Home ยป Relationships ยป How can we avoid taking for granted someone who loves us and takes cares for our needs/wants/desires without asking for anything in return, we usually hurt them through our actions๐?
Yes, that is quite a correct observation. Instead of returning love for love we end up becoming dependent upon it and taking it for granted. This is due to a certain degree of self-centeredness and needs to be corrected by becoming conscious of our wrong response and sensitive to the other person’s needs .ย
Affectionately,
Alok Da
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