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After The Mother’s physical withdrawl, Champaklal ji had practically no outer work as his whole life was centered around Sri Aurobindo and The Mother.

What do these terms mean? — FALSEHOOD, TRUTH & LIGHT that we must aspire for? Kindly enlighten. 💡✨

September 8, 2026

Truth is the stable Divine basis, the fundamental, indestructible, unchanging Divine foundation of everything. That which can change or is subject to change, for example

How is this ok? How is what is happening ok? How can you call this place an Ashram and allow these things to happen? What am I not able to see? What is it, Mother? Help me, please. My limited mind is not able to comprehend. 🫨🙏🏻🪷

September 8, 2026

I am not sure what things you are referring to and what is the basis and source of information. Having lived for 40 years in

Sometimes people who do not know anything about The Mother and Sri Aurobindo look at their photo and, out of curiosity, ask, “Who are they?” How to answer to this question? 📖🙏🏻🪷 […]

September 8, 2026

If the curiosity arises in a natural course and you feel it is genuine, you can do the following.

Tell them that Sri Aurobindo

Alok Da, I have got attached to someone after a physical intimacy (kind of night stands – about 4-5) but he is not. how to handle it. Actually I thought I am in love with him…so I allowed all that to happen…else i happened to be someone who wouldn’t let anyone touch me. What should I do? I am afraid of conveying my feelings to him as I know he is not going to reciprocate. I am just always craving his proximity, which i know is my problem.. How can I be at peace?? I want to detach myself from those feelings i have towards him?

September 7, 2026

What has happened has happened. It serves no purpose looking back and feeling bad. Life gives several learning lessons. This is one of them and

Kindly refer to the Mother’s experience described in her Prayer dated 26 November 1915, presented in the “Prayers and Meditations”. 📖✨🙏🏻 […]

September 7, 2026

This prayer has been taken up by me but it is difficult to trace it on auromaa by me. I will check with the webmaster

My niece is in Class-9th. She is facing some problems in her class. Students ignore her in the class. She is good at studies. They say she has an attitude. She says that she feels alone in the class, especially during recess. 🏫🤝🌼[…]

September 7, 2026

Children who are either above or below the average face this isolation in the class. It is more so if the child is inwardly more

My mother daily recites the Hanuman Chalisa (11 times), Durga Chalisa, and Siddha Kunjika Stotram. She learned these practices from an astrologer’s podcast, which also recommended keeping water nearby during the Hanuman Chalisa and later drinking it as prasad. 📿🪔🙏🏻 […]

September 7, 2026

I often encourage her to keep her worship simple and inwardly focused, but much of it seems mechanical and mixed with a fear that the

It is good to be deliberate about being kind and grateful towards others, even those close to you, right? It seems like a simple and very important thing. It is good to be deliberate about doing 🤝💛🌿

September 7, 2026

The first thing is to learn to be simple, like a child who does not judge or overthink but trusts life and destiny, does well

I’m going through a low phase- physical as well as anxiety problems. What I want to tell you is that last night Mother came to my dream wearing a long kurti and trousers, mostly pink-coloured, and told someone, “Tell her to read the book, The Mother”. I’ve been reading this since yesterday. 💭📖🙏🏻 […]

September 7, 2026

It means that Reading The Mother will free you from all fears. Read Chapter 3 and you will understand.

In any case one needs

My own identity is so mixed up. How to find the Truth within me in daily life?! Yes, I keep aspiring for Light & Truth because Mother says so. All inside is like obscure and very ordinary and material, a physical existence with just a bit of vital and mind here and there. Your answers trigger my emotions because I am failing to find anything very deep, true and pure, high and Divine. What should I do then? 🔎💡🪷 […]

September 7, 2026

What you are experiencing is a passage, a transition that everyone experiences. But the fact that you feel drawn in some way, however vaguely is

How to know what is the truth and what is opinion in our day to day life activities? 🤔💡🌼

September 7, 2026

Truth, at least ultimate truth should by definition be ‘something’ that does not change. All that is subject to change can be at best a

Dear Alok da, For the last 2 months I have been having dreams of Siddha Yoga Sadhaks and the dreams are symbolic like a Sadhak is giving orders to someone like a king, someone who shows more emotions from outside but from inside bows down to the Guru as a formality! How should these dreams be understood? 💭🧘🙏🏻 […]

September 7, 2026

Yes it is never helpful to see the real or unreal defects of anyone, let alone sadhaks. Human nature is too complex and each one

Can you comment on this Cockroach Janata Party that has recently been started? 🪳🗳️🇮🇳

September 7, 2026

On another note about the new ‘Cockroach party’ the lesser said the better. If I am not mistaken the idea is clearly borrowed from Franz

Dear Alok da, I am getting very bored this summer vacation. Then I get irritated and angry and see a lot of phone. What do I do? Please help me! 😔🤳🏻🪴

September 7, 2026

Seeing phone makes us lose concentration and opens doors to even more agitation. Instead put down the phone and open your mind and heart to

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