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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

I am quoting from your answer: “This implies a constant practice of equanimity as well as a complete faith in the Divine that whatever is needed will come.” – You mean to say then one need not even think of his bodily needs, like eating, drinking, and a place for living, a sleeping bed, health care, etc., if one has complete faith. πŸ₯ΈπŸ¦‹πŸŒ»[…]

The Gita, speaks to sarvasankalpasannyasi and Yogakshemavahamyaham. These are not mere words or hollow promises. At least such has been the experience of those who

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What if the desire to hold on β€” the attachment β€” isn’t rooted in pride or the need to show ownership, but rather in a deep sense of care? A quiet protectiveness, born not from materialism, but from love. What if it’s not about clinging to possessions, but about holding close the people who matter most β€” not out of selfishness, but from the fear of loss?πŸ€”πŸŒΌβœ¨[…]

Yes, attachment and care are not necessarily a negative movement. They are indeed a form of Sattwic love which is certainly higher than the gross

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Why do I feel a massive weight in all of my nerves mind and body when I read Sri Aurobindo even for a single page, a single page of a poem like Ilion or a single page of Synthesis of Yoga or the Life Divine as if this pouring out from a too vast a source and I cannot hold it, this unease doesn’t even come when I sit down with any of my tough academic books. πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ«£πŸŒ…πŸŒ»[…]

What Sri Aurobindo is giving us is a complete roadmap, the entire truth, the broad idea and the total landscape of the human evolutionary journey

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Alok da, in one of your talks, you mentioned how sexual activity is interrelated with ageing, but couldn’t elaborate upon it because the subject matter for the talk is different and in another talk, you’ve briefly said that you wouldn’t recommend having more than one kid in today’s times. πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸ΅οΈ[…]

The sexual potency in terms of erection, sperm count and intercourse have all been coming down on an average especially in the Western World leading

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I don’t want to get married, but my mother is insisting that I get married, and I am unable to explain why I don’t want to get married. I don’t have a reason to give; it’s just that I don’t feel like being married. I am praying to the Lord that there may be no matches, as they see the Jataka. But I fear that if someone’s Jataka matches mine, then what should I do? πŸ˜₯πŸŒΉπŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»

Generally parents insist on their children’s marraige because they feel how will their child manage when they are away. It is partly a habitual thought,

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Nowadays (after the heavy, cruel attack in the name of God), I lost interest in my daily regular prayers for Bhakthi, Mukthi, and personal ΰ€Άΰ₯ΰ€°ΰ₯‡ΰ€―ΰ€Έΰ₯ ΰ€ͺΰ₯ΰ€°ΰ₯‡ΰ€―ΰ€Έΰ₯, but I understand the necessity for World Peace and in particular we Bharatiyas’ ΰ€•ΰ€°ΰ₯ΰ€€ΰ€΅ΰ₯ΰ€― in promoting the Shanti among lives on Mother Earth.Β πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸͺ·βœ¨[…]

Yes, there is a narrower spirituality that focuses on the individual Mukti and a wider, higher spirituality that goes much far in its seeking for

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The Life Divine, Chapter IV: The Divine and the Undivine, Page 396, last line: “the concealed Divinity, that has lit the flame of aspiration, pictures the image of the ideal, keeps alive our discontent and pushes us to throw off the disguise and to reveal or, in the Vedic phrase, to form and disclose the Godhead in the manifest spirit, mind, life and body of this terrestrial creature.”Β – what is the Vedic phrase, its essence?Β πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»

In our human consciousness there is the image of an ideal truth of being, a divine nature, an incipient godhead: in relation to that higher

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Why is it that many parents, especially those in their 50s, often glorify their past struggles, like working long hours to earn an extra $200, and keep reminding their children of the sacrifices they made to raise them? Why can’t they allow their children to recognize it naturally, instead of constantly seeking acknowledgment or credit and glorifying their struggles? πŸ™„πŸŒ»πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€πŸ‘©πŸ»β€πŸ‘§πŸ»β€πŸ‘¦πŸ»

Bringing up a child can be a very challenging task and sometimes it does require quite a bit of sacrifice. But the child has not

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I tried chicken a month ago, and I regularly eat eggs, as it’s helping me gain weight, as I’m very skinny.Β I never tried non-veg before this, as I thought it was all cruelty. But suddenly this changed. What’s the truth behind this?Β Is it wrong or not? Not asking about any moral issue, but the practicality.Β πŸ—πŸ΄πŸ’ͺ🏼

Nothing wrong with that. People who take to gym or have a boost of rajas in their system suddenly feel this change and need of

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