We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Dear Da, I’m a single child. I always have this question: why don’t I have a sibling with whom I can share things? Also, my parents have a greater realisation of the Divine, so whenever I try something out of spirituality or try to get mixed with society, they get to know things from within and always doubt my intentions and try to keep me under their influence. π’πΈπ¨π»βπ©π»βπ§π»βπ¦π»π[…]
First thing is to discover the unique person you are, your unique goals, strengths and weaknesses rather than comparing yourself with anyone or seeking validation

I want to know if The Mother refers to Sri Aurobindo as ‘Lord’? And so, when They say, the aim of life is to know the Divine and unite with It, do they mean to know the Lord and unite with Him? So, do we look to know Sri Aurobindo and The Mother as the Divine, and unite with Them by offering ourselves to Them integrally? I am curious how you understand this and practice this aim of Life. πππ»πͺ·β€οΈβπ₯
The Lord is the Ishwara, the Supreme Lord as the Creator of the Worlds, also known as the Purushottama, Paramatma, Parameshwara in Hindu thought.
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Let’s say we somehow take the path which is not good for us…. does Sweet Mother still redirect? π£οΈπ₯²ππ»π»
Due to the Divine Presence within every creature, this redirection is going on all the time, sometimes through struggle and pain. But when the Divine

What is the difference between Vishnu and the Supreme Incarnation? Name some Supreme Incarnations because I have never heard about them. π¦πππ»πͺ·
The trinity are one. They are three aspects of One Being, the Purushottama of the Gita, the supreme Purusha of the Vedas, the Sacchidananda Brahman,

Alokda, you might have explained this in your “The Bhagavat Purana” class, but how do you explain the Victory of rakshasas over deva? Stories of imprisonment of devas… πβοΈπΊπ·[…]
Yes. The Puranas do speak about the Devas losing at times to the Titans when they grow proud and haughty and think it is they

Sir, today, while meditating on the Mother’s music of compassion, I saw a vision in which a deer was present everywhere and gazed at me as if it wanted to tell me something. But I can’t understand what it means. π¦π§πΌππ»[…]
The deer is a symbol of gentleness and swiftness. The vision means that these qualities of the soul are beginning to manifest in you. Presumably

Can one start withΒ Bhagavan Ramana’s self-enquiry method and try following Sri Ramana for Atma Sakshaykaram? Because I feel BhagavanΒ Ramana’s approach is the direct, shortest, quickest, instant push towards The Self if practised under His enquiry method.Β πππ»π»π[…]
The method one chooses will depend upon one’s innate temperament and of course most importantly the soul’s aspiration. These things cannot be decided by mental

Respected Alok da, I want to ask whether it is possible to escape an accident ( just like APC) with psychic perfection? Here also, is it possible “One man’s perfection can save the world?” I think it will be possible if there is time to observe it… Alok da, please tell me about it.
Yes it is very much possible. One good man open to the Divine in earnest can save an imminent catastrophe. I just gave a talk

1. Normal activities of life that people normally do with interest and joy, like watching TV, going to hotels, visiting places, and meeting people, etc., do not interest me. 2. Quite often, I feel life is boring. Why? ππΌπ¦π
That is a good sign in fact. Love for solitude, lack of natural inclination in activities that externalise too much is sometimes the sign of

Would you please help me understand the passage marked in blue line next to it? I have taken a picture of this page and attached it to this email.Β If you think and if possible, having a call on this is more appropriate than an email response, please advise on the time/ day best to have a conversation. Thanks. ππππ»πͺ·
‘But why this phenomenal and pragmatic division of an indivisible Existence? It is because Mind has to carry the principle of multiplicity to its extreme

Da, what’s your take on social emotional learning and sex education that is coming up as new domains of education for common children? ππ¦πΌππ§πΌπͺ·
We mental health professionals also use these domains to teach children with Autism and ADHD, the basic skills and managemnt of anger, bordem, irritability and

How can a person pursuing Yoga contribute to the alleviation of the pain and suffering of mankind as a whole? π₯²π§πΌββοΈππ»πͺ·β€οΈβπ₯
Suffering, in fact every event, is due to three causes. The first is the immediate cause, that is to say, the immediate event or circumstance

I used to get messages or predictions about things happening all around me. I think it’s my intuition, which I strongly believe. Sometimes I use to express it, which creates problems for me. Or else if I don’t express it, it used to disturb me. πΆβπ«οΈπ©΅π·β€οΈβπ₯[…]
This is a faculty that some have. Offer it to Her and She will show you the way.

My question is, Gita says: “It is better to do oneβs own dharma, even though imperfectly, than to do anotherβs dharma, even though perfectly.” – How does it apply on a daily basis to us internally and our interactions in life? ππππ»πΈ
It means that it is better to live according to your own inmost impulsion of truth, even if it brings outer failure, than to achieve

What are Pitru Doshas? Why do they affect some individuals and not others? Why is it that despite doing the required rituals, they donβt nullify and keep affecting generations? What can one do to nullify them? πππ»πΈπ»
Pitru dosha are supposed to be the shadows we carry through generations in a family. It is a purely astrological concept and is not necessarily

I am unable to understand this said by The Mother. Please explain to me: “You must use everything for the purpose for which it is given, otherwise you commit a crime. I am not speaking merely of physical things. All the inner things that I am giving you all the time, all the strength, light, energy and life that are being poured into you all the time, are meant for the service of the Divine, for the sake of transforming you. If you use them for any other purpose, you are a robber and your crime is the worst possible.” ~ The Mother (CWM 13:183) ππ€π·
It means that all the capacities that we have, – physical, vital, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, should be offered at the Feet of the Divine for

What is the advice for people with terminal illness who are close to the end and want to deliberately end their life? What is the guidance given by Sri Aurobindo and Mother?Β Is it allowed? I ask as there is now a law here in the UK allowing this to happen. π΅β οΈπ§πΌββοΈπ
A few countries have legalized euthanasia or mercy killing as it is called. It is based on the pain and suffering of the body and

“Within you is a psychic beingβa divine being, a direct portion of the Mother, pure and untouched by all these defects. It is hidden and covered by ordinary consciousness and nature. But when its covering is removed and it becomes able to come forward and take control, it transforms the ordinary consciousness, casts out all these undivine elements, and thoroughly transforms the outer nature.” – Sri Aurobindo. How will the psychic being come forward and change our nature? πππ»β€οΈβπ₯π·
First one has to find the psychic being, make it one’s sole preoccupation and the occupation. It means an ongoing inner concentration in the centre