Choosing the parents happens when the psychic being is developed and able to choose the conditions of earthly life in detail. Until then, it is only a general choice about the conditions and not particular details. Until a certain degree of development is completed, the psychic being only goes by a certain intuitive sense about the kind of experience it needs and lands up there. It is only later that it can see clearly and choose the parents that would be helpful for its specific work and mission.
Affectionately,
Alok Da


