It is a common difficulty nowadays since an accelerated evolution is opening doors to a higher consciousness for quite a few. It is temporarily creating a kind of disorder, a higher luminous disorder if I may say so. But slowly a higher balance is being reset. Until then those whose doors have been opened to higher things are in circumstances wherein others, especially the partner is closed, they have no option but to endure with faith and engage in a kind of tapasya to prepare for the higher things. When one is ready and the time is ripe then God and Destiny will find the way.
Affectionately,
Alok Da