We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Ā
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Can you help us understand the impact of Social Media š±on our minds, particularly Instagram and YouTube reels?
think there is a talk on this subject on auromaa…

Alok da from few days I canāt sleep without going in mummas room. Every day mumma š„makes me sleep but I canāt sleep then she scolds me and I cry, I am allowed to go in her room if I wake up in the night but every day I donāt like it. Why every day I canāt sleep. From yesterday she goes away and says you can come in the room after 45 or 50 mins and I hate it I listen to your talks in that time And I canāt sleep without mumma so in the mean time I listen to your talks , sit in bed ( not sleep ) and play with my stuff toy ( rarely ) How can I sleep without mumma and why do I need mumma. This every day since 4 days is irritating. And while sleeping I get irritation in my body I feel some insect is roaming around my leg but when I check there is nothing why does this happen
Mumma wants you to be strong and independent so she insists on your sleeping alone. If you find it difficult try keeping something of her

Do numerology, astrology, and Vastu still hold any relevance today, specially for those who follow the path of the Mother and Sri Aurobindoš¤?
These things have their place if we believe in them. But for one who has turned to the Divine in real earnest, nothing else is

Difficult situations in life should make one stronger, but it has happened the opposite in my case. I have become more fearful after facing those difficulties of the past. Now, I tremble𫨠at the thought of any further difficult situations coming my way. Just to mention here – I have been taking antipsychotics for the past 15.2 years.
Yes some people react with fear and once fear sets in it attracts what is feared creating thereby a vicious cycle. The solution is to

Last night, I had another dream in which there was a small snakeš outside my old house, and with me was a friend whom I have met very few times and barely know. We tried to kill that snake, but it ran towards the drain of our old house. There, we saw another small snake, and both of them went inside the stone covering the drain. When we removed the stone, we saw a very large snake that extended into the neighbor’s house through that drain. I ran back and told my friend to step back because it was very dangerous. But my friend stayed there to kill it. The snake spoke and said, “How can I leave from here? I’ve been here for so many years.” The snake was very large and lived in the drain near our old house, with its tail inside the neighbor’s house. What does this mean, Alok Da?
It means some old hostile formation is around and while they are being chased, the main force behind them is deeply entrenched in that area.

In mother’s book “Significance of Flower”š that is mentioned that integral gratitude is that which the whole being offers itself to the lord in absolute trust.” Can you elaborate this line to better understand for me. My another question is “what is the meaning of whole being?”Ā
The urge for motherhood is natural in women. It is a biological instinct strongly ingrained in us. If one ignores it for sometime it tends

In one of the answers a few days back you mentioned that -All gods are not the same in power and effect. Each god represents some aspect of the One Divine and hence the response gets filtered through the aspect that we worship. But in sahasranama the god is praised as supreme. Why soš¤?
Each god of the Puranas is also regarded as the Supreme. We may rest with the gods in a transactional approach of give and take

What is the dharma of an elder sisterš¤?
To be a good example for her. To help her and care for her. Above all to be there and lend a ear when needed.

You said that just reading books isnāt enough, but from my understanding, if one wants to follow Sri Aurobindoās yoga, the first step should at least be reading their works. Please correct me if Iām wrong. And if reading alone isnāt enough, how should one practice it, specially since itās so vast and deepš?
Yes, reading books is helpful but evidently it is not enough. Even in ordinary fields of knowledge such as physics, biology, arts, literature etc we

Why is it that some 50-year-olds, despite having experienced so much in life and claiming to be wise, still fail to grasp certain basic truths? When I ask them not to think negatively, they insist theyāre not being negative, just realistic. They say, āThis is how humans are. We have endless responsibilities. You younger ones wonāt understand, our minds are always preoccupied.ā I canāt help but wonder how, after all these years, they still havenāt learned the fundamentals.š”
Yes some people never really grow up and learn. Instead they take it that whatever they have been or learnt is the ultimate truth and

Hi Alok da. I wanted to ask why Pakistan was formed? What was the Divine purpose? I didn’t understandš¤Ø? Thank you!Ā
As we read yesterday, Pakistan was the result of a deformation of the Divine Will by the forces of falsehood using politicians with gigantic ambition

What is deathš³? What is after death?
Death is simply a dark passage from one life to another. The body is like a house and the circumstances of our life are like

In his book “The Mother”, Sri Aurobindo writesā”In all that is done in the universe, the Divine through his Shakti is behind all action but he is veiled by his Yoga Maya and works through the ego of the Jiva in the lower nature.” What does “Yoga Maya” mean? How does the Divine work through man’s egoš¤?
Yoga Maya is the power of the Divine through which He limits Himself into form and name. Thus the jiva feels himself a limited being

I want to know how can one realise presence of a Psychic being šin Oneself. How can a person know He or She has a Psychic being or HeĀ or She has only a vital being?
Most human beings will have a psychic spark at least barring a few. Those very few who may not have a psychic spark are usually

Hi Alok ji, I had to ask few questions to ask, since I had to face a super disturbing event recently. Hi Alok ji, I had to ask few questions to ask, since I had to face a super disturbing event recentlyš«Ø. Let me share the following incident:
Such people are not worth paying attention to. It is like a pig trying to push the Himalayas by striking against it by its head.

Why are people who follow a spiritual path often labeled as saints or considered boring by those around themš³?
Because the ordinary humanity cannot understand them and it is the tendency to condemn, criticize, mock or belittle what one does not understand. Just ignore

In Agenda volume 13, April 7, 1973 it looks like Pranab da treated both the Mother and Satprem badly. Why did he restrict Satprem from meeting the Mother? It is said that Nolini da and Champaklal, all were scared of Pranab da. Why is thatš¤?
This is of course Satprem’s version. He could have sent a letter to the Mother asking for Her audience or simply waited to see if

Alok da, since last 15 days we are struggling to make our 11 year old sleep in his own room, though he sleeps in his room every other night he come and sleep with us, we have tried everything but he wants me to make him sleep and even after that he gets up and wants me to put him to sleep again in the middle of the night, we feel itās high time that he needs to sleep on his own, Please adviceš³.
Yes children should begin to sleep by themselves by 5. In India, due to stronger emotional bonding and family attachment it takes longer. In any