We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

In vital education Mother in conversation with a sadhak has spoken about tamas in children, due to which they only are pulled towards exciting things . How to educate them, they’re vital in a better way🤔?
Vital education is the way which primarily implies two movements. First is to discipline and regulate it mainly through sports and methodical physical education. Second

Why did Krishna not tell the Pandavas to fight the war immediately when they lost the game of dice? Why did he let them suffer even more by letting them go for 13 long years to exile😏?
One of the purposes of Sri Krishna’s Advent was to establish a reign of Dharma. For this the Pandavas were his chosen instruments. But the

Alok da I just want to meet Vibhuti’s of Ma and Sri Aurobindo it’s an inner intense aspiration…Why such need ? Is this a valid demand to Ma? I am been know to have a stubborn nature and so is it just one of my Zid? Is it even possible☺️?
I am sure there are a number of Vibhutis of Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, some conscious while some unconscious, engaged in Her Work in

My question was regarding dealing with colleagues at workplace especially when there are small talks are going on regarding very trivial matters. What should be our approach towards that! If we don’t get indulged in that discussion they treat us as outcasts!! So I was asking how to deal with everybody consciously with a right attitude at workplace which I suppose one of the most challenging aspects of professional life😯?
In the work place, it is best to remain professional and focused on the work. As to people, our interactions with them should be pleasant

I feel deeply disappointed in my relationship because my partner is very cold when it comes to expressing his feelings. He shows no excitement in life and rarely appreciates me. We never talk about our relationship, which leaves me feeling disconnected and alone. Often, he comes up with excuses for everything. Sometimes, he puts in effort and does a lot, but other times, he does nothing at all. We are married and live together, but it feels like I am the only one who expresses emotions and goes the extra mile to make things work. I constantly find myself questioning where we stand because we never openly discuss our emotions or the state of our relationship. I even suggested going to a counselor to help us communicate better, but he dismissed the idea, saying, “I’m not mad.” It’s exhausting to be the only one constantly trying while he remains emotionally distant and unresponsive😥.
Most relationship generally tend to become so. After the initial vital flush that attracts and draws people together is over. The usual mechanical round of

What if you meet your soulmate after Marriage💘?
It is important to be sure of being the soul mate or at least a deeper soul link. The difference between the usual extra marital

Why The Mother and Sri Aurobindo didn’t transform their own body🤔?
Sri Aurobindo and the Mother never promised physical transformation of their body or any body in their lifetime. They always said that the physical transformation

What is a black hole in space? Why does it exist? And does it have a spiritual significance🧐?
Black hole is simply called so because it traps Light that enters it. Once it enters, even Light cannot escape out. This is because of…

Alok da, I’m coming to realise how much of the entire political establishment, military, bureaucracy each and everyone’s sons/daughters/nephew/niece is in US. Recently Former US ambassador to India said “I met a Governer of a State (in India)… she said her most important investment is in the US.. her children. If you look at the number of children of senior officials from India in the US, it tells you something about the relationship”🤔 [Conti]
But why should we be worried about what the ruling class does or does not do? Besides, the depressed classes do the same thing when

My partner enjoys eating non-veg, drinking, and partying, whereas I am the complete opposite—I prefer a quiet lifestyle, vegetarian food, and don’t like partying. We even tried to make the relationship work by agreeing that he could go to parties if he wanted, but he shouldn’t expect me to join. Despite our efforts to do our own things and tried to live in harmony, we still end up fighting so much. I’m not sure what to do🤨?
This is unlikely to work. The divergence and dissonance is too fundamental to be overlooked for life. Each doing their own thing is not harmony

Why do some people turn to self-harm or experience suicidal thoughts when they face disappointment or unfulfilled desires in life or relationships😥? What leads to such extreme emotional responses, and how can these feelings be understood and addressed?
It is generally due to a fragile, over sensitive ego-personality and a weak vital full of sentimentality. It could be something one is born with

Can you please advise what is the right space between a couple, I don’t see balance around either they are stuck to each other like a Fevicol (your words 🙂) or they are not bothered what the other person is doing saying we give each other space so what should be the ideal?
Space and freedom is necessary for growth so that each can progress along one’s own unique line. At the same time each supports the other

Sir, please explain Shiva & Shakti tatva in detail whenever you get time. Is shakti the same as Parvati🤔?
Traditionally Ma Parvati is regarded as Shakti because Shiva represents the Force aspect of the One Satchidananda, just as Brahma represents the Sat aspect and

I have another question which is about the Divine will. How do we understand what is the Divine will and whether whatever I am doing is in confirmation with the Divine will🤨? Is inner peace the only indication that my being and whatever I do is confirming with the Divine will?
Normally when we speak of the Divine Will we feel it is about the outer choices and the resulting events and circumstances. Especially we make

Why did Sri Krishna make Devaki Ma and Vasudev and Ma Yashoda forget that he was the Avatar🤔?
Because if they remembered and revealed it to others, it would have jeopardised Sri Krishna’s work, which among other things was to set an example

I know that I’m not a sattwic soul; my nature seems more tamsik. I experience jealousy, I desire to be the best, and I suspect that I have some ego. When I do Puja, it sometimes feels mechanical. How can I overcome these qualities🫤?
Nobody is an ideal sattwic person to begin with. Most human beings are subject to the same human difficulties as you mention. But with a

Sometimes, scrolling through social media and seeing other people’s photos creates the illusion that their lives are perfect—free from struggles or worries. It seems as if they have effortlessly found true love, married their soulmate, and stepped into their “happily ever after,” as though everything has fallen into place flawlessly. But your own life😥,[Conti]…
Have you not heard the story about the advertisement of hell. It is overactive and its sole purpose is to turn humanity away or since

Looking at the current situation in India I believe democracy is not working, its more of a hindrance, in one of you talks you talked about Sanathan Dharma, you talked a new type of politics, can you please elaborate on this? What can be a new way of politics for India🤔?
Democracy is the child of Reason and hence was meant only as a stop gap system. Its strength lies in uplifting the average man to