We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Ā
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Ignorance is not a permanent state. How can this perspective change the way we see human struggles and limitationsš¤?
Look at not only those who are struggling in ignorance but also those, few though they may be, who have stepped out of the zone

How should I deal with someone who repeatedly asks for my advice, insists on it even when I say no but then always ignores it and does the opposite of what I suggest� [conti]
Best not to give advice or rather to advise that the person should consult his own deepest heart in a state of inner quietude and

“….I want to be yours” and the Divine has said “Yes”…….How can one know that the Divine has said “Yes”š?
By the surge of aspiration in the heart, by the call for the yoga felt within us, by the growth of faith in our being,

What should I do? Should I kick this fear out and take charge of my life⦠Accepting my swadharm, change my subject and accept whatever comes in the way with The Mother’s grace š¤
That is indeed the ideal course of action. The other course, which is more pragmatic, is to continue and finish your course and get a

Alok da, why cannot I remember lines of Savitri šļø? Itās not that I am making an effort to remember like we learn in school but when I think back and want to recollect now much can I recollect, if I read then I know the lines but donāt rememberĀ
Read slowly, almost meditatively. Repeat few select lines from what you have read as part of your daily remembrance. Write the passages that touch you

Love Marriage With Same Goals or Arrange Marriage With Parents Choice Which Is Bestš¤?
Either ways one has to work through the difficulties of human nature and the challenges posed by the ego and desire self… There is no

Wanted to know how to build a harmonious relationship with parents. This is for me and my wife. We have different value system than our parents. Even different aspirations. But, we are also not detached, very much emotionally attached. We live in different cities, but whenever we visit, it causes a lot of disharmony. There is happiness to meet, spend time, build memories. But, there is an underlying disharmony. They have their strong opinions and they impose that constantly. š„[conti]
Yes it is quite challenging partly due to the generation gap and partly due to a tectonic shift in the social order itself. Trying to

Why is this happening everywhere, in places we would never expect. Even India is supporting a Palestinian state in the UN. But India won’t tell their people to fly Palestinian flags at Indian government buildings.Please tell me what is happening. Had Israeldone something wrong, against their swadharma? It looks like the other nations are not following the truth. Am I mistakenš¬? [conti]
Men and nations are impelled by a force much greater than their own. They are instruments of the Divine Will that accomplishes itself through War

How matter was created, how consciousness begin to awake in matter, how evolution happens? I want to reading everything that Sri Aurobindo and mother has written about creation, creator and evolutionš
The best book for all these questions is The Life Divine. Read it slowly, systematically, regularly with sufficient pauses to break the long sentences into

What should Be The Relationship Between A Husband And A Wife, according to Sri Aurobindoš¤?
deally, they should strengthen each other’s positive qualities while supplementing each other’s deficiencies. Sharing of common tastes and thoughts, pursuing similar goals is also important.

Why is it that when someone chooses not to follow conventional pathsālike pursuing a Masters or PhD, having children or a traditional jobāand instead lives differently without glorifying their struggle and challenges, people/society often dismiss it as taking the āeasy path,ā while glorifying conventional struggles as more valuableš¤Ø?
Yes because most people believe that the path of life they have chosen is the best or the only true path. Besides every life has

“All was now luminosity and force” What is the meaning of this message š???
This is a line from Book Three Canto Three of Savitri, The House of the Spirit and the New Creation. Here, in this Canto we

Alok da, my 11 year old has suddenly feeling the fear of death, this thought use to torment me since I was 8 till throughout adolescence, how to deal with this and help him outš¬ ?Ā
Some children get shocked when they hear about death especially because it brings a great insecurity especially with regard to parents. This insecurity needs to

But what is Divine Will? How will you know itš¤?
Divine Will Divine Wisdom/Chit Shakti is the supreme primal force that is active in the entire universe. This supreme force is taking the universe in

Dada I want to silent my mind. From 5 years I am regularly listening all your Auromaa talks. i practice concentration in my heart with mother presence, some time I had some beautiful experiences but I can’t proceed further, asking always mother for help but I am not able to silent my mind and I feel this is the obstacle that stopping me. I am moving in one place from 3 to 4 years please help me š
Silencing the mind is not an easy thing. What one should try instead is to quieten the mind, to fill the thoughts with peace. It

Please tell about self-giving and how to do itš®?
Self giving means turning all, all one is and has towards the Divine rather than towards oneself and for any selfish purposes. With thoughts it

Ā I feel an immense weight on my heart because I realize that Iāve done everything wrong. I entered into a relationship with someone driven by my own desires for materialistic things and personal needs, to fulfill them, without truly considering his genuine feelings. My intentions werenāt pure, and the foundation of this relationship was flawed from the beginning. Now, I canāt help but feel that Iāve used him, and this guilt is consuming me š„
First thing you need to understand is that nobody is responsible for anyone else. Besides things change, people evolve, relationships shift because nothing is static

In liking a person romantically, I often tell myself, āif it is meant to be, it will happenā. Or, ādonāt force things, let them occur naturally and spontaneouslyā. But the irony is often that when you tell such things to yourself you get into an inactive state and the other person gets into a relationship during that time. In fact my mother told me, āif your father had not openly disclosed his feelings, we would have never marriedā.𤨠[Conti]
This is not a defeatist strategy but indeed a wise thing to do. One should not push the doors of destiny too hard to force