Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations,ย wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.

The Mother said that She saw four kinds of people or beings who were on the Supramental Ship. First were those who were not only ready to manifest in the Supramental body in the Supramental World directly but also were giving a push for its manifestation. ๐๐๐๐ป๐ธ[…]
Whether the secret of supramental transformation was known to the siddhas of the past or not, it is not a matter of speculation but of facts based on what they said or wrote. …
