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Life Challenges

Dear Da, I’m a single child. I always have this question: why don’t I have a sibling with whom I can share things? Also, my parents have a greater realisation of the Divine, so whenever I try something out of spirituality or try to get mixed with society, they get to know things from within and always doubt my intentions and try to keep me under their influence. 😢🌸👨🏻‍👩🏻‍👧🏻‍👦🏻🍃[…]

First thing is to discover the unique person you are, your unique goals, strengths and weaknesses rather than comparing yourself with anyone or seeking validation

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Sir, what should I do with my current situation? I am in depression and I have almost no money. The future looks very dark. And I have become very insecure and hopeless about what to do in life. From my side, I have tried everything and all the renowned spiritual organisations across India. 😥👨🏼‍⚕️🤷🏼🦋🍃[…]

You should meet a good psychiatrist in your city and take advice from him along with whatever medicines he prescribes. Right now you are not

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I don’t know how, but in my mind, I am stuck on the fact that the growth of the Soul will invite newer challenges, and I really don’t have the strength to go through any challenges at the moment. Is seeking happiness the same as wanting the pain to stop? I’m not sure that I can tell the difference. 😣🥀❤️‍🔥🍃

Challenges are bound to come in life. It is part of the evolutionary programming. The soul helps us to navigate through these challenges with much

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Sir, the main problem with depressive medicines is that they make the body and mind always sleepy, dull and lethargic. To be honest, I don’t actually know as to how and where to progress on the Spiritual path and in Studies. Even the simplest of things, I am finding it difficult to face off. Really don’t know what to do ahead.🌧️🧑‍⚕️💊🫠

This was true of earlier medicines. But now there are much safer medicines with fewer side effects if any especially of drowsiness. There is nothing

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There are so many cases of newly married women dying by suicide because of dowry demands and the psychological pressure put on them by their in-laws. I recently heard a clip in which a mother-in-law was accusing her daughter-in-law of not wanting to have children, making allegations about her character and complaining that she was not helping with household work.🥺🥹👰🏼🥀💨[…]

All Societies are undergoing rapid and remarkable changes since the 1960s due to the action of a New Consciousness. It is shifting from the social

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How do we control overthinking? I mean, we try to reason with ourselves — telling ourselves, “Hey, these things happen; everything is fine. Such situations come and go; that’s just life — it has its ups and downs, and eventually, things will get better.” Yet, despite understanding all of this, our mind simply refuses to accept it and continue to overthink. So, what exactly can we do about that?🤯🌀🌫️🫠

It happens because the mind turns in a narrow grove. To widen the grove one needs to broaden one’s interests and activities as well as

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How can one break free from the cycle of people-pleasing, emotional blackmail, and the paralyzing fear of hurting others, especially when burdened by family trauma, financial instability, and the loss of a father, while learning to set boundaries and find inner peace without succumbing to depression or isolation? 🚫🙅🛑🏠💔🙏🏻✨

I understand that all this has led to a certain degree of suppression and hesitation in your life. What you need is a mentor whom

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