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Social Boundaries

Agreed, Alok da, but not about motive. If it feels negative and energies heavy – pulling you down then ok to say no, right and detach, why tug along.. like how you told me on vital interactions. I feel it’s draining me – even these friendships now – I did ask you earlier too – and I’m not being upfront about it and just carrying along to be nice societally.. but it doesn’t serve me now.. 🕊️🌿 […]

There is nothing wrong in being alone. In fact it is the sign of strength. To stay alone one need not judge others. What they

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I grew up thinking of homosexuality as a perversion and still it feels as such to me. However, I recently discovered that it was normalized in ancient Greece, which came as a big shock to me. What are your thoughts on homosexuality and whether it is essentially the same as sex between a man and a woman? 👨🏻‍🦱🌼👨🏻

Homosexuality (and its other aspect Lesbianism) have been known and accepted in ancient Greek as well as Hindu Society. It was considered a taboo, rather

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Alok da, I’ve been reading the message that you gave me and the Mother’s message as well, repeatedly; it soothes me and calms me down. But lately I feel so blinded and clouded by my thoughts and emotions that I’m not able to make the right decision, act in the right manner, and see things clearly. 🙍🏻‍♀️❤️‍🩹🦋[…]

You don’t need to join an Ashram to end this suffering which is primarily due to a gross mismatch between mutual expectations. Not going into

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I was listening to your recent conversation on Social Media. While discussing about body positivity, you’ve so aptly brought out the counterfactual of what if the female lead with whom the male protagonist is romanticizing happened to be ‘visually not fair and pretty’- which actually has been what I too used to think. 🫂❤️✨👩‍❤️‍👨[…]

Yes love, like most things in our life is fed by certain stereotypes and social constructs. Hence it suffers deformation and distortion like everything else.

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