Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations,ย wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.
So, Alok Da, until the time that I don’t organically open to the Mother with the revelation that She indeed is the Divine… How do I pray? How do I ask for Grace and from Whom? ๐๐๐ป๐ชท๐
July 28, 2026
Even if one is unable to pray it is still possible to aspire. Aspiration is independent of belief even though there is a kind of faith implicit in it. One can also address the prayer to the Divine whom one does not yet know but …
