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When two people who were once in love decide to part ways, what’s the right way to behave afterwards? Is it fair for one person to react impulsively, by blocking, avoiding, and acting like nothing ever existed between them, just because the relationship didn’t work out😢?

Such an outward behavior (blocking, acting like nothing existed) shows that perhaps there never was love from the person who is doing so. The person obviously does not know what love is. Most of humanity is sadly like that. Their love is as ephemeral as the wisp of a cloud. Love is always beautiful, in its parting of ways or the joining. It never blames or complaints but takes all the responsibility upon oneself. These feelings of disappointment may cross for a moment like passing clouds but the flame of true love of born even for a moment never dies.

Well if a partner behaves thus on parting because its expectations are not fulfilled, one should let go and be happy that Grace and Destiny saved you from what never really was love.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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When two people who were once in love decide to part ways, what’s the right way to behave afterwards? Is it fair for one person to react impulsively, by blocking, avoiding, and acting like nothing ever existed between them, just because the relationship didn’t work out😢?

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