Generic selectors
Exact matches only
Search in title
Search in content
Post Type Selectors
Topics
Note: The tag system has just been implemented. It may take some time before all Q&A posts are fully covered under the relevant topics.

X
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
Y
Z
#
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
Y
Z
#
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
Y
Z
#
No matching topics found.
Subscribe
Instagram Facebook
Visit auromaa.org for more talks of
Dr. Alok Pandey
Generic selectors
Exact matches only
Search in title
Search in content
Post Type Selectors
ASK ALOK DA
Ask Your Question
Instagram Facebook

auromaa.org for more talks of
Dr. Alok Pandey

AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
Ask Alok da

I have a habit of saying “No” to everything and everyone, rejecting requests or opportunities at first, regardless of whether they are small request or a big decision. My initial response is almost always a firm “No.” However, after spending a long time in a state of confusion and indecision, I eventually give in and say “Yes.”If I choose not to go ahead with something, I feel like I might have missed out on an important experience or opportunity. On the other hand, if I do proceed with it, I often find myself wondering why I agreed to it in the first place😬.

The ability to say No is a power but it also indicates an inability to trust easily. It is almost like seeing the problematic or difficult side of everything.  What needs to be done is to step back and stay inwardly quiet and then feel the answer in the depths of your heart. Then go ahead with that decision offering it and the consequences to God. As an interim measure you can always tell the person that you would like to give it a thought and revert in a while. Rushing to say Yes is often worse than rushing to say No. An impulsive Yes is often a rash overconfidence whereas an impulsive No is sign of caution. The mind cannot decide in such a case because it doesn’t have the key to the future. But the heart has an intuitive access to the future and the right thing to do provided you step back and quieten the mind. Try tuning in to the inmost heart and say Yes or No from there.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

Share this…

Related Posts

Dada, I’m going through a breakup phase right now and I don’t feel like getting out of bed or reading the books of the Master’s. Not only that, over the past one year, I’ve observed that all of my friends are being removed from my life in one way or the other. 💔😓🌸🦋[…]

August 2, 2026

It is a sign that you have evolved. It is the sign of sudden progress leading to the dying away of the past and the birth of a new life. There will be an intermediary phase whence you may feel lonely but once this phase is over …

Read More >

I am confused. Everyone around me seems to have some goal in life that they walk towards, and accordingly take decisions that lead them to that goal. It could be any kind of goal, small or big. I only had one when I was little, but it seems unachievable, so I only pursued it as a hobby. 💗🙄🪷🍂[…]

August 2, 2026

It is very important to have a goal. Without a goal our life moves by the drift of waves which is what is meant by going by the flow. It means letting life carry us unthinkingly to ..

Read More >
× Bonne Fete