It happens to everyone because of the dichotomy that exists between our inner being and the active outer nature. Work pulls us outwards as the
Yes it is never helpful to see the real or unreal defects of anyone, let alone sadhaks. Human nature is too complex and each one
You are quite right here. But to answer to someone not on the same page, you may explain it thus that hate, anger, spitefulness, vengeance,
It is because we are not made up of one piece. There are many different parts in our nature. Some open readily and remember the
It takes time as nature tends to move in fixed groves of habit. But with persistence and perseverance, adding prayers for Her Grace to our
Guilt belongs to the world of the ego and not to the soul. The soul is untouched by guilt. It takes all experiences, pleasant and
This is not something to be processed as much as to be outgrown. It is the vestige of our animal past that has grown through
A lot of human behavior is unintentional. It is simply habit and unconsciousness. So we should be careful when we attribute motives which alone truly
One should not judge anyone, i feel, especially in a censorial spirit. This is so because each one of us has a certain angle of
What is generally called as charisma is some exceptional ability or capacity that gets reflected through the person’s outer nature. Generally it is some kind
It is a beautiful aspiration. Nourish it by taking The Mother’s Name within you. Nurture it by regular study of Sri Aurobindo and The Mother’s
Such is the nature of the world. Selfishness and meanness are its way to live. From the Yoga point of view, one must practice inner
That is a good sign in fact. Love for solitude, lack of natural inclination in activities that externalise too much is sometimes the sign of
There was a time, long back, when I read many of these things. Found all of them not only grossly inadequate and limited but also
First we should learn the lessons. All this happens because we live half consciously without understanding human nature and the rules of the game of
Yes, but not in its fullness. …
Yes, they get better if you lower the expectations and keep a healthy distance. It is good to respect each other’s sensibility and not say
We don’t need to deal with everyone and everything. Most of the time ignoring is the best and most powerful method. It means doing what