from Kurukshetra. So, is there no difference now between Sri Krishna of Dwarka and Sri Aurobindo? ðððŧðŠ·ðĶ
They are different aspects of the same Krishna like different aspects of the same Shiva. Hanuman ji for example embodied the Rudra aspect of Shiva