To forget oneself the simplest way to remain engaged in work, not done for personal gains and profit, not done for name and fame but as a service and worship of the Divine. Whatever you receive in life take it as a gift of Her Grace and whatever goes from you do it in the spirit of offering to Her. In joy and suffering, in good and bad, in all situations and circumstances take it as a Grace and practice equanimity. Finally remember the Mother as often as you can until thinking about Her becomes a normal way of life and thinking and worrying about yourself becomes unnatural if not impossible.
Affectionately,
Alok Da