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I agree no need to look down on anyone. Their choices. But certain things i dislike. Specially quarrelsome nature. Not ok. Big fragile egos. Frivolous. I’m sure divorces are not pretty for anyone. Ugly unpleasant interactions. 💍♾️🏡👩‍❤️‍👨

I want money but not to show off money. Virtues and qualities for a good human being imp right. 

I want someone trying to be above these things. Seeking harmony. Peace. Want a stable personal relationship or what’s the point. How can one do much with life then. Should be nice and fun and easy. Enhance life. Add to it. As a team right. 

My prayers that you find the person of your dreams. It is always beautiful if one can have a perfect partner and there is peace and harmony in the house. It is no doubt very much needed, all the more because it is found the least because while everyone wants the ideal things few if any are ready to embody it. It is best, in my view, to try to become the ideal person we want to meet in our life. Perhaps this is the best way to draw such a person. It is because like knows like and is attracted towards whatever is like itself. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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