Alok da, when Sri Aurobindo came back form England his father had died but did he meet his mother after coming back 🤔?

Yes, your thoughts are flowing in quite the right direction. Copying something from the Mother which resonates. 

‘If one can be like this, open—truly open in a simplicity… you know, the simplicity of ignorance that knows it’s ignorant… like this (gesture, hands open), ready to receive all that comes… then, perhaps, something will happen.