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Relationships

Alok da, Human beings have this desire and ideal of unconditional love. But as they grow up, everyone comes to see that despite all the preachings about human values, emotions and whatnot, every relationship is conditional and comes with an exchange value and with the frustration of not finding it. πŸ‘¨πŸΌπŸ’”πŸ‘©πŸΌπŸ₯€πŸŒΌ[…]

Human beings are very limited in their present state of evolution. They don’t have the true knowledge nor the true power. Above all they don’t

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How can I protect myself from someone’s blackmail? I mean, I know my father’s nature. Even after telling him everything and explaining things, he’ll use the same tactic: “I’ll kill myself if you don’t get married…” etc. Sometimes he even hurts himself. How can I stop all this? This isn’t right, is it? πŸ˜₯πŸ₯€β€οΈβ€πŸ”₯πŸƒ

Nobody can stop anyone and nobody is responsible for anyone else. You are responsible only for your own life. And you should decide based on

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What do you feel about Indian weddings of late and their current event concepts? About hype creation on Instagram? The stress in jewellery, clothes, photoshoots and food. Does that engage the quality of your life and love, or only for social status and talk in society? πŸ€΅πŸΌπŸ‘°πŸΌπŸ’’πŸ’πŸ’Ž

They are not weddings but bride and bridegroom sale. I find them quite repulsive with all the show, hypocrisy, artificiality and attempt to impress others

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Sir, I am in my early 40s now. I have been the Divine Mother’s devotee since I was a girl of 9-10 years old. Now I feel how lucky I am to get Her image & to walk inside the Ashram, she still walks or drinks the water that she is still drinking/touching despite the pain I’m stuck with for a long time, sir. πŸ₯²πŸŒ»πŸ’–βœ¨[…]

Yes, I understand the sense of lost opportunities that come sometimes when we look back at life. It is inevitable because human beings live in

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My deception, which I did for a good purpose (for saving integrity within the family), is revealed and I am bashed out like anything. I don’t complain here, but I realised whatever the purpose may be, a deception is a deception. The Mother helped me learn a great lesson here. Can you please explain? πŸ˜₯πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€πŸ‘©πŸ»β€πŸ‘§πŸ»β€πŸ‘¦πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ¦‹

It is difficult to say anything as i do not know what exactly happened. Also it depends upon what you mean by conscious deception as

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There are many difficulties in my house. No one is in a position to understand or explain anything. But my problem is that I am in the last year of my MA. Right now, or even for the next few years, I have no desire to get married, but no one seems to understand this. πŸ˜£πŸ“šπŸŒΉπŸ‘¨πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘©πŸ»[…]

A simple thumb rule for our times is that one should not marry until one is psychologically ready and financially independent. One should at least

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With respect to the Divine relations, a lot of friendships in my life have fallen away due to new values emerging in life. At the same time, a lot of family relationships have become deeper and truer, and they generate a sweetness in my life, especially with parents, siblings and elders with whom I had shared a good connection before (they all have their own connection to the Divine in their own way). πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€πŸ‘©πŸ»β€πŸ‘§πŸ»β€πŸ‘¦πŸ»πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»[…]

There is no set rule of things especially because sadhana moves largely in the inner being and it is the inner state, motives, attitudes that

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