Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations, wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.
Alok da, mumma scolds me a lot. Yesterday, she scolded me because I was being a victim, today, when she was sleeping, I bounced a ball without realising, she told ” I never get to sleep” being a victim herself, how can I handle this? 🤾🏼👩🏼😬🌸
June 23, 2026
We don’t need to handle everything. Most things go away if we don’t give them much importance. Besides things become better if we try to put them in perspective and understand them. For example, mumma may scold because she might be tired. Or she may scold because she wants to see you strong and independent. Why …
