Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations,ย wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.
In Bhagavad Gita Chapter 18 (verses 41โ48), does Krishna explicitly assign a Guna hierarchy (Sattva, Rajas, Tamas) to the four Varnas, or does he treat each Swadharma as an equal path to perfection? ๐๐๐๐ป๐ผ[…]
August 20, 2026
First about the swadharma and the gunas. Swabhava and Swadharma belongs to the Soul’s unique status and mode, its natural poise and characteristic temperament in a particular life. Gunas are the qualitative modes of Nature that are everywhere. Speaking of them as if one and same will create confusion. Swabhava and …
