Marriages do not work out as we expect them to do because of the gap between the ideal and the strength and sacrifice needed to realise it. This is very much missing today in the fast food and utilitarian culture imported largely from the West. But the Divine is always willing to help us realise the Ideal. He is not the spoilsport to our happiness but the helper and guide and it is only rarely that he does not grant a sincere prayer, and only when He sees the harm that may accrue through it. The reason why relationships end up badly is not God but our incapacity to love. A love full of demands, expectations, wishes and desires based on the need for pleasure or happiness is not so much love but emotional and vital hunger. So too a love calculating gain and loss is a business and a marriage based on social benefits is a transaction. These are as good as failures even if it succeeds by outer standards. So grow in love and try to make it beautiful and sincere. That is all that is needed.

God takes away all the Pain of human beings… but what of the scars that humans have inflicted upon God? God remembers everything… so He cannot simply forget. Yet, is there anything a human can do to heal God’s wounds? ❤️🩹😊🙏🏻🪷❤️🔥
The Divine is like the tree that gives only fruits and flowers when we throw stones at Him. Yet by his wrong attitude, man is unable to make use of these gifts of God because he has closed himself off to His Grace. …

