AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

How can I learn and understand more about Mahadev, how to worship him, etc.ย Can you suggest? I believe it is an extremely human mindset, but when I worship a god, they slide into a certain dynamic. Krishna is my brother. Lord is father/teacher and Mother isโ€ฆ well, Mother.ย ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ๐ŸŒ™๐Ÿš๐Ÿ‚

It is not a question of disrespect. It is just that the feelings should be translated into real life. Mata Parvati engaged in severe tapasya

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In Savitri, Aswapati had to travel many subtle worlds before reaching at the summit. I just want to know whether the person doing the sadhana must have to undertake the same journey during life time as well as after the physical body is discarded. Will the psychic being have to undergo the same route after death, even if a part is already covered during life time or skip those already covered?๐ŸŒ…โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

The journey of Aswapati is a very special journey taken consciously by him as the pathfinder and the pathmaker for the New Creation. It is

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When I read anand brahma Chapter of Synthesis of yoga then I found that I have experiencing these same thing much before. When I meditate or aspire or in the state of self giving then I find these two source where I feel peace, beauty, thril, wideness and anand. In different way such doubt in mother sri aurobindo which was very painful moment for me, ego, excessive ambition and sexuality etc. Now their impact is much less than before. When i take prayers and meditation books and randomly open the page i find “oh lord, you want i become your selfless worker than a meditative person”, “oh lord, don’t attach with your inner presence, make me a hero warrior so that i can surrender to you all parts of my being so that your complete manifestation will be possible”๐Ÿง˜โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿชท๐Ÿ“–

Your experience clearly indicate that you are quite well on the path. The lower nature is never easy to conquer in anyone. Even the strongest

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You have said, ‘Then one would laugh at oneโ€™s follies and hate and bitterness.’ I find this statement very powerful to counter all bitterness in me towards people. But, when I remember my past frictions with people and the way I was treated, I can’t help feeling anger for them. Is it becoming more difficult because of my psychosis?๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ข

The more you justify these reactions the more they will linger and grow. Each one has to make a choice whether we keep living in

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‘The progress in sadhana comes from the rectification of the inner and outer attitude, not from the nature of the work one doesโ€”any work, even the most humble, can lead to the Divine if it is done with the right attitude.’ -THE MOTHER. So how is the true way of having this truest or right inner attitude and outer attitude and rectification?? Example while being at home with children, cooking, doing choresโ€ฆ please describe!โ›ฐ๏ธ๐ŸŒŠ๐ŸŽฏ๐Ÿงญ

The first and most important, in fact the most powerful indispensable step is nishkaam karma. It means to do whatever work has fallen to our

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ย I have noticed that when I chant ‘Mother Mother Mother Mother’, a form of anxiety arises in me, like a great tension and a more serious Divine Force. But when I chant ‘Maa Maa Maa Maa Maa’, I feel calmer and more centred. Is this something similar to what is described in the Bhagavad Gita in chapter 11, when Arjuna sees Sri Krishna in the Supreme Universal Form, vs Sri Krishna normally seen by Arjuna in a friendly, loving manner.๐Ÿซจ๐ŸŒ€๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐ŸŒน

Each one has a personal way of connecting. But Maa is certainly better, easier, even phonetically simpler. Mother reminds of someone or something superior with

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How do we reconcile the Gitaโ€™s teaching to surrender the results of action without obsessing overย Paapย andย Punyaย with the Jain emphasis on sin, guilt, and atonement, and what are Lord Shivaโ€™s (Mahadev) unique teachings that made him so beloved even by theย Asuras? ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ๐ŸŒ™๐Ÿ‚โš–๏ธ

Paap and Punya are one among different systems created by the human mind to navigate their life. They are helpful and needed at one step

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How can one break free from the cycle of people-pleasing, emotional blackmail, and the paralyzing fear of hurting others, especially when burdened by family trauma, financial instability, and the loss of a father, while learning to set boundaries and find inner peace without succumbing to depression or isolation? ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ™๐Ÿปโœจ

I understand that all this has led to a certain degree of suppression and hesitation in your life. What you need is a mentor whom

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If one has always experienced a childhood intimacy with Krishna as a friend and playmate, what does it signify when a natural, gradual shift occurs toward Mahadev (Shiva), and how can this “sneaking in” of a new divine presence be understood as an evolution of the soul’s relationship with the Divine rather than a replacement of the old? ๐Ÿชˆ๐Ÿฆš๐Ÿ„๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ•‰๏ธ๐ŸŒ‘

Sri Krishna and Shiva are two aspects of the One Divine Being. Sri Krishna fills our life with sweetness, beauty and love when he first

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I have desire and fear that covered up the small aspiration to love, and that is why I feel this has happened. But this is not the truth deeper within anybody, and I want to have beautiful feelings and thoughts and to love spontaneously. Everyone has truth and love within them, why should I cover it up with a scared imitation of the actual thing? I think I am not yet that open to Mother and Sri Aurobindo.โœจ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’“โ™พ๏ธ

We are all made up of different parts that pull in different directions and hence it is quite common to have certain self-contradictory elements within

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Throughout in SAVITRI Sri Aurobindo has used PRONOUNS extensively. To understand him, it is very important to identify which common or proper NOUN he is referring to by the particular PRONOUN.ย  Sometimes it really becomes a a riddle to guess what NOUN he is referring to by that particular PRONOUN.๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ“œ๐Ÿชท๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

Actually you have got all of them correct by tracing back to the passage and the connecting links.

‘It’ in the passage you mention beginning

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