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Alok da, always you wished pure love in your life, an eternal bonds when you get it surprisingly with out even thinking that it could be possible it then why is there a little fear lingering in your head of losing it? How can you get rid of that thought🤨? 

Sometimes our secret wish suddenly gets fulfilled, most unexpectedly because unknown to our outer being, a stage is being prepared in the fields of life for the meeting of souls that yearn for something similar. The fear that follows is because so far, at least more often or not things, especially love stories end up badly, either in a compromise or else breaking apart. But this need not be so if we have faith and are willing to undertake the tapasya of love. The tapasya of love is to nurture the fire, treasuring it and tending it with care and sacrifice, to let this fire be fed by the diviner elements in us so that it refines and purifies instead of degrading us. It is not easy as it requires a great inner strength and wideness. But if one can fulfil the conditions then the result is very enriching and rewarding.

Affectionately,

Alok Da 

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