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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

The Life Divine, Chapter IV: The Divine and the Undivine, Page 396, last line: “the concealed Divinity, that has lit the flame of aspiration, pictures the image of the ideal, keeps alive our discontent and pushes us to throw off the disguise and to reveal or, in the Vedic phrase, to form and disclose the Godhead in the manifest spirit, mind, life and body of this terrestrial creature.”Β – what is the Vedic phrase, its essence?Β πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»

In our human consciousness there is the image of an ideal truth of being, a divine nature, an incipient godhead: in relation to that higher

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Why is it that many parents, especially those in their 50s, often glorify their past struggles, like working long hours to earn an extra $200, and keep reminding their children of the sacrifices they made to raise them? Why can’t they allow their children to recognize it naturally, instead of constantly seeking acknowledgment or credit and glorifying their struggles? πŸ™„πŸŒ»πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€πŸ‘©πŸ»β€πŸ‘§πŸ»β€πŸ‘¦πŸ»

Bringing up a child can be a very challenging task and sometimes it does require quite a bit of sacrifice. But the child has not

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I tried chicken a month ago, and I regularly eat eggs, as it’s helping me gain weight, as I’m very skinny.Β I never tried non-veg before this, as I thought it was all cruelty. But suddenly this changed. What’s the truth behind this?Β Is it wrong or not? Not asking about any moral issue, but the practicality.Β πŸ—πŸ΄πŸ’ͺ🏼

Nothing wrong with that. People who take to gym or have a boost of rajas in their system suddenly feel this change and need of

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Dear Alok da, I offer flowers to Sri Aurobindo and the Mother every day. Some days the flowers look still fresh, though not completely fresh, they are still not withered, and I don’t feel like throwing and replacing them because they are a day old. Is it ok to leave them as such, or is it better to replace fresh ones every day with the offering attitude? πŸ’πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»βœ¨

Though there can be no fixed rule at home but replacing is not needed at home if the flowers are fresh. Some of them like

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Today I was thinking about donating money to the beggars, and a thought came to me that if a beggar is in good health, why shouldn’t he work for himself and earn his own money? I also believe that it is the evolutionary struggle that will help them to develop, and if I provide any money, it will create a hindrance to the same. πŸ€”β€οΈβ€πŸ”₯πŸ’°πŸŒ»[…]

You are absolutely right, without a doubt. The Gita even goes on to say that something given without due consideration of Time, place and circumstance

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One of your answers about Marriage is that it is for going together for Higher Consciousness and for Sadhana. Each one respect each other.Β After 23 years of marriage, if the husband’s aim is only to lead an ordinary life and, in each step, humiliate and disrespect the wife, then what will the wife do? πŸ˜£πŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΌ[…]

It is for this reason that the ego has been given to man, to ensure that the self-development of the individual is not stifled or

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