We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Dada, Thank you for giving your knowledge so generously, after being around Mother’s and Sri Aurobindo’s wisdom I feel guilty to ask and though I try to filter a lot of questions before asking but this one has been bothering for more than 2 years now. Dada I feel a sense of intense restlessness, while externally all seems fine, I don’t know when was the last time I really laughed. Its like I am definitely not doing what I am supposed to do while working, eating all times. Dada, I am nervous and restless but I dont know why am I feeling this way before I even get to the solution part. I cannot question my job and people around when its inside, how do I get rid of it. Dada I am so clueless that I even started started digging details of my birth chart, which I never really believed in. Please help/ dial your hotline to mother as to whats wrong with me ๐๐๐ฃ
There is no need to hesitate in asking questions. I only share a little of what the Divine Mother gives limitlessly. As I see it,

Many people say that people in India do not follow their traditions as strictly as they once did, and that there is growing resistance, especially among the younger generation, toward maintaining cultural practices. They often compare this with countries like China and Japan, where people are perceived to follow their cultural traditions more rigorously and preserve them with strong social discipline. According to this view, todayโs generation is more distant from traditional customs than previous generations. Interestingly, this concern is most often expressed by people in their 30s and 40s ๐ชท๐๏ธ๐
I am not sure about China and Japan of today. There is a general decline in culture everywhere and it is not without its purpose.

I saw a quote from Paramahansa Yogananda ji, where he said that God yearns for our love because that is the only thing that is not readily available for him. While I respect his words, I feel a bit confused because I have also heard that the Divine wants nothing (Bhagavad Gita). What is the truth behind this?๐น๐๐
It is a little human way of putting it but there is a profound truth in it that has been corroborated by all the bhaktas.

How is one to find his Psychic being and when will the irrevocable transformation happen after which no personal effort is needed? Is this not the aim of Integral Yoga to find oneself? Is this really an achievable goal even for the sadhaks at the Ashram?๐๏ธ๐๐๐ค๐
I understand the feeling of frustration that can and perhaps do come sometimes to everyone who walks the path. The spiritual consciousness is not yet

What if the person pushes you to see your own flaws and work on them and be better, grow spiritually, not maybe in the nicest way or knowingly but sub consciously? As the soul within feels awakened.. somehow knows..ย ๐๐โ๐๏ธ
It is never a good way to show the real or unreal defects of others. A relationship should be based on showing or rather bringing

Has the Mother mentioned about her inclination and interest in Buddhism, and about her direct communication with Lord Buddha in Japan, anywhere else also in her literature in CWM or Agenda?๐ฟ๐ฎโฉ๏ธ๐น
Yes there are several references of the Mother with regard to the Buddha, especially in the Agenda when her friend of old days, Mme Alexandra

Can you explain this dream: Sir today I saw dream in which I was to give a three day exam on three different centers, the first two days of the exam I am correctly able to reach the exam center on time with one of my fellow colleagues as we had the same center. On the 2nd day after…๐๐ค๐๐
Beautiful dream. After all the trials and tribulations and the challenges of life you are being led to your goal by ‘Maithili’ which implies a

I feel as if realising and making environment for psychic emergence is my work in this path.ย So please guide me๐ฑ๐โ๏ธ
By direct work I mean works related to or initiated by Sri Aurobindo and The Mother.
Yes to start with it is a good

Why there are 10 commandments which specifies the way a human being should live as it does in our scriptures as well?๐๐๐๏ธ
If we go to the original sense of the law of karma, it simply refers an action deviating from the Divine Will or to put

How can I develop genuine humility instead of forced politeness? How can I stop absorbing othersโ emotional states so intensely? How can I begin to see the other person also as a child of The Mother, especially when I have to continuously work under them and old reactions get triggered repeatedly? And how does one change these inner feelings sincerely rather than only controlling outer behaviour?๐๐๐ฎ
In any group it is important to know the reason or purpose about why one is joining the group. If it is simply with the

In YouTube I saw a video where tarot card reading was mentioned, out of curiosity I opened it, selected a pile intuitively and to my surprise few things that were told their were quite accurate. Firstly What exactly is tarot card reading and what purpose it serves, Is it a superstition? Did The Mother & Sri Aurobindo commented on this?๐๐ฎ๐
The Mother has not mentioned anything directly about the Tarot card. But if we take the essence of Her writings in these matters it would

Should one continue to obtain fresh Blessing Flowers from the Ashram and immerse the old ones, or does the Mother’s power remain eternally present within all the old Blessing Flowers?๐ชท๐๐
Negative or hostile forces can be anywhere. They were there near The Mother to try and hurt Her. They came and fractured Sri Aurobindo’s leg

I have had a ‘cold’ heart for many years, feeling no emotion. Can my psychosis, social ill-treatment, and prolonged suffering be a reason for this ‘coldness’?๐๐ฅถ๐ฅ
Yes, real or perceived suffering can lead to hurt emotions and subsequent withdrawal creating inner aloofness as a defense. Its cure is love for God

I wanted to seek your guidance regarding something that has been confusing me inwardly. My confusion is: in this situation, what should be my right attitude? Should I ask the Mother for success and surrender the outcome with faith, or should I simply act and leave everything entirely to her will without expectation?๐๐ณ๐ง
There is nothing wrong in seeking success in any given endeavour. One does work with the idea that it should go well. And hence one

Could you kindly advise me on how to hold both Guru Nanak and the Mother in my heart? Maafi in advance if I haven’t framed this question perfectly, but I am seeking guidance on how to honor both paths.๐ธโ๏ธ๐ค
I understand the dilemma. Its answer will depend upon the aim of your life, the purpose of the yoga. Once you are clear about that,

Alok Da, I have been involved with a married man who has a child. For three years, he has promised to leave his wife, but it has become clear that he has no intention of doing so. Now, he says he will marry me legally but also wants to continue his past life. I am becoming very insecure; what is the right thing to do in this situation?๐โ๏ธ๐ช
It is not about right and wrong. It is simply this fact that no one can leave a child behind and get remarried to someone

Would reciting the Ramcharitmanas and the Gita be helpful for a practitioner of Integral Yoga? Furthermore, is it considered necessary for the centers of Sri Aurobindo and the Mother to recite these ancient scriptures?๐๐๐ช
Each one is free to do with what they want individually but as far the Centre is concerned, it should be dedicated to Reading, studying

Can we dive deeper? What is the nature of the start and the repetitionโand why does it seem we never reach the end?โพ๏ธ๐โ
Diving deep is not as simple. It takes years of persistent practice unless a rare soul that has done its homework of purification in the