Guilt Archives - Ask Alok Da

However, yesterday I engaged in unnecessary talk with my colleague (who was bragging about her achievements), which triggered jealousy in me and I said something

I feel anxious all the time, though. And I also feel like if Mother has asked me to do something and I have not done it for whatever reason, (I feel she is talking to me all the time), I have made a grave mistake and that it will hamper my progress. Is that true? 😥🌸🌱

June 12, 2026

The Mother does not hold conversations. These things like ‘Conversations with God’ are a play of the mind and one should be always careful not

How should one deal with persistent intrusive thoughts about having unintentionally harmed someone’s career, when the mistake can be rectified but the lack of faith in the Mother’s Grace prevents moving forward? 🏢🧑🏼‍💼👩🏼‍💼😩🥀[…]

January 26, 2026

It is alright to learn from one’s mistakes, to rectify the part if it was done deliberately. But to brood over it is not only

ASK ALOK DA

AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

Ask Alok da

Guilt

My son is depressed because his girlfriend left him. Also, he thinks he is responsible because of certain vital habits he had. He doesn’t believe in God. Please tell me how to guide him. I am also getting depressed because I see him suffering. Please advise. 🙍🏼‍♂️💔😥🙏🏻🌼

Recently, I have been trying to be sincere on the path and to progress. I try to read books of the Mother / Aurobindo, listen to your talks and have started volunteering for an Auroville project online.😩💔🦋🌼[…]

I feel anxious all the time, though. And I also feel like if Mother has asked me to do something and I have not done it for whatever reason, (I feel she is talking to me all the time), I have made a grave mistake and that it will hamper my progress. Is that true? 😥🌸🌱

How should one deal with persistent intrusive thoughts about having unintentionally harmed someone’s career, when the mistake can be rectified but the lack of faith in the Mother’s Grace prevents moving forward? 🏢🧑🏼‍💼👩🏼‍💼😩🥀[…]