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My husband had a habit of trading in the stock market, which caused us to lose a lot of money earlier. We worked hard to pay off the debts, but I feel he has started trading again. He also pretends to go to the office, but HR confirmed he hasn’t been coming. Whenever I try to talk to him, we end up fighting, and he doesn’t give me clear answers😪.

It is an addiction, an obsession so to say and hence very difficult to get rid of unless there is a sincere will to get rid of it. Even then it needs perseverance or else some shock (as happened earlier) to stop it for some time at least.

Remind him of the past losses and the difficult period after that. If nothing helps please seek professional help.

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