AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
Ask Alok da

It has thus happened that whenever I have prayed for proximal presence of someone or something, I have suffered and regretted…as things have taken ugly turns later on..even it’s said, ” Marriage was erected on the tomb of Love😧” so it’s wise to not get married to the one you love..thus this way it’s not wise to marry at all…also I can easily find many unsuccessful marriages around. So now even if I seek the proximity of my beloved (seek to express my love for him through feelings, words and services) in life but I feel afraid to pray for their proximal presence in my life in anticipation of the bond between us getting ruined if that happens.

Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations,  wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.

Share this…

Related Posts

Today, my father tried to hit a mouse that was inside our house to shoo it away. When he hit the mouse to kill it, I couldn’t see it and told him not to hit it, to which he got angry and said that it was affecting us, so we have to kill it. Is it the right thing to do? 🐁🪤😥🌼[…]

It was the right feeling in your heart prompted by the psychic being. Mahalakshmi aspect of the Mother is very fond of this kindness towards animals. There are better ways to take an animal out of the house. Killing is not really necessary. ..

Read More >

If one has consumed ganja(marijuana) most regularly, also often alcohol, cigarette & also some time gutkha, but ganja was the prime. These activities lasted 2-2.5 years (during the lockdown period: corona). Also, after consuming ganja, the mind shifted towards pornography & then masturbation. 🚬🥴❤️‍🩹😊🍎[…]

Everything is possible and there is nothing irreparable that the Grace cannot mend. But how will the Grace act if we close ourselves to it through doubt and disbelief and the misuse of reason. The Divine has given every human being the faculty of reason that man must use for his progress and to discern the right from the wrong. But most …

Read More >
× Bonne Fete