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I genuinely love a guy (or at least I feel that way), but we are not in a relationship because we know that we are not perfect for each other. We live in different places, so we don’t meet. There were times when we had an argument and we stopped talking for months, but we ended up together. ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿฆ‹[…]

There is evidently a vital attraction which is very different from love. It usually wears off with time unless there is a strong deep affinity

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Not just in a relationship, Alok da, friendships too.. any human interaction. If the person is taking you for granted and you feel itโ€™s not healthy,ย then you have to speak up, right? Express your truth. Not about their flaws. But their behaviour with us.ย Being clear and frank there helps, right? ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿผโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‚

A lot of human behavior is unintentional. It is simply habit and unconsciousness. So we should be careful when we attribute motives which alone truly

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To look for your videos on Love, which are on the YouTube Channel ‘Auromaa’, whenever I feel my love(may be attachment), whatever it is, is turning towards blame, criticism.. To not feel that I have been betrayed, to feel that the other side must have reasons for doing what he is doing, and when I see videos on Love, Sacrifice, Self-Giving, I feel a little relieved for some time… ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐ŸŒผ[…]

But there always is true love in everybody. But it is covered by the smoke of desires, clouds of doubt and the curtains of ignorance

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Dear Da, I’m a single child. I always have this question: why don’t I have a sibling with whom I can share things? Also, my parents have a greater realisation of the Divine, so whenever I try something out of spirituality or try to get mixed with society, they get to know things from within and always doubt my intentions and try to keep me under their influence. ๐Ÿ˜ข๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿปโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿปโ€๐Ÿ‘ง๐Ÿปโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ๐Ÿป๐Ÿƒ[…]

First thing is to discover the unique person you are, your unique goals, strengths and weaknesses rather than comparing yourself with anyone or seeking validation

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I have been in a relationship with an army special forces officer since few years. It started as a long-distance relationship since he was often on assignments โ€” we would exchange only a few messages now and then and meet every 2โ€“3 months. Even though we didnโ€™t know each other very deeply, there was always a strong connection, and neither of us walked away. We also became intimate๐Ÿคซโค๏ธ๐ŸŒ™๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ‘จ [conti]

On the contrary it is always the sign of a great inner strength to be able to love even though it is evident that he

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My friend made me a comment about my complexion which was insensitive and I was hurt or should I say my vital was hurt. He did apologise and admitted that he’s been insensitive but I decided to not talk to him till I calmed down. I did calm down I told him it’s alright but how do I deal with such comments and people? Because I can’t talk to them or face them at all. I delete them off from my brain. Is it natural? Please help me out.๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฌ

Such people are best ignored and such friends are best avoided. It shows not only an insensitivity towards others but also a superficial way of

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