You have to simply refuse, persistently. Nobody can marry someone against their wishes. And if you do not have the courage to stand for what
There is no such rule for the girl to be younger than the boy for marriage. It is mainly a social conditioning, partly for progeny
Whether from the past or the present, one should be one’s true self and live according to the truth one has seen and is experiencing
The Mother would want Her children to be courageous, straightforward and frank in their dealings with people. Perhaps someone needs to tell him that his
There is no need to blame yourself in any way. Love does not depend upon being good or not being good enough. Love for one’s
Marriages, I feel, now are more for money and status, convenience, than love.
Marraiges are outdated now. A greater flexibility and plasticity are needed
Love is the truth we must always hold on to and guard as a real treasure. Bitterness and grudge are reactions of the ego and
They are not weddings but bride and bridegroom sale. I find them quite repulsive with all the show, hypocrisy, artificiality and attempt to impress others
Yes, I understand the sense of lost opportunities that come sometimes when we look back at life. It is inevitable because human beings live in
Everything is possible if there is enough goodwill on both sides. Pray for him, for his well being. Accept your mistake and take the resolve
It is difficult to say anything as i do not know what exactly happened. Also it depends upon what you mean by conscious deception as
A simple thumb rule for our times is that one should not marry until one is psychologically ready and financially independent. One should at least
There is no set rule of things especially because sadhana moves largely in the inner being and it is the inner state, motives, attitudes that
It is not cowardice but a sense of social behaviour inbuilt in many that prevents them from going against elders even if they are wrong.
This happens because there are several parts in us, each with different degrees of development. Usually it is a part of the mind that understands
Finding the soul or the Divine does not inevitably lead to a constant living in the Divine. Much depends also on what one means by
Take The Mother and Sri Aurobindo as your parents and turn towards them for everything. Pray to them for freedom from all fear and anxiety
Bringing up a child can be a very challenging task and sometimes it does require quite a bit of sacrifice. But the child has not