Home » Children » Adult Children » Every time I am doing something important in my life, my father will tell me that it will not work out and I should not have my hopes too high, he is such a pessimist but still he gets inside my head and I am upset and full of tension, why is he not supporting me?
The question you need to ask is not why your father is not supporting you but that why you still believe in your father more than in yourself.
If one has to do something in life then one must not be dependent upon the opinion of anyone including one’s nearest ones. Being upset does not help. It will only waste your time and energy. Use the opposition and discouragement of others to grow strong and independent.
Affectionately,
Alok da.
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Yes, yes. Stay away from drama, circus, people and all that. Stay with peace and equanimity.
It is a choice each one must make and go through the consequences. The Divine knows everything. What we think or feel about others is not important. Truth alone counts and it is only the Divine who knows it.
First thing first. It is to stop using any label to define or describe yourself. Each one has his or her own unique difficulties and challenges. You have yours. These challenges have to be dealt, each in their own way. For example if concentration and motivation is a challenge then one has find ways and means to augment. What one has to remember here is that if there is in us a faith and genuine will to change then there is nothing impossible. Take it …