We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.
I feel completely lost and depressed. Nothing in my life is going the way I want. My job isn’t giving me the financial stability I desire, and no matter how hard I try, I feel stuck. My wife left me, my girlfriend left me, and I have no one to turn to. I come home to an empty space, and it feels unbearable. Sometimes, I don’t even want to come home at all, I just want to disappear. The loneliness is crushing. I long for a life partner, someone to stand by me, but no one ever stays. Is it wrong to want that? Is it too much to ask for someone who truly cares? I drink just to escape these thoughts, but the pain always comes back. I don’t know how much longer I can keep going like this.
First thing first. Nothing and nobody is or should be more important than your own life and progress, unless you are in love, which is
Alok da what age was Sri Krishna when the battle of Kurukshetra took place?
If I remember correctly, Sri Krishna was 89 or 90 during the Mahabharata war as he left his body 36 years later at the age
Very strange question came to my mind, I was thinking there are multiple universe and then multiple Bramha, Vishnu and Mahesh…So there shall be multiple Krishna too. And if that is so, which Krishna have merged with Sri Aurobindo in 24th Nov🤔.
The description of many Brahma, many Vishnu, many Mahesh comes in the Devi Purana, Bhagwat Purana and, the Bhagwad Gita. Interestingly none of these mention
Alok da, always you wished pure love in your life, an eternal bonds when you get it surprisingly with out even thinking that it could be possible it then why is there a little fear lingering in your head of losing it? How can you get rid of that thought🤨?
Sometimes our secret wish suddenly gets fulfilled, most unexpectedly because unknown to our outer being, a stage is being prepared in the fields of life
Will humanity in its current form continue to exist after the arrival of the supramental being? What will happen to present-day humans? Will all of them transform, or only a few🤔?
All will not be transformed. Some will be taken up into the New Creation with a new consciousness gradually evolving into a new species. Others,
What is the process through which the vital becomes strong? Is there any methodology to train it to become strong, just like we do with the body🏃?
Sports is one of the best ways to make the vital strong. Music, art and poetry helps to refine it. Deep breathing exercises quietens the
What to do if there is something Divine has given us to do and we keep failing and time is running out? Divine also try with us and still we fail. It is Divine’s will and still it does not succeed. As if Divine is also subjected to nature and cannot overcome it. How can it be because I thought the Divine is all powerful🫤?
The Divine is indeed all-powerful and if one refuses to give up and is ready to endure with faith the battle and the struggle in
Is it mandatory to do challenging/difficult work for faster evolution, or can one choose a simple work instead which one does remembering the Divine🤔?
No there is no need to find difficult and challenging tasks for evolution fast forward. Life anyways offers enough challenges which are needed for the…
Bhaiya, you often say in your talks that just because everyone is doing something, it doesn’t necessarily make it the right thing to do or follow. But we’ve also heard people say that if everyone is doing it, then it must be the right thing😣?
You must have heard of the flock of sheep, called in hindi as भेड़ चाल । it is the same thing. Sparrows and crows like
I have not read all the books written by our dear Mother and Sri Aurobindo ji. I just wanted to know what will be after the arrival of supramental being, is there anything mentioned about that in the books. Just curious to know, and is only earth the place where divine work is being done, what about other planets in the cosmos where there is a possibility of life too🫤?
The Mother and Sri Aurobindo do mention the changes that will take place upon earthly life, in the individual as well as the collective life.
I have a doubt. Sri Aurobindo mention that integral yoga has three transformation, psychic, spiritual and supramental. There are many saint’s who has realized psychic transformation (such as Chaitanya, Anandamayi ma etc). After psychic realization can they feel spiritual and supramental transformation or not? Another question is what is this spiritual and supramental transformation and how it proceeds the Sadhak’s sadhana🤔?
What they have achieved is not psychic and spiritual transformation but psychic realization and certain experiences in the spiritual realm, mostly in the spiritual mind,
Right now, I’m not feeling anything. Everything seems neutral to me. But he is in a lot of pain, my lover is crying. His words show fear, insecurity, and pain clearly. What should I do in such a situation😰?
It is a natural creation of his desire self. But as you can see this sentimental attachment was feeding him with pleasure but it is
Some people believe that what Sri Aurobindo and the Mother have said is nothing unique — they feel that all spiritual paths are essentially the same and only the words are different. They casually say, ‘Whether you hold the ear from this side or that, it’s the same thing.’ They form such opinions after merely reading a few pages of Sri Aurobindo’s writings and then give their verdict. What would you say to such people🫤?
Ask them only one question. Where do they find anything other than individual Nirvana as a goal? Besides, leave alone Sri Aurobindo, even within the
If the universe of time and space as we see it fluctuated out of spaceless, timeless void of unmanifest potentiality, once this happened does this unmanifest void have a role in the becomings and happenings of the universe or is it just there as quality less state without any interaction with happenings of the world🌏 like a certain view of nirvana suggests? Cos Sri Aurobindo talks about how things which perish are thrown back into unmanifest and reappear later in new forms and combinations and how things old and new are fashioned in these depths suggest that this void which is supposedly devoid of any qualities and movement is still interacting with the world in it’s dynamic becoming. So is this origin ever present and active or has no role whatsoever after once the universe came out of this void like some mokshavadins or nirvanists say?
If we accept the view of Sanatana Dharma as well as Sri Aurobindo’s own experience, this seeming Void, teeming with possibilities is very much present
I went for a healing Ayurvedic retreat. Here, we have yoga classes with a lot of pranayama practices🧘. Some involve more basic pranayama practices, whereas others involve kapal bhati and mula bandha, etc. I don’t really know much about these practices, but I heard that there are some dangers associated with pranayama. Is it better to avoid attending some of these classes and instead focus on more basic practices?
Pranayama, like any other technique or method is best done under an expert except for the basic practice of Nadi Shuddhi. Pranayama, especially Kapala Bhati
I’ve noticed a pattern in my nature — whenever I start any work, I feel very excited in the beginning. But once I’m in the middle of it, I start feeling bored and just want to finish it as quickly as possible. As a result, the work doesn’t get done properly, and I end up feeling bad about it later😥.
It is because the initiating impulse for the work comes from the vital. The vital, in most people is like that. It jumps at something
Men 👨🦰today seem to be a whole lot less masculine and more emotionally weak than what they were in the past. What are the causes of this trend? Could it be that there is no longer mandatory military service and life became too comfortable? How to reverse this trend on an individual level? What are the practical steps and decisions?
As far as emotions are concerned women are (and always were) generally stronger than men. Social pressures have only further strengthened them. In fact the
Is it wrong to not marry someone you’ve lived with for 1.5 years when you feel your core aspirations don’t align, and although they are a good person, you don’t see them as the right life partner — especially when they are eager to get married, but you don’t feel the same way🫤?
Certainly not. Living together means that the two people are trying to figure out if they are truly compatible or not before they tie the