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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

I heard in a video that negative and hostile forces give suggestions and people act accordingly, then these forces bring guilt which makes the situation worse, so my question is how to convince myself to free myself from this guil? How to get rid of the guilt? Please guide me on this subject.πŸŒ‘πŸ’¨πŸ•―οΈπŸ‘ΉπŸ’₯

Yes, the progressive supramental manifestation is bound to influence all earthly life including the most material. It is a new principle or power that has

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Is it wrong for me to feel bad when I listen to movie songs often? I mean in hindsight my mind says you’re letting your vital take over blah blah blah but it’s just me enjoying the song and dancing to it. My music’s genre is crazy. I adore and soak in the Bhakthi songs, ragas, flute music and I know how to dance and enjoy the movie songs too. So what’s your view on this?Β πŸŽΆπŸŽ΅πŸŽ§πŸ“»

It is natural at a certain stage for those endowed with bhakti to cry at certain songs that suggest beautiful love. It means that love

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I don’t know which category I may be.Β Definitely not among fully asuric anti Divine elements.Β May be by my Guru’s Grace, I will get Moksha, so no coming back.Β Or may be doing Supramental yoga, but I am afraid of the pain and suffering.Β So may be satisfied with perfect humanity.Β Don’t know,Β It’s all His aspirations and His Sankalp in my name to be fulfilled by Him onlyπŸ‘οΈβŒπŸŒ«οΈβ›“οΈ

Yes, the thoughts and feelings of our outer personality, that which we ignorantly call ourselves, hardly matters. It is the Divine Will concealed deep within

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I’ve been going to our family business, for the past five days. One day, my father gave me some parts with a friend so I could earn some money. But since giving them to me, my younger brother, my father, and my mother have told me four times each not to tell anyone that they’ve given you these parts. Your partner will see them and sell them. But this is stifling me. How are you complicating such a simple matter so much? πŸ’Όβš‘πŸ’₯πŸ—£οΈ

You are quite right in understanding the truth behind society and all the hypocrisy it involves. Any inwardly developed and sensitive individual would feel stifled.

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I am in corporate where I was working on X topic before. I have been re-assigned to a team to work on a particular topic which I find uninteresting or probably consider so. I still have a desire/ passion to work on X and hence searching for opportunities to change to work on that. But, Mother has said that we should not have preferences/ attachments and it is always better to do what is assigned as an offering to increase plasticity. If I move to some other team to work on something I consider interesting – will it be satisfying my desire discarding an opportunity of spiritual progress to overcome an attachment? How should I approach this situation and make the decision?πŸ’πŸ’»πŸ‘”πŸ“…

There is nothing wrong in seeking a work that is more aligned to your inner temperament and which engages you deeply. What the Mother is

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I am asking Mother to purify my vital, and lately keep coming across talks and books on female codependency as if She is trying to show me what I need to examine and eradicate. I have never really understood what the term is. To me, this is a desire to fix others’ problems, to give emotionally or financially too quickly, or too much, without stepping back and asking the Divine what to do-it feel it comes from a vital egoic place that has been conditioned in women?πŸ’ŽπŸ›‘οΈπŸŒŠπŸ’§

The urge to help, to give, too soon and too much as you say comes from a large and generous vital. It is not necessarily

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There is a flow of energy or power in the whole body “from the top of the head to the lower part of the soles of the feet” which sometimes moves in different parts of the body and sometimes the whole body becomes as light as cotton but then after some time darkness comes in and sometimes suddenly peace descends for a few moments but that peace cannot last for long. Is this energy flowing in the body the power of the Mother itself?? Wherever it goes, should we take our attention along with it or should we keep on chanting the name and keep the concentration above??βš‘πŸ”‹βœ¨πŸ”₯πŸš€

Yes it is the working of the Mother’s Force through the Prana. Yes if one should open these parts to the Mother by bringing the

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What is the difference between remembering via ‘mental memory’ and remembering through ‘states of consciousness’. Mother says the latter is best since mental memory can be wiped out anytime but consciousness remembers always. I did not fully understand how one remembers through consciousness. I thought even our Vedic oral tradition employed mental memory alone. I seem to be missing Mother’s higher level insight.πŸ§ πŸ—„οΈπŸ’­β³

Now, there is another aspect also. Outside the mental memory, which is something defective, there are states of consciousness. Each state of consciousness in which

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Is it true the supramental force descends on the spot where MATRIMANDIR is constructed. Sir, is it possible if you guide me how to get accommodation at AUROVILLE for two/three days and how to get permission to enter MATRIMANDIR. It will be rather helpful to meΒ  if I get a clue to see and enter MATRIMANDIR.🟑🌳πŸͺ·βœ¨

There is no such thing that the supramental force descends on the spot of Matrimandir. What descends in the centre of the Matrimandir is a

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When a seeker asked Gurudev about himself and his yoga, I am writing Gurudev’s answers below, which are available on his official website. When a seeker has been following this path for many years, and the Guru himself has promised to fulfill his desire, then suddenly Shri Maa appears from the other side, can you imagine what I must be going through inside?βœοΈπŸ§˜βœ‰οΈπŸͺ·

I can fully understand. As for bhram (delusion due to Maya) can afflict anyone. Even the gods of the Overmind and demigod such as Narad

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Sir, inside me there is a strong desire for something. Within three days again those desires comes and I fulfill it that make me feel bad. Why I fulfilled this desire? This and that comes to the mind. But after fulfillment of desire, I think if it will come again, I will not fulfilled. Still it comes within 3 days I don’t want to fulfill still I fulfill it. Sir , what should be done? How to get rid of it which makes me do the things which I don’t want?πŸ’°πŸ’ŽπŸ›οΈπŸš—

Desires are quite natural at your age, especially sexual desires. They are very tenacious and tend to return in a never ending cycle because there

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