Yes it is because of the excess attachment to the form (which has its place and importance) that love suffers. Forms are not permanent but love can still be permanent, at least outlast the form if we learn to love people in their deep essence, love them from our soul depths and, love without expectation, wants, demands, simply for the joy of loving. It is because we don’t know how to love thus that we suffer the sense of loss and feel distraught in love.Â
Affectionately,
Alok Da