AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

Day to Day Life

Few questions: Earlier since last 19 months I was eating veg. food without garlic and onion, though always it was a problem to our family, still I was continuing the same. Now just few days before after choosing the Mother’s Path I started eating onion and garlic. Is it ok or it is better to continuing food without onion and garlic as I am habituated with it🤔?

Onion is tamasic in properties. As far as sadhana goes, Sattwic vegetarian food, the kind which you were taking, is anyday…

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My sister hasn’t scored well in NEET and isn’t getting any MBBS college. She doesn’t have any inner calling or conviction to decide what she should pursue. We were thinking of admitting her to a BAMS college. But everyone is advising that there is no scope for an Ayurvedic doctor. Can you guide me regarding this and tell me what can be career options after pursuing BAMS🤨?

One does not study a branch of knowledge for career and money but for the joy of learning, gaining knowledge in the field of interest,

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I need to know Java as basic knowledge for a course called ‘Data Structures and Algorithms’ in order to get even a chance at acceptance at the top university for a masters in computer science 💻/ cybersecurity, even though the track I would be selecting is ‘Policy’ (because I don’t have an undergraduate CS degree and rather a business degree) which does not require much programming in the grand scheme of things. I have a few dilemmas. One is that this entire path to achieve a masters is not appealing to me because of the debt it will create for me, although my father is willing to support me for the entire cost, I will still owe him and it will also be a huge pressure to not fail because he has set some expectations along with loaning me the money. The other dilemma is that the content itself is a bore. The only way to learn is by staring at a screen for 23 hours of the day out of 24. If I really committed to this, my reality is to just sit and stare at my laptop to go through course content (which is online) and even if I found an in person course to take, the content itself is such a bore! It’s absolute gibberish… I don’t have any passion or interest in this subject and yet I have advertised myself as such because my current role is as a business development associate for an IT/cybersecurity organization, where creating your own brand is valuable in finding opportunities, networking etc. and I’ve even told my father and rest of my family that I am committed to starting to get the masters degree next year and have taken baby steps towards this path.I’ve realized their concern is just that I push myself and don’t stay in one place, and that masters is the only way to get real paying opportunities in the field I am in. That may be true, but I abhor sitting all day and staring at a screen when I know other careers exist that can also pay just as well and don’t require me to do that. I recently discovered a path which I think could be better suited for me, and that is skilled trades, such as an electrician. As a woman, this a less common route to take, and often when women do take it, it is because they are coming from low income and this career pathway is well funded by the US government, so it is very inexpensive, and also women who are able to handle well the type of men we generally should avoid, like those from an incarcerated background. So ultimately my dilemma is, how do I explain to my family these thoughts when I have grown a lot from the past and this will re-ignite all their doubts about me because I have made many mistakes which have been rash and caused them to lose trust or faith in my ability to think clearly?

You should listen to the impulsion in your heart, whether it pays much or not, whether family will understand and support you or not, whether

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 Just wanted to ask you like I am pursuing MBA and completed my BBA degree too but still not I am sooo confused what too doo not finding exactly what I love and if I don’t get a job before my MBA completion then I have to home and my parents will start forcing Me for marriage they were traditional parents 24-25 mai Shaadi is good and all u have too also even if I say yes too any guy then didn’t allow me to have attest 1 – 1.5 year before marriage …. Feeling soo tensed while thinking about this 1 percent agar job nhi lagi toh .. also at this point I feel I want to live my life enjoy tick list my bucket list … how too deal with this how to make my parents thinking understand my perspective and all😐..

It is not easy to convince parents if they have fixed ideas. But if one stays firm they eventually concede. You should have courage and

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The Peace and Quietude within me is increasing day by day but I’m having to protect it like a precious flame. When I work it’s fine, mixing with others is fine (in small doses), and all the other outer movements I’m finding ok. However, at certain points I become quite externalised and then feel a tremendous pain coming out of touch with this inner quietude and then I have to sit and concentrate to regain it. It comes back quicker each time is what I’ve noticed, but is it ok to avoid certain people, situations, interactions if it causes me to become so externalised 🤨? I don’t want to be ascetic but then I also don’t feel like frankly that I’m at the point where I can just do whatever and not lose that inner peace and joy from Mother. I still feel like it’s in the beginning fragile stage [Conti]

It is certainly important to guard this precious treasures that are gifts of the Divine Grace, more important than guardian material treasures. Don’t we safeguard

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As you said, choose the career as per swabhava and swadharma. I have concluded that my nature and temperament best fits for, a professor in university. I don’t want to get added in the rat race of MBA and UPSC people. I want a peaceful life, lots of time, exploration, travel, and a platform from where I can bring some changes. I can see myself doing best as a professor in future. This is my highest aspiration. But not with my subject commerce, I can go with psychology, philosophy, history but not commerce😊. 

Basically into teaching. So you can shift to graduation in a subject of your choice such as philosophy or ….

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Sometimes in personal life we ​​have to lie because the other person is not ready to listen to the truth or he opposes it very strongly, he gets very angry and there is an atmosphere of unrest, what should we do in this situation, because nowadays whenever I tell a lie, this line starts inside me: निर्मल मन जन सो मोहि पावा। मोहि कपट छल छिद्र न भावा॥ [A person with a pure mind attains me. I do not like deceit, fraud, or malice.]😥

One should never tell a lie. But that does not mean that one is compelled to tell the truth. First of all one does not

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