We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Alok da, I have a cousin sister who cries all day long. I donβt know why, but today she cried 3 times, yesterday 4. Why is this happening, and how should I tackle it? And after this, everybody will blame me most of the time just because I am elder so what should I do about this? π’π©π§πΌππ»
But it is not your fault if she is crying. May be you can try to make her quiet by sharing your toys or simply

I surrendered to the Mother and prayed to her to give me love for my in-laws and thus keep me safe by not letting anger and frustration get the better of me. I tried to gather Courage and Faith – and thought “Mother is there, She is looking after it and I need not worry”. π¨π»βπ©π»βπ§π»βπ¦π»π§πΌπ΅πΌππ»πͺ·[…]
This is always the magic of Her Grace. To invoke Her in all situations and circumstances of life is what is needed rather than trying

Did Swami Vivekananda think of the Evolution of Man to the Superman level to exhibit all possibilities of the Supreme Divine on earth without any limitations? πππ»πππ·[…]
He did not speak anything about the evolution of the human race into a future divine race. Like all Vedantins he spoke about the evolution

Dream: I was with my two uncles, and we went to a college where we were looking for something. There was a teacher who was involved in some wrongdoing with the students, and we went to catch him. π§πΌβπ«π«πΆβπ«οΈβ¨[…]
It is an interesting dream where you detect the deceits of the old schools of Thought that do not reveal the complete truth. It is

My parents said, “Why don’t you tell us the PIN for your phone?”Β Tumhe toh humare phone ka pata hai.Β What’s in your cellphone that you can’t share with us?Β π±πππ·
You have to clearly state that everyone needs some private space, both physically and psychologically. Nobody is expected to share everything that is going on

Are the Bride and Groom happy after such Marriages, that we are seeing now? Is it even real?Β What is a True Marriage, according to you?Β How should a Wedding actually be? π°πΌππ€΅πΌββοΈπ€πΉπ
Marriages, I feel, now are more for money and status, convenience, than love.
Marraiges are outdated now. A greater flexibility and plasticity are needed

I am staying at my relatives’ house. I am not feeling safe in this house. He touched me in such a way that it is not going out of my mind. Now, you tell me how I should study, how I should stay in this house?β¦ ππ£ππ»π·[…]
Of course, nobody would suggest a young girl to stay in a place where she feels unsafe. However since life does have such people and

Dear Alok Da and other members here: Is there a way to write letters to the Mother that can directly reach the samadhi? I am not aware of such a thing, but I just wanted to know if there is any possibility of writing letters to Ma and Sri Aurobindo. πππ»π·βοΈ
Yes, you can write to the Mother directly and post it to –
The Mother
Sri Aurobindo Ashram
Pondicherry
605002

I am a student and I discovered Sri Aurobindo a few years back and started reading him, but I naturally couldn’t understand words coming from such Supreme Heights of Consciousness. Recently, I found the YouTube Channel ‘AuroMaa’, and your videos helped a lot in understanding Sri Aurobindo. ππ±ππ[…]
Who is there who has not ‘sinned?’ Who can claim that he or she has never done anything that is not aligned with the Divine?

I have a Gender question. I have heard that a Psychic Being usually follows one particular line of gender in each life. Why is it arranged that way? Is there something inherently Masculine or Feminine about a Psychic Being that affects this choice?Β π¨πΌβ€οΈβπ₯π©πΌππ·
The soul has no gender. It is the line of evolution it choses in its journey through nature. In Nature we see the feminine and

If in an angry situation, we keep quiet, but the opposite person compels us to speak, shouting at us and not allowing us to be quiet, what should one do? π π’π₯π¦π₯[…]
It is best to immediately move out of that space where these dark vibrations are being released in the atmosphere. In fact this is the

I had a very amiable relationship with my sister and her family. But last time I visited their place with my family, we had a big issue: both of them literally told us to take a taxi and leave right now. ππΌββοΈπππΌββοΈππ»[…]
Love is the truth we must always hold on to and guard as a real treasure. Bitterness and grudge are reactions of the ego and

In the current war scenario, how do you see the development of these events, and where will it take the world? Also, what will be Indiaβs role in all this? How long will this war scenario continue? πͺβ οΈππ
I think we all who aspire for a better world, a better tomorrow will agree that there is much in this world that needs to

What do you think about this war? How long will it last?Β Trump is very confident that it will be over in 4 weeks. But some say Russia is giving intelligence and weapons just as America is doing in its war against Ukraine and China is funding the war. Would this make it last longer? πͺβ οΈπ₯π₯Β Β
Wars are not won or lost in times as these, especially when one is dealing with countries that are quite big in size, as Iran

If one starts practicing what the Mother and Sri Aurobindo have written, then it is obvious one would feel energetic mean some energy is stored inside the vessel. (Due to self-control & brahmacharya)Β πππ»πͺ·π
It is indeed the ego which is trying to use the Divine Mother’s gifts for some kind of personal greatness. If one gets into this

If a person is emotionally going through taxing times, financially not stable yet in career, why does everyone around me say that – once I am emotionally normal, according to them and financially set on my path, only then should I visit Pondicherry Ashram for the first time, as a lot of people are leaving behind their existing life to be a devotee and some people who are devotees, are regretting starting to follow Sri Aurobindo and the Mother early on in their life? π€β€οΈβπ₯π»πͺ·[…]
People have these traditional ideas about pursuing the spiritual life, hence they obstruct those who feel so inclined all kinds of ignorant ideas. Even otherwise

But in one of your talks, I heard a story of Ramayana from you. It goes as, when Vibhishan was staying in Ayodhya, he had that strong urge to have non-veg food (as was his habit), so he went to the jungle to hunt animals. ππΉππ»[…]
It is because of his love and bhakti and surrender to Lord Rama that the change came. That is the key.

I donβt know where my anxiety comes from. It feels like my body becomes tense suddenly, as though something bad were about to happen and my mind starts panicking. π§πΌββοΈπ°ππΎ[…]
Some types of pranayama can lead to difficulties. The safe ones are Nadi shuddhi and very simply observing the breath without trying to regulate it.