AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

 Just wanted to ask you like I am pursuing MBA and completed my BBA degree too but still not I am sooo confused what too doo not finding exactly what I love and if I don’t get a job before my MBA completion then I have to home and my parents will start forcing Me for marriage they were traditional parents 24-25 mai Shaadi is good and all u have too also even if I say yes too any guy then didn’t allow me to have attest 1 – 1.5 year before marriage …. Feeling soo tensed while thinking about this 1 percent agar job nhi lagi toh .. also at this point I feel I want to live my life enjoy tick list my bucket list … how too deal with this how to make my parents thinking understand my perspective and all😐..

It is not easy to convince parents if they have fixed ideas. But if one stays firm they eventually concede. You should have courage and try to reason out with them. Yet if they still do not agree or understand then you have one of the two options. First is to insist on taking a little break to think about what you want to do. Second is to put efforts and clear your MBA, take up a job just to stall the moment and buy some time. Once you are financially independent then your voice will be better heard and you can then follow your deepest heart and its true calling. Pray to God with complete trust and help will surely come. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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