Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations,ย wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.
I have come to share something โ and to ask you two questions that are very important for me: In our last email, you shared that you have seen that when people put Savitri on their chest when they are troubled, she takes away the trouble, pain or negativity. ๐๐จ๐ผโค๏ธโ๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ผ๐ผ๐[…]
July 8, 2026
Happy to hear from you and do hope to see you sometime here, in our common home. As an elder brother in yoga, I can only share the essence of my experience if that helps.
First about the magic mantra, the king idea, there are quite a few that I have used and applied with wonderful…
