AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

Day to Day Life

 Just wanted to ask you like I am pursuing MBA and completed my BBA degree too but still not I am sooo confused what too doo not finding exactly what I love and if I don’t get a job before my MBA completion then I have to home and my parents will start forcing Me for marriage they were traditional parents 24-25 mai Shaadi is good and all u have too also even if I say yes too any guy then didn’t allow me to have attest 1 – 1.5 year before marriage …. Feeling soo tensed while thinking about this 1 percent agar job nhi lagi toh .. also at this point I feel I want to live my life enjoy tick list my bucket list … how too deal with this how to make my parents thinking understand my perspective and all😐..

It is not easy to convince parents if they have fixed ideas. But if one stays firm they eventually concede. You should have courage and

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The Peace and Quietude within me is increasing day by day but I’m having to protect it like a precious flame. When I work it’s fine, mixing with others is fine (in small doses), and all the other outer movements I’m finding ok. However, at certain points I become quite externalised and then feel a tremendous pain coming out of touch with this inner quietude and then I have to sit and concentrate to regain it. It comes back quicker each time is what I’ve noticed, but is it ok to avoid certain people, situations, interactions if it causes me to become so externalised 🤨? I don’t want to be ascetic but then I also don’t feel like frankly that I’m at the point where I can just do whatever and not lose that inner peace and joy from Mother. I still feel like it’s in the beginning fragile stage [Conti]

It is certainly important to guard this precious treasures that are gifts of the Divine Grace, more important than guardian material treasures. Don’t we safeguard

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As you said, choose the career as per swabhava and swadharma. I have concluded that my nature and temperament best fits for, a professor in university. I don’t want to get added in the rat race of MBA and UPSC people. I want a peaceful life, lots of time, exploration, travel, and a platform from where I can bring some changes. I can see myself doing best as a professor in future. This is my highest aspiration. But not with my subject commerce, I can go with psychology, philosophy, history but not commerce😊. 

Basically into teaching. So you can shift to graduation in a subject of your choice such as philosophy or ….

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Sometimes in personal life we ​​have to lie because the other person is not ready to listen to the truth or he opposes it very strongly, he gets very angry and there is an atmosphere of unrest, what should we do in this situation, because nowadays whenever I tell a lie, this line starts inside me: निर्मल मन जन सो मोहि पावा। मोहि कपट छल छिद्र न भावा॥ [A person with a pure mind attains me. I do not like deceit, fraud, or malice.]😥

One should never tell a lie. But that does not mean that one is compelled to tell the truth. First of all one does not

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Dear Alok da, I have a difficulty in work. I want to remain always the important person in the team, getting to do the impactful stuffs in the project. I feel a bit dejected when this doesn’t happen. Is this due to hidden ambition or desire? I know this is an obstacle to inner life, I end up feeling restless during meditation and lose Her Presence and contact, feel guilty, but keep repeating it. Can you please help me suggest ways to remain calm and focused on feeling Her Presence irrespective of the outer conditions😥.

Yes, it is a form of ambition which is quite natural at your age. But the paradox is that the more we want to be

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Does living in an unorganised and dependent way impact our overall well-being and personal growth? I often find myself lazy and disorganised, heavily relying on my mother and wife for almost everything, whether it’s household chores, cooking, or managing daily tasks. When they’re not around, I neglect my responsibilities, leave the house in a mess, avoid cleaning utensils, and let things pile up🫨.

It of course impacts us, outwardly by drawing unhealthy forces in the atmosphere and inwardly by creating chaos within. Basically by our thoughts, feelings and

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No matter how much effort I make to organise our home it ends up in clutter, specially inside the drawers and cupboards, I am trying to change and get a bit organised as lot of time is wasted in looking for things but my son as well my husband are also some one who just dumps things in drawers etc, can you please advise as if I organise one corner the other gets disorganised plus many days I am running around and don’t get time to organise 😥? 

So it means you have two children to look after as is common in many Indian households due to strictly defining gender roles, – men

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