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Sir, sometimes I feel that a large mass of India is unaware of the teachings of Sri Aurobindo and the Mother. Even a knowledge about the salient features of this Yoga is bound to attract many young people into the fold of this Path. ποΈπ[…]
Your observations and suggestions are deeply appreciated. It is true that Sri Aurobindo brings a completely new perspective that fills the gaps by answering the

How do we make sure that the Progress we have made in this lifetime gets imprinted on our Soul and gets carried forward to the next Birth? π
That is part of the evolutionary mechanism of Nature inbuilt within our soul. But if we want to ensure it from our side then we

How can the problem of conversion to Christianity be solved? I come from Chhattisgarh, and nearly all the villages surrounding my village have turned Christians. In reaction, Hindutva people vandalize Christmas celebrations, but I donβt think that is the right thing to do and will only lead to a counter reaction. βͺβοΈπ»πποΈ
Religous conversions take place due to faultlines in our society, the most prominent ones being the caste idea and the rigid barriers of hierarchy. It

Dada, whenever I feel a downpour of presence from the top of my head, my lustful tendencies grow, and subsequently, I feel a blockage in descent and a great discomfort with some pain in my head. Even after repeated rejections, these suggestions of lust come even more strongly. How to reject them permanently, as I feel that I am just suppressing them. π«₯π¦
It takes time and one has to be very patient. Rejecting lustful thoughts is not enough. One needs to stay busy and do lot of

When sharing a tight space with my sibling, I end up fighting over minuscule things, such as when responsibilities are not shared equally or when she doesn’t keep the place neat and clean. I don’t want to get mentally affected by these things, but at the same time, I don’t want to take on the whole responsibility on behalf of both people. π₯[…]
It should be shared, either by way of demarcation of responsibilities or else sharing of the common work. This will help both of you, especially

Dear Alok, There is no being in the unreal and there is no being in the real. – In this Sloka, what is meant by bhavah? I feel the meaning is this: Truth will have some representation ( sense). Where illusion (asatah) never has any representation. So anything that anyway manifested is true, untrue can never manifest. Am I right? Please clear my understanding.
This shloka from the second chapter of the Srimadbhagawatgita implies that ‘whatever is true (sat) is permanent. It will always be there (bhav). Whereas that

I suspect I experienced emotional abuse / developmental trauma as a result of explosive fights and constant conflict in the home caused by my Mom. π«[…]
The problems originating in the past are not solved by returning to the past especially with our present state of ignorance. Trying to resolve it

My Sister’s child is 2.5 Y/o, and the parents are very tense about him not speaking. He very rarely makes any sound. What to do?Β πΌπΌ
Some children pick up speech as late as five years. Speak to him a lot. See also if he responds to sounds. Show him to

You mentioned a British Naval officer called Rutledge who saluted Sri Aurobindo. Who was he? What actually happened? π«‘π₯
He was not British but an American Admiral. He became a devotee who would come and live here for long periods of time and serve

Dear Dada, I want to know how to destroy the old and damaged photographs, blessings packets, messages, calendar, etc., of the Mother and Sri Aurobindo. Is there any specific writing of the Mother on this issue? πΌοΈπ
Somewhere i had read, possibly in Champaklal ji’s book that they are best submerged in water, in a river or sea.
If not too

I am struggling to choose the right life partner. There are two men in my life. One of them I have known for a long time, and I see that he is naturally drawn to the Mother and Sri Aurobindo, guided by his own aspiration, and he walks this path from within. π°πΌπ₯[…]
Isn’t the choice obvious. The first person will join you in the psychic core, the second in the vital. These promises of changing do not

Regarding the Meditation question: I simply concentrate at Heart and above the Head. π§πΌββοΈ
Very good. Go deeper into it without worrying about the heat in the sole of the feet. It will get sorted out.

Sir, recently, in replying to a question, you said that leftists are experts in propaganda and narratives. But sir, this same allegation can be directed against the current ruling dispensation at the Centre also (the famous or infamous IT cell). π€πΊ[…]
Yes. Quite in agreement with your observations. There are certain lacunas in governence (by any party) which leads to a dissatisfaction and change, the anti-incumbency.

What is the best exercise to reduce belly fat? π€ΈπΌ
If the belly fat is showing up at early age it could be hereditary and hence normal for the individual.
If there is no

Alok Da, in the poem Baji Prabhu – it was 500 vs 12,000, right? Tannaji says, ‘Give me 500 people. ‘ Then you mentioned Sri Aurobindo saying 200 be 12,000. Later in the poem, it says 50 swords. Can you please explain the number? How many Shivaji took with him? How many Baji Prabhu have? πβοΈ
There is no exact number reported but around 200 to 300 against 12,000. Shiva ji took 300 with him.

Namaste Alok Da, first of all, thank you sincerely for your patience and generosity in answering questions. I am deeply grateful. I want to seek your guidance on a question that has been arising repeatedly in my inner journey. There comes a point where one begins to see clearly that most human relationships are deeply egocentric. ππ¦[…]
Yes, every seeker on the spiritual path faces this dilemma at some point or the other. By the touch of the Divine Grace the past

When I start meditating, I feel heat at my foots. Why is that? π§πΌββοΈβ€οΈβπ₯
It is a sign that the energy accumulating inside due to meditation is getting dragged down instead of moving up. What kind of medication are

Does destiny exist? Is it something influenced by the effects of countless events? The actions driven by desires become the next step forward. If something good or bad happens, people often call it destiny. πΏ[…]
Destiny is a word which simply means that life is full of unexpected events, things that are beyond our conscious control or things we did