Explain to her through stories and examples that the value of a human being does not depend on how she looks or the clothes one wears but on the qualities one has and the contribution one can make to the world.
That friends whose friendship depends upon the dress are not worth her friendship.
And that what matters most how much she can progress and learn in the school is what will help in the future and bring in the right kind of friends.
Affectionately,
Alok da.
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My experiences? They are too many. Some of them are shared in different interviews on auromaa. The real key and the central experience of this Yoga is however, to feel, discover, live in the Mother’s Presence, to live for Her, and by Her.
Emotional maturity is very simply the ability to postpone one’s gratification. It means not to rush or speak and act under surge of emotions but to wait and delay until the urge has settled into a quiet place. The reason is that during the surge one believes that the felt emotion is as if the only truth. It colours and overrides everything…
Each one is responsible mainly for one’s own progress. What others do is their problem. We should mind only our own business.
