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Was Rama 🏹 really an Aavtar, he could be called a great king, might have some exceptional qualities of a seer but its very hard for me to belive that he was an avatar as he had so many weaknesses , can he be relevant after 10,000 years? can you put light to this doubt of mine?
This can be very clearly seen in the Ramayana if we care to find. But a word of caution is needed. We should be careful

Why in India even today after 10,000 years people talk about Ramayana and they still worship Rama 🏹 as a God? What is Ramayana a story about?
The Ramayana, at the center of which we find Lord Rama, the seventh Avatara of Vishnu, and Mata Sita, the Divine Mother in her gracious

Sir, I have been practicing Gayatri Sadhana🙏 for many years. From my understanding, the Goddess Gayatri is a unified form of Saraswati (Hrim), Lakshmi (Shrim), and Kali or Durga (Klim). By practicing their worship, the Goddess grants her devotees good intellect, prosperity, and strength. She also inspires devotees towards the four goals of life—Dharma, Artha, Kama, and Moksha. Is my understanding correct? In some of your answers, you mentioned that each deity has different powers, and the achievements gained from their worship correspond to those specific powers. So, is my understanding of Maa Gayatri correct? Please help resolve my doubts.
Gayatri devi is associated with a type of metre or rhythm. She is considered to be a manifestation of goddess Saraswati who has set into

Ravana being a Shiv bhakta and an intelligent king can we say that he was a good man but took over by the possession of Sita🤔?
Well we cannot totally justify with Ravana as here he represents the retrogressive movement in nature. He wants to undo what has been done through

I read in auromaa about the Divine – “Make Him your friend 🥰, your permanent friend and partner of life and see how all loneliness will go”. My question – Does this truth requires a certain spiritual preparation? Because I don’t feel it in my present condition?
It is not a question of feeling but of taking a certain attitude, of a kind of relation one seeks to form with the Divine

Story: The Gratitude of Rama
When Rama and Sita were exiled, they had to cross a river. A boatman took them across. Since they did not have anything else to

Please explain science of Mantra. Are Vedic mantras like Gayatri & Mritianjay and Tantrik mantras like Beeja mantras different in their effect? If yes then How? It is said that mantra japa is the best way available for an average sadhaka to contact various divine energies for worldly as well as spiritual progress🙂.
Mantra is highest rhythm of intensity and power to which human speech can be raised. The Vedic Science regards the world as being built by

Why some people call Rama misogynist?
Those who call Rama a misogynist have surely not read the Ramayana. To call a person misogynist who thinks several times before shooting an arrow

“Ek Ram 🏹Dasharath ka beta, Ek Ram ghat ghat mein leta, Ek Ram hai jagat pasara, Ek Ram 🏹hai jagat se nyaara,” What does this mean?
The three Ram are the three aspects of the One Divine, the Universal, Immanent and the Transcendent (jagat pasara, ghat ghat vasi, sabse nyara). All

Today in the afternoon I was making my son rest and we were listening to the guided meditation, I was conscious but as if a black out, like not sleeping but not awake. Both my palms were open, I felt heat and strong vibrations in the palms and in the blackout I saw a golden star, shape of Sri Aurobindo’s symbol but just the star⭐ then I woke up with a jerk, What happened?
It is an authentic experience of contact with the Mother’s Force giving a glimpse of Sri Aurobindo as the…

When I came to the line where you say, ” Swar Lak ☀ is in the higher planes of mind…”, it was like a light bulb came on in my mind. It was like I was thinking about my soul going somewhere as if in sky somewhere. And now all of a sudden I realized that oh, Swarg (swar Lok ) in inside me, my soul. I just have to evolve so much my conscious level so much that I realize that. Am I right?
Yes absolutely so. Our souls need to ascend to higher and higher states of consciousness. Each time this happens we gain a better vantage point

Can you please tell me what this dream 😴 means, it had different sequences. [1] There was a scene where I was in village and my dad give me something to eat and I toss it and there are centipede in it. I drop it and then many of them fall out and my dad pick up each in hand and I stop him but he does pick up to clean and in dream I was thinking why am I so dependent?
[1] Generally it would mean inheriting certain ambitions from the parents. These are like contaminants to the straight natural line of expression that is the

Most of us worship gods 😇 for a better life. Do they really respond to our worship or is it just a psychological tool developed by our rishis so that a person in need does not lose hope?
he gods are not psychological tools but cosmic forces, energies, powers that stand behind the various workings of the cosmos. Since these forces are not

If Sita and Rama 🏹cannot be even called a happily married couple they why are they given as an example of ideal couple in India, don’t you think this example needs to be change?
Rama and Sita are rightly the names that have governed the Hindu psyche for long. What Shiva and Parvati are on the subtle planes, Rama

The Divine 😇 comes down into the cycle of rebirths, makes the great holocaust, endures shame and abloguy, torture and crucifixion, the burden of human nature, sex and passion and sorrow and suffering, manifests many births before he reveals the Avatar. And when he does reveal it? Well, read the lives of the Avatars and try to understand and see. [CWSA 35:424]
Just as the Sun sends light to the earth in two modes, – a steady stream of photons and as special intense outbursts or solar

What do you feel about Religious extremist movements with insults on the Indian flag and other anti national behaviour 😠 , what can we do as these are insults to our Mother India?
Your reaction at the insult of Mother India is understandable and many of us share it. But we should be clear that these so-called khalistanis

Sita’s Banishment is very tragic and upsetting, how can Sita 🌎 let that happen she could have refused, why she accepted it? One feels for Sita, I feel she was bichari to go through all this, no modern self woman would let do what Sita did, how can any modern woman relate to her?
This is the other angle of the story of Sita’s banishment. Painful as the story is, apparently ending on a tragic note, a closer look

I have met a person 4 years back and he was a complete stranger to me But it felt like I had already know him, his face is known to me he often comes to my work place but we never talked only eye contact and than I left that place later that year and moved to another place but I was not happy, I might have missed him and suddenly I got his request on insta and we started chatting, he also felt the same . I knew that he drank but still I fell in love with him. Everything was going right, after a year we met at a mall for 30 mins, again we started talking we never had fights for 1.5 years but relation was on and off, he was not serious but after that he proposed me for marriage and than our fights started because I wanted him to quit his drinking habits and he assured me he will if we get married but slowly our fights increased and he abused me verbally on call😪,
It is better to be safe than sorry later on. What you experienced is not love but some kind of vital affinity leading to a