Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations, wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.

I had a vivid dream where a violent attack forced me out of a vehicle, prompting me to guide a vulnerable boy across undulating plains toward a winding hilltop. As I ascended past oblivious dogs, the boy vanished, replaced by the inner vision of a divine, familiar young girl calling me to pass an unseen test at the peak. 🌙⛰️✨🙏[…]
It is indeed a very positive dream. The mad driver is some past tendency that was trying to drive you towards the abyss. But you escaped timely and then there is a step by step evolution to higher and higher levels.
The adolescent boy is the urge for progress that has set you on a new journey. It is helping you and you too must protect it. The hill towards which you are headed to safety is your soul. The divine girl is some power of the Divine Mother that is reflected in your soul guiding your further journey to your true spiritual home.

