Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations, wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.
How can we know our Purpose of Life or the part and place in our life others have? What can we do in situations where we are not aligned within? 🙂🌱🌸
June 19, 2026
It is most important to know our purpose. One way is to look at our innate tendencies and temperament, study ourselves carefully and see what activities gives us natural joy and peace, the sense of inner growth and fulfilment. Fortunately we have a detailed guidance from the Mother on this issue.
‘What is my place in the universal work?
We all have a role to fulfil, a work to accomplish, a place which we alone can occupy….
