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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Many people say that people in India do not follow their traditions as strictly as they once did, and that there is growing resistance, especially among the younger generation, toward maintaining cultural practices. They often compare this with countries like China and Japan, where people are perceived to follow their cultural traditions more rigorously and preserve them with strong social discipline. According to this view, todayโ€™s generation is more distant from traditional customs than previous generations. Interestingly, this concern is most often expressed by people in their 30s and 40s ๐Ÿชท๐Ÿ•‰๏ธ๐Ÿ“œ

I am not sure about China and Japan of today. There is a general decline in culture everywhere and it is not without its purpose.

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How can I develop genuine humility instead of forced politeness? How can I stop absorbing othersโ€™ emotional states so intensely? How can I begin to see the other person also as a child of The Mother, especially when I have to continuously work under them and old reactions get triggered repeatedly? And how does one change these inner feelings sincerely rather than only controlling outer behaviour?๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ฎ

In any group it is important to know the reason or purpose about why one is joining the group. If it is simply with the

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In YouTube I saw a video where tarot card reading was mentioned, out of curiosity I opened it, selected a pile intuitively and to my surprise few things that were told their were quite accurate. Firstly What exactly is tarot card reading and what purpose it serves, Is it a superstition? Did The Mother & Sri Aurobindo commented on this?๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿ”ฎ๐ŸŒ™

The Mother has not mentioned anything directly about the Tarot card. But if we take the essence of Her writings in these matters it would

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I wanted to seek your guidance regarding something that has been confusing me inwardly. My confusion is: in this situation, what should be my right attitude? Should I ask the Mother for success and surrender the outcome with faith, or should I simply act and leave everything entirely to her will without expectation?๐Ÿš€๐ŸŒณ๐Ÿ’ง

There is nothing wrong in seeking success in any given endeavour. One does work with the idea that it should go well. And hence one

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Alok Da, I have been involved with a married man who has a child. For three years, he has promised to leave his wife, but it has become clear that he has no intention of doing so. Now, he says he will marry me legally but also wants to continue his past life. I am becoming very insecure; what is the right thing to do in this situation?๐Ÿ’”โš–๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ช

It is not about right and wrong. It is simply this fact that no one can leave a child behind and get remarried to someone

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