We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

How to become less attached to the body? Does it imply that we stop caring what happens for example not caring about exercise?π§ββοΈβ¨ππ€π«
Yes it is important not to be attached to the body as it is the strongest bond of ignorance.
To do so one must first

What are some practical ways to increase receptivity to receive Motherβs help and force?π«΄β¨πͺ·βοΈ
First step is to be open to the Mother through inner Remembrance. Next is to remain quiet, full of trust and confidence in Her Grace.

Dear Alok da, since Divine is in all, and all is in the Divine, does it mean that the entire Nature is in all? I felt it is the truth behind our body being made of the elements of panch bhoothas. Is it correct? Could you please elaborate on this?πͺπ πποΈ
Panchbhutas are not all of Nature. There are many other things that are non-material but are still part of Nature, the ego, for example. Now

Alok Bhai, I lost my mother this week. A sudden cardiac. I ask is there a way to transform the exercise of loss into Grace?π©βπ¦ππ―οΈπ₯
But it is a Grace when we see from the perspective of the departed. The soul evolves through new opportunities provided by rebirth. That is

Forgive my impertinence, but I don’t see many mentions of the kinds of powers/abilities/states/ stages that the sustained practice of Integral Yoga unlocks, as confirmed in the experience of the practioners. You would excuse me, because I have been really hard pressed to find such admissions. I do understand the principle of not gracelessly publishing feats or meaningful realizations, given they are full of distractive sounds and fury for the ego.. But still I would like to know, because I am looking at it with the wonder of a child who just wants some news of his Home to which he has promised himself to journey through perils, stagnation and frustration.πβ‘οΈπͺ·π
As mentioned above, you have not dug deep enough which is understandable given the enormous wealth of his vast and all-comprehensive literature. If you want

I can’t quit smoking please help meΒ π«π¬ππ«
There are two ways of doing it. The better way is to forcibly stay in some place where smoking is not allowed or drop it

I read in AuroMaa, ‘It is given to man as a unique privilege to share His kingdom and His delight, not by indulging in but rather by renouncing pleasure.’ Kindly explain what is expected of us as part of ‘renouncing pleasure’. Does it mean we don’t take joy or pleasure in any activity? How do we fulfil this condition?πβοΈβ¨π₯°
Pleasure, joy and delight are three steps to the recovery of greater and greater degrees of Bliss that has gone into the origin of creation.

Shiv Purana and Vishnu Purana – which is your favourite and why? (I know this question is stupid but I love stupid and just curious about your sweet answers)ππ±β¨πͺ
Both are good. But Vishnu Purana is more comprehensive and speaks of the Avatars hence i like it better.

My brother hurt me alot in the past. Im not able to look beyond it and forgive him. What do I do.Β I donβt trust him. Little bitter towards him. Iβm not sure he feels guilty. How do I move on?π€¬π₯π£οΈπ―οΈπ€«
He hurt you is a truth of the past. By inability to either leave it all behind or forget his behavior you are hurting yourself

When I listen to some senior’s interview in Sri Aurobindo Ashram about The Mother or Sri Aurobindo and their association with them,Β it made me feel, I am an outsider ofΒ the Ashram. Feel like coming to my neighbour’s homeΒ π³ππ§πͺ·
I fully understand your feelings. However i must add, especially having lived here and also seen sufficiently life in the outside world that it is

Respected sir, actually I feel the photograph of mother itself is my psychic being. As soon as i remember “Maa” (the word i learnt from you when I was in puducherry) everything gets corrected and I walk on theΒ right path. Now I am reading the book which you gave me “Writings on Savitri “.π€ππΈβ¨Β
The psychic being is indeed the child of the Divine Mother and comes out readily when the Mother’s Name is mentioned or it sees Her

Dear sir , In the 1960s, physicists found that electrons act like waves when unobserved but like particles when watched β as if they βknowβ weβre looking. This raises a profound question: is reality objective, or shaped by our observation? Do we discover it, or create it by looking?βοΈβ‘π§ͺπ₯½
Yes, this is the well known conundrum which different scientists try to explain in different ways. Perhaps the Reality is a little bit of both,

Dada, these days two different situations are developing within me. On one hand, sometimes worldly matters attract me, and sometimes they irritate me. But one thing I am experiencing is that if anyone uses a mobile phone nearby, it causes me great irritation and I feel like going somewhere quiet and alone. On the other hand, I start getting emotional about everything.π§ββοΈβοΈποΈβ¨
It is a stage through which every aspirant passes through. The old world begins to lose its shine though something is still attracted by force

What should I know about Nirgun Brahman?πβΎοΈβ¨Β π
It is the name given to the ultimate Reality as a formless, featureless without attributes and qualities. Saguna Brahman is the same Reality which manifests

As if I am getting defeated. But, unable to express to anyone expect to The Mother. I cry for these situations infront of her. That, whether my decision to do job is wrong or What does she has planned for me? Dada, I hope I am able to convey my inner state to you. Situations in my working field are crushing me from inside to digest the vibrations. Please ask Mother to Guide me. I don’t want to be get defeated before the situations. I am unable to repair myself.Β π’πΌπ»π
I fully understand your situation. Leaving the work is no solution. You will find the same situation one way or the other everywhere unless you

How do I increase confidence and trust in The Mother and Sri Aurobindo?π«΄πͺ·π‘οΈβ¨π
Ask for it. That is the simplest. Read their works and dwell in the company of those endowed with faith (satsang). Avoid the company of

Can you also suggest Sri Aurobindo’s writings on “fulfillment of human life”?Β πβ¨βοΈπ
The Life Divine, Savitri, all are about the fulfillment of life. The whole Integral Yoga can be considered as the Yoga of Divine Self-fulfilment. Here

If someone suffers from dementia and then dies, does their mental consciousness not have a chance to be integrated into their psychic being? Secondly, would they be stripped of the ability to have a conscious death, once they pass from the body into the different sheaths before entering into the soul realm? What is death like for someone with dementia?ππ§ β¨πβ³
Conscious death and integrating the mind with the psychic being are rare even for those whose mental faculties are intact during death.
Dementia however