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A boy has approached me again. He had 3 years ago too. Then things didn’t work out.Β Is he right for me? How do you know he is right for me? Spiritually an advanced soul?πŸ’πŸ’’πŸ‘©β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘¨

Spiritual advancement is not an indicator of compatibility or harmony. What brings true harmony and happiness in a relationship is true love and that is very rare in human beings. If one finds even a little bit of true love then one should feel blessed. Spiritual inclinations have little to do with it. What matters is acceptance and the willingness to sacrifice to keep and build a relationship. A basic compatibility or affinities may be good to start with. Rest has to be developed. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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