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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask. 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

A sense of pride even if we know it’s wrong…A feeling of knowing things better than others, wanting to prove our knowledge. How to deal with this instinct? Should we stop discussions? Should I not talk to my friends because of this thing popping out everytime I talk to them? Some part of mine knows that I don’t know anything but when indulged into public.. while the self esteem is at stake, the pride pops up😏

Pride of course opens doors to downfall though at your age it is somewhat natural. Its remedy is to read books that open a very

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One can take sannyas or not , both are the same state, they are niskam and just going through their praraddha untouched and not multiplying their karma by getting into attachment , and both state in not in the hand of man. If someone act as vairaghi but it’s for unfulfilling desires it’s also an attachment and this type of vairagis just change the format of sansar and inviting tamogun or comfort zone🤔…

It is true that whether to be in the world or not in the world depends upon one’s unique individual temperament. But it is equally

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I have committed a sin or betrayed Sri Aurobindo by staying silent and even nodding, just going along with the flow of the conversation, when my mother, out of ignorance, called him ‘takla’ after seeing his photo on the internet? She didn’t mean anything bad, but I feel very guilty that I couldn’t stand up for my guru, my lord, who has shown me so much grace. I feel I have failed him, and I am filled with shame.🫣

There is nothing to feel ashamed or guilty or inflict harsh words upon yourself. Most human beings do such things out of ignorance, sometimes even

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I visited India in 2023 and went to Haridwar, Rishikesh, Nainital for a little break from Delhi… and found that the place was full of rubbish, the facilities were not up to standard, the general consciousness of people is not at a level where they can keep these places sacred and pure. These are beautiful places but look at the rubbish that is thrown in all of these places… We should be honest about the state of this country, a RADICAL shift of consciousness is needed … Please try to understand that we need to Change and Heal… and Grow and Develop!!! 🤨

I agree that public hygiene and collective discipline which is so important to cleanliness of public places. In the talk i was referring only to

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How to be totally surrender towards the mother? How can we surrender our mind, vital, lower part, physical and it’s difficulties to the mother? Recently i read Sri Aurobindo’s letter where the letter essence is if your surrender is not complete then you will not escape these difficulties. Spontaneously egoistic thought, feeling, lust coming and it is feeling suffocating or pain in lower part. How to be surrender our lower part which is going their own way? What is the right way to deal this stages🤨?

Surrender does not mean lack of effort. That would be tamasic surrender and will not bring any result. It means now my life is meant

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Had a dream today where I fell in love in love with a person I have never thought about much before. And that person fell in love with me in the dream. The whole thing sounds ridiculous, but I woke up feeling like it was the best dream I had in a very long time, leaving me almost disappointed that it wasn’t real, at the same tome leaving a trace of gratitude for having experienced such deep feelings of happiness inside the dream. How can such a thing happen in the dream when clearly there is no strong external connection, attraction, or contact with the person in real life?

It is a subtle contact that you had with the person and at that moment the deeper truth had a chance to express itself. Often

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