The Mother did not seem to favour the institution of marriage itself, let alone dowry. Whatever might have been the reason for instituting this system,

Being with someone as a friend or companion does not contradict your being with Sri Aurobindo and the Mother who are everywhere, in everyone and

On the contrary it is always the sign of a great inner strength to be able to love even though it is evident that he

Such people are best ignored and such friends are best avoided. It shows not only an insensitivity towards others but also a superficial way of

I understand your feelings and from your side you should do nothing to hurt either of them. The first one married you innocently with trust,

He hurt you is a truth of the past. By inability to either leave it all behind or forget his behavior you are hurting yourself

My prayers that you find the person of your dreams. It is always beautiful if one can have a perfect partner and there is peace

Quarrels don’t have any reason. They are simply the sign of a weak vital and a lack of sufficient control over oneself. They are usually

I can understand and it is no doubt challenging. You can try talking to him when he is in a bit of happier mood. If

It is best not to mix things which belong to different orders of Reality. It will create confusion. For example karmic scar, etc. The karmic

It is a difficulty that many experience. Partly due to the cinema portrayal of an ideal relationship and partly due to an obsessive streak for

It is a question of what we deeply value. If the world and its gifts matter to us then naturally the Divine will be a

I understand your feelings and fears but then it is a fact of life we need to reckon with that nobody is there forever. Even

I understand your worries. Human beings worry because they want the future to be shaped in a certain way. They try to foresee and plan