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What if the person pushes you to see your own flaws and work on them and be better, grow spiritually, not maybe in the nicest way or knowingly but sub consciously? As the soul within feels awakened.. somehow knows..ย ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’โš“๐Ÿ—๏ธ

Lot of confusion on the surface, no clarity, but some courage to seek and know the truth..ย Like showing you the mirrorโ€ฆย 

It is never a good way to show the real or unreal defects of others. A relationship should be based on showing or rather bringing out the best in each other. Defects are in everybody and often they are simply raw materials which if rightly developed can even turn into helpful virtues. Besides, people don’t change simply because they are told by someone about it. Most often it leads to an increasing resistance. The best way in a relationship is to love the person in the best part but leave them to be their natural self in other aspects without putting any pressure to change. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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