Sometimes I feel a peace in my lower abdominal part, but it is not everlasting for a long time. Due to this reason, the central pressure of my heart also does not stay permanently, which gives peace, wideness, bhakti and the feeling of fearlessness. Why is this happening? ❤️‍🔥😊🙏🏻🪷[...]

Is there any process of this yoga? But now, when difficulties arise, I smile in every situation. Every time I recite “All this belongs to the Mother”, in this recitation I feel a strong obstacle arising, but don’t affect the peace in the heart. Many types of difficulties come, but something in my sense feels that if the difficulties come, then they must be offered to the mother so that they will be solved. Is my experience right? How to totally get rid of these difficulties?

Difficulties are part of the journey and the work of the Yoga of transformation. It is a long process and one has to go through it. Otherwise, one can stay content with the psychic experiences as in the old traditional yogas. There is no why to it. It is nature and either we accept it as it is or try to change it. Changing it puts pressure over it and hence it reacts. The change comes slowly through the action of the Mother’s Force in the different parts. One has to go through the process with faith and endurance.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

I genuinely love a guy (or atleast I feel that way), but we are not in relationship because we know that we are not perfect for each other. We live at different places so we don’t meet. There were times when we have an argument and we stop talking for months but we endup together. If someone says me anything he cannot tolerate that. But he always tells me that I should find someone for me because he will not marry me, and also he will find someone better and forget me. And even I feel that is the correct thing for me to do. But there are two things I want to mention, when I first saw him coming, there is some sort of bell ringing around me (I know this is sounding very lame) and secondly, when we barely knew each other, I was there at evening meditation around samadhi and I was sitting and next to me there was an empty passage for a people to walk and volunteers over there were not allowing anybody to sit over there, but somehow those volunteers made a line next to me and he went somewhere else and sat but these volunteers told him to sit next to me, and we had a meditation together. This is also very lame thing.

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There is evidently a vital attraction which is very different from love. It usually wears off with time unless there is a strong deep affinity of goals, ideas and interests.

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The Mother speaks about the Yoga of Works and says that it is the highest path in Sri Aurobindo’s Integral Yoga. In that case, would it be appropriate for me to become actively involved with my nearest branch of the Sri Aurobindo Society? 🛕😊🙏🏻🌼[…]

July 24, 2026

It would greatly help your inner progress if you take up work, any work and for whatever time, in the Sri Aurobindo Center.

There is no testing done by the Divine Mother. It is simply a wonderful opportunity to progress, to develop Her Remembrance, the opportunity to offer your energies to…

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