AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

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Wanted to know how to build a harmonious relationship with parents. This is for me and my wife. We have different value system than our parents. Even different aspirations. But, we are also not detached, very much emotionally attached. We live in different cities, but whenever we visit, it causes a lot of disharmony. There is happiness to meet, spend time, build memories. But, there is an underlying disharmony. They have their strong opinions and they impose that constantly. 😄[conti]

Yes it is quite challenging partly due to the generation gap and partly due to a tectonic shift in the social order itself. Trying to

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Why is this happening everywhere, in places we would never expect. Even India is supporting a Palestinian state in the UN. But India won’t tell their people to fly Palestinian flags at Indian government buildings.Please tell me what is happening. Had Israeldone something wrong, against their swadharma? It looks like the other nations are not following the truth. Am I mistaken😬? [conti]

Men and nations are impelled by a force much greater than their own. They are instruments of the Divine Will that accomplishes itself through War

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Why is it that when someone chooses not to follow conventional paths—like pursuing a Masters or PhD, having children or a traditional job—and instead lives differently without glorifying their struggle and challenges, people/society often dismiss it as taking the ā€˜easy path,’ while glorifying conventional struggles as more valuable🤨?

Yes because most people believe that the path of life they have chosen is the best or the only true path. Besides every life has

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Dada I want to silent my mind. From 5 years I am regularly listening all your Auromaa talks. i practice concentration in my heart with mother presence, some time I had some beautiful experiences but I can’t proceed further, asking always mother for help but I am not able to silent my mind and I feel this is the obstacle that stopping me. I am moving in one place from 3 to 4 years please help me 😐

Silencing the mind is not an easy thing. What one should try instead is to quieten the mind, to fill the thoughts with peace. It

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Ā I feel an immense weight on my heart because I realize that I’ve done everything wrong. I entered into a relationship with someone driven by my own desires for materialistic things and personal needs, to fulfill them, without truly considering his genuine feelings. My intentions weren’t pure, and the foundation of this relationship was flawed from the beginning. Now, I can’t help but feel that I’ve used him, and this guilt is consuming me 😄

First thing you need to understand is that nobody is responsible for anyone else. Besides things change, people evolve, relationships shift because nothing is static

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In liking a person romantically, I often tell myself, ā€œif it is meant to be, it will happenā€. Or, ā€œdon’t force things, let them occur naturally and spontaneouslyā€. But the irony is often that when you tell such things to yourself you get into an inactive state and the other person gets into a relationship during that time. In fact my mother told me, ā€œif your father had not openly disclosed his feelings, we would have never marriedā€.🤨 [Conti]

This is not a defeatist strategy but indeed a wise thing to do. One should not push the doors of destiny too hard to force

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