AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

Is it wrong of me to distance myself from someone i love if they drag down my mental health? If they always induce anxiety, always stress me, always depress me but i still love them? They really need me, without me they would become worse, but i struggle a lot trying to put up with them😰.

It is best to emotionally detach and distance yourself from people who drag you down. Whether you wish to help them or not will depend upon what kind of help and the nature of your personal relationship. But even if you help it is better to keep the emotions out of it.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

Share this…

Related Posts

I am still not sure how to deal with my libido. As a young male, I occasionally experience extremely strong sexual desire. I am not in a relationship, I don’t masturbate or watch porn. I tried following some of your advice, such as exercise, breathing, creative expression, etc. It helped me enormously. But still there are times in which I just get completely submerged in lustful thoughts and overpowering desires. During such times I cannot sleep in the night and just crave sex intensely. When such states come, my mind starts telling me that I should just find somebody with whom I could have regular sex so that I don’t feel this agony😟, [conti]

What helps handling these strong sexual impulses is to stay as busy as one can be, especially with a work that can be done in the Mother’s service. The other thing is to do…

Read More >

Sometimes in life your little mind cannot understand the working of The Divine mother with certain things that happen, how can we develop this patience and wideness, yes faith is there in her 100% but how to understand her working🤔? 

Sri Aurobindo says in the Mother. ‘The One whom we adore as the Mother is the divine Conscious Force that dominates all existence, one and yet so many-sided that to follow her movement is impossible even for the quickest mind and for the….

Read More >