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Dada, please tell if the following is a sign that he is an obstacle to the path of Yoga? Why does it happen every time I am being approached by my romantic partner close enough with the intention of lovemaking or simply touching or being simply romantic, I feel a strong response of blackout (momentary loss of consciousness) and feel withdrawn with respect to consciousness. πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

It is not because he or anybody is an obstacle. All obstacles are within us. Normally our physical body and biology are hardwired to respond

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When sharing a tight space with my sibling, I end up fighting over minuscule things, such as when responsibilities are not shared equally or when she doesn’t keep the place neat and clean. I don’t want to get mentally affected by these things, but at the same time, I don’t want to take on the whole responsibility on behalf of both people. πŸ‘₯[…]

It should be shared, either by way of demarcation of responsibilities or else sharing of the common work. This will help both of you, especially

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Da, I don’t want to get married, but my single mother wants me to get married and have children, and the usual things. But I don’t want to get attached to these things. I fear that if I get married, I will have the worst marriage, and almost whenever the topic of marriage comes up, I almost imagine doing the worst things and pray for the worst to happen, and I don’t get involved in marriage. So help me, how to be? πŸ˜₯

Whether good or bad, married life requires a very different kind of orientation. Initially, especially with children, it can and usually does come in the

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There is a girl I don’t know anything about at my university, but I always feel extremely attracted to her every time I see her. I don’t know why, because no other girl made me feel this way. Today in the morning, I saw her in a group of friends, but I didn’t feel confident enough to come up and introduce myself. πŸ’‘[…]

Situations and circumstances are generally not due to the Mother’s intervention or because of Her sanction. Things often come due to concealed desires that are

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