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My relationship with my parents have been really harsh and distant these days. Both of our beliefs seem to clash and I really want them to let go of the fear and material beliefs they hold but due to my stubbornness of making them understand and theirs of keeping the belief we fight a lot and they feel like I am disrespecting them and things don’t ever seem to fall in place.πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β›ˆοΈπŸ˜‘

It is very difficult to explain one’s own beliefs to anyone. These elements are like personal treasure and sharing them with others, especially those who

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Alok Da, I have been involved with a married man who has a child. For three years, he has promised to leave his wife, but it has become clear that he has no intention of doing so. Now, he says he will marry me legally but also wants to continue his past life. I am becoming very insecure; what is the right thing to do in this situation?πŸ’”βš–οΈπŸ˜ͺ

It is not about right and wrong. It is simply this fact that no one can leave a child behind and get remarried to someone

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Alok da, Human beings have this desire and ideal of unconditional love. But as they grow up, everyone comes to see that despite all the preachings about human values, emotions and whatnot, every relationship is conditional and comes with an exchange value and with the frustration of not finding it. πŸ‘¨πŸΌπŸ’”πŸ‘©πŸΌπŸ₯€πŸŒΌ[…]

Human beings are very limited in their present state of evolution. They don’t have the true knowledge nor the true power. Above all they don’t

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How can I protect myself from someone’s blackmail? I mean, I know my father’s nature. Even after telling him everything and explaining things, he’ll use the same tactic: “I’ll kill myself if you don’t get married…” etc. Sometimes he even hurts himself. How can I stop all this? This isn’t right, is it? πŸ˜₯πŸ₯€β€οΈβ€πŸ”₯πŸƒ

Nobody can stop anyone and nobody is responsible for anyone else. You are responsible only for your own life. And you should decide based on

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