We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Alok da, kids today don’t follow any rules, don’t listen to anyone, If this is the case where will the order of society go😱 ?
Yes, it is so because the whole society is undergoing a massive transformational shift. Sri Aurobindo called it as The Hour of God. The Mother

Why do we procrastinate, and that too on necessary things? Is it a modern malady or an ancient one? What are some of the way to overcome this very bad habit😥?
From what I have understood it is often Nature’s way of taking revenge when we try to work too eagerly with an eye on perfection.

Some nights back I had a dream that I was going somewhere, had a flight to catch but for that I was in a subway from there I had to catch the flight. I was wearing a backpack on my back, so when I got off the train and was going to catch the flight at the train station someone was trying to rob something from my back pack😱, then I woke up. What does that mean?
Transition from train to flight means changing from the progress in the mind to a spiritual progress through ascension. Back pack is the things you

I’m confused😏 about why The Mother redirected me to Lord Muruga, or if I just imagined it. Can you help me understand this?
It is doubtful that the Mother would direct you to any god unless She felt you are likely to be more receptive to the particular

In Savitri🕊️, can we say that Ashwapati’s yoga was more the Yoga of Ascent (to Supermind) whereas Savitri’s yoga was the Yoga of Descent, and that means bringing down the Supreme Consciousness and work towards the transformation of earth?
In Savitri we see Aswapati actually experiencing the descent in Book One Canto Five. So Aswapati’s yoga includes the descent even though it happens quite

Below are the lines from Savitri 🕊️from the Book of the Everlasting Day: “Of all the beauty and the marvel here, Of all Time’s intricate variety Eternity was the substance and the source; Not from a plastic mist of Matter made, They offered the suggestion of their depths And opened the great series of their powers.” pg. 672, What is this plastic mist of Matter?
It is the original Matter, possibly some kind of an ionised Matter. It is the substance of which the body of …

How to integrate discipline, order without falling into the pitfalls of lacking the rasa of life and how to enjoy the dionysian revelry without falling prey to the base lower impulses , the necessity of both the tapas and ananda and integrating them seems difficult and contradictory🫤?
Tapa of any kind, say discipline for self mastery is sometimes painful in the beginning but bears sweet fruits with passage of time. On the

What is the meaning of Jeevan Mukt 🤔?
Jivan Mukt is an inner state in which one is completely free inwardly even engaged in all the works of different kinds. It is a

Is love at first sight real🙃? Or does real love have to develop over time?
Love at first sight is real. It is the heart’s intuitive recognition of your other self. But it is very difficult to sustain it. No

I feel a bit of pressure inside my center of heart. In that portion I feel also peace but when I stay in surface life I don’t feel this things. What is this and how it is not work in also mind, vital and body? When these three beings are act like their own way a strong of sorrow I feel🤨?
The strong pressure in the centre of the chest is the pressure for the psychic opening. The sadness you feel inside when mind, life and…

Does the Jivatma surrenders to the Divine or it is the Psychic that surrenders to the Divine. What is the difference in approach of shadana from the point of view of these 2 beings? Are both of them required for attaining the goal of Supramental transformation in Integral yoga🤔?
The psychic being entering the fields of ignorance and the central being that remains above the play of lower nature (Prakriti) are both two inseparable

Most of us keep a pooja temple at home. What is the logic behind it🤨?
Though the Divine dwells in all beings and everywhere, His Presence is covered by a web of light and shadow woven by our ignorant thoughts

I don’t believe in Euthanasia what you think about this? But what to do if someone is suffering and there is no one to care for her😥?
Suffering is a purifying ordeal. To somehow get rid of suffering including by ending life is as bad as a morbid attraction to suffering. Euthanasia

I have a boyfriend, but my mom doesn’t like him. Whenever I ask my mom why she doesn’t like him, she says it’s because he doesn’t show her respect. She had certain expectations from him, and he hasn’t met them. When I tell my boyfriend about this, he doesn’t want to listen. He says he can’t change how he feels from within. I feel stuck in between. My mom is telling me to break up with him because she thinks he’s not a good match. I have heavy pressure from both sides. Now, I don’t know what to do? Because of this situation, I can’t focus on my work properly, and I’m also having trouble concentrating on Mother’s book reading and other stuff😭.
Well friendship is one thing and marriage quite another. In friendship it is enough that two people respect and trust each other though even there,

How can I be sure that I am on the right spiritual path🧐?
By growth of inner peace and joy, by growth of faith and aspiration and the urge to progress, by growth of sincerity and surrender, by

How to teach our boys👦 to respect women? I mean the Shakti in the woman🙆♀️ from that angle can your share some parenting tips
Charity begins at home as they say. Children imbibe like sponge what they see and experience at home. If they see that boys are being

Me and my wife used to fight a lot on various things….we went through this phase for more than 4-5 years. Two major points of our fights was (1) me not being straightforward in my communication and actions (2) Me not being like her father. We went through therapy and a lot of hard times to get through that phase and now we are kind of over it. Now she blames me for being too straight forward and being too much like her dad. Please advice what should I do…..I can’t go back to being to old person I was😬?
Instead of trying to be what your wife or someone else would want you to be, try to discover what you are and want to

What to answer when someone who has no clue asks who is The Mother and Sri Aurobindo 🤔?
The answer will vary from person to person depending upon the genuineness of the query, the openness to receive the answer, readiness to understand and