Why feel shame for doing what is natural to a good wife and a good mother? All that is needed is to turn your care
What you are experiencing is the natural outcome of an excessive attachment. Attachment comes naturally in love as it takes a personal form and connects
It is wonderful to see the way you are taking all this with the perfect attitude of an understanding benevolence as well as detachment and
Marraige is only a biological necessity that has been institutionalised by society into marraige. There is nothing deep or sacred about it. What is sacred
Whether right or wrong one should follow the path directed by one’s own temperament and inner need. Others, including parents, understand only if your needs
You can try explaining to her that a critical negative attitude towards others harms both. It only strengthens this tendency. Everyone has their faults and
One should focus primarily on one’s own inner growth and outer progress first. Relations are quite a waste of time. Yes one should have a
I understand your problem but there are no easy solutions to Alcohol because most often the person himself does not want to quit it. The
I understand your point completely. Not sure about the saints who say that one should completely subordinate oneself to parents, family, etc. If they say
It depends upon what plane you are witnessing the same phenomenon. In the highest vision, everything has been marked out, the steps of our journey
Yes, the very same memories that help connect the dots of life become a source of pain when the heart-strings are snapped suddenly. The root
While this is a decision that only you can take, I can only provide some general guidance in this matter.
First and foremost relationships
I can understand your pain. She has come under the influence of hostile forces as happens sometimes when there is a premature turning and the
The Divine is the unchanging stable basis of everything but He is also in the change. That is why people are compelled to change despite
Love has nothing to do with letting anybody do anything they like including harm themselves and others. Love means, in this context at least, doing
I completely understand your pain. As this is growing more common and since we cannot change people, the only workable solution is to have proper
Love is the key to the doors of bliss, it alone has wings to fly us to the Divine, the strength to sacrifice everything to
If such is the case then marraige is a facade and unlikely to be a help for the progress of either partner. A commonality of