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How can I protect myself from someone’s blackmail? I mean, I know my father’s nature. Even after telling him everything and explaining things, he’ll use the same tactic: “I’ll kill myself if you don’t get married…” etc. Sometimes he even hurts himself. How can I stop all this? This isn’t right, is it? 😥🥀❤️‍🔥🍃

Nobody can stop anyone and nobody is responsible for anyone else. You are responsible only for your own life. And you should decide based on your deepest truth in your heart. There should be no will to hurt anyone, but if someone still feels hurt, then what can you do about it except to be firm with a choice which you feel is true and best. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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