Home » Relationships » Not just in a relationship, Alok da, friendships too.. any human interaction. If the person is taking you for granted and you feel it’s not healthy, then you have to speak up, right? Express your truth. Not about their flaws. But their behaviour with us. Being clear and frank there helps, right? 👨🏼❤️🩹👩🏼🍂
A lot of human behavior is unintentional. It is simply habit and unconsciousness. So we should be careful when we attribute motives, which alone truly matters. Rights and responsibilities are a different thing. Generally, it doesn’t apply in friendship, which is more about spontaneous sharing and caring. When it is not spontaneous, then it is no more friendship but a contract.
Affectionately
Alok Da
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Yes that is true. However the so-called learned people are among the most difficult to change. They are imprisoned in scriptural knowledge and the prison gets strengthened by the respect and adulation received by …
That is a vast subject and cannot be dealt in a letter alone beyond the basics.
You may find details in various talks as well Sri Aurobindo’s Letters on Yoga.
A lot of human behavior is unintentional. It is simply habit and unconsciousness. So we should be careful when we attribute motives which alone truly matters. Rights and
