Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations, wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.
Hello Da, I had once read writings by Sri Aurobindo and the Mother in which they described Winston Churchill as a vessel and vital instrument of the Divine during World War II, opposing the “dark Asuric force” represented by Hitler. They also expressed support for Churchill during the war against the Axis powers. 🤔🪖🌾🌾[…]
August 18, 2026
To justify one’s actions because of your background is, what I term as the Karna syndrome. Both karna and Arjuna had difficult harsh childhood. But one ended up becoming an instrument of the Asura while other an instrument of the Divine…
