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We mental health professionals also use these domains to teach children with Autism and ADHD, the basic skills and managemnt of anger, bordem, irritability and

My daughter 18 years old always hide something like talks in phone secretly. Lies what’s happening. How to handle I don’t know? And never believe in god. And when I tell her something she acts like she knows everything, she thinks herself smart. What to do in this teenage please help me out? I think you understood what I’m trying to say.🧢🫠📱

May 13, 2026

The first thing is to take your teenage daughter into confidence. She must feel that you are her friend and not an administrator or a

One of my close relatives is requesting me to let my 17-year-old daughter join the intuition courses of ‘Art of Living’. What is this pave the Way? 👧🏼❤️‍🔥😐🌻

May 5, 2026

I have never attended the Art of Living so I cannot say what exactly is taught there. In general however Adolescence is a period of

Alok Da, Namaste. What did the Mother say regarding giving Vaccines to Children? 👦🏼👧🏼💉🦋🌻

April 6, 2026

Both the Mother and Sri Aurobindo were not in favor of vaccination. Sri Aurobindo has called it as ‘a dark and dangerous principle.’ But the

What is the right way of educating kids in the light of the Mother? What things should they be taught, most importantly, apart from the academic portion? ☺️🌱🌺🦚

January 14, 2026

As you know it is a vast subject on which much has been written though very little practiced given the inherent complexity of human nature

My Sister’s child is 2.5 Y/o, and the parents are very tense about him not speaking. He very rarely makes any sound. What to do? 👼🏼

December 29, 2025

Some children pick up speech as late as five years. Speak to him a lot. See also if he responds to sounds. Show him to

Education in our schools and colleges, although changing to a certain extent, still focuses on gaining knowledge or Learning specific subjects. Unfortunately, it does not prepare high school students, nor college graduates, for future life. 🤔📖[…]

November 28, 2025

This is a vast and complex subject which I have dealt with in a number of talks and writings on auromaa. But just a few

Alok da since few days my 11 year has started telling me , Mumma you never understand” please help me so I can understand him better and how to deal with him😥

September 24, 2025

It means he has entered adolescence and one has to stop treating him as a child who has no independent identity. During adolescence children begin

Alok da, Mother has said never scold a child , now I never scolded my son now he is 11. Due to this two things have happened one he is on his adolescence and he just does not listen like if I tell him to pick up his clothes or put his shoes in its place from the living room now when I sternly tell, pick it up right now after 4-5 reminders then only the work is done and on the other side since he is not use to scolding at home if he faces a strict teacher or some bully in school he starts crying … so I know Ma can never be wrong but please advise in this situation 😥

September 4, 2025

The Mother was not against being firm to help the child form good habits and discipline. Scolding, especially with anger distorts a child’s consciousness. He

Alok da this is problem with many parents not just us end of the day me and my husband are exhausted but our son is full of energy. He just does not want to sleep though we have a bed time but he keeps on delaying it and he just does not get tired in spite of him doing sports and going to school… so we are sleep deprived due to this situation. What should we do😥?

August 22, 2025

Yes children are full of energy and they absorb a lot of energy from everything around them. It needs to be channelised as well as

Dear Alok da our 11 year is having troubles at school, he feels really bad as he is now been picked by the other boys in the school for projects and then the teacher put him with girls, as parents what can we do to help him🤨?

August 18, 2025

One of the things one learns in school is to adapt to different and often difficult situations. It is not about gathering information for which

In today’s hook up culture💘, where two people who are physically attracted to each other engage in casual sex purely for pleasure and physical intimacy, can this be seen as harmful?

July 12, 2025

There is a difference between sexual act done only for pleasure, under the stress of physical attraction, and the same act done as a natural

Can you share something about AskAlokDa since it is 1 year today❤️

June 19, 2025

Askalokda, like everything else in my life, has been a gift of Her Grace. I have seen this that when a work is to be

How can I make my eleven year old independent, he is a typical mumma’s boy and everyone around tells me it’s my fault

June 14, 2025

Gradually give him the reins but sit in the chariot with him so that he learns to make choices while you watch from behind, prompting

Alok da, why are special children born? Parents aspire for the best possible offsprings, then why this result? Why do souls make such choices😥?

May 22, 2025

Special children (i suppose you mean differently abled children) are not due to soul choices. In fact the soul has to reach certain degree of

Alok da, since last 15 days we are struggling to make our 11 year old sleep in his own room, though he sleeps in his room every other night he come and sleep with us, we have tried everything but he wants me to make him sleep and even after that he gets up and wants me to put him to sleep again in the middle of the night, we feel it’s high time that he needs to sleep on his own, Please advice😳.

May 12, 2025

Yes children should begin to sleep by themselves by 5. In India, due to stronger emotional bonding and family attachment it takes longer. In any

In yesterday’s question on marriage where parents emotionally blackmailing their child to get married you said it is extremely selfish act at its core but they also used to tell us like we are also becoming selfish by not fulfilling their wish. In such a scenario we really don’t have answer answer and such thoughts comes like are we also acting selfishly? Please guide whose demand is valid here😥?

May 8, 2025

There is a fundamental right given by the Divine to make our free choices and suffer the good or bad consequences. That is the whole

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