Home » Children » Adult Children » Every time I am doing something important in my life, my father will tell me that it will not work out and I should not have my hopes too high, he is such a pessimist but still he gets inside my head and I am upset and full of tension, why is he not supporting me?
The question you need to ask is not why your father is not supporting you but that why you still believe in your father more than in yourself.
If one has to do something in life then one must not be dependent upon the opinion of anyone including one’s nearest ones. Being upset does not help. It will only waste your time and energy. Use the opposition and discouragement of others to grow strong and independent.
Affectionately,
Alok da.
Share this…
Of course it is a very personal decision. But if I were in your place I would go by what The Lord has hinted in Savitri. That is to say, I will speak to the daughter once, explain to her the pros and cons and then let her make a …
Absolutely true. There is nothing better than being an instrument of the Divine Mother, a living example of whatever we can conceive of the Divine. It is not easy, because our nature is normally driven by the ego. As a mystic poet has beautifully described that the tree the river, the earth, the wind and the fire, all the five elements give themselves freely without asking anything in return. But with man the sense of want develops beyond his …
Human birth is not the ultimate. It is the peak of creation in ignorance. In human beings the Ignorance becomes a consciously seeking Ignorance. It is because the aspiration is born in man. Later humanity will evolve through this aspiration into something higher than human.
Man of Sorrows is the shadow of the Divine Bliss. Just..