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AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

I have been listening to you and reading collected works of mother which I have not finished yet and I aspire to walk on Sri Aurobindo’s Integral yoga path. My question is: despite everything i constantly feel the urge of becoming a mother which wasn’t there till I was 29..I keep aspiring but this urge constantly hit me. Can you put some light on it. How shall I overcome it😳?

The urge for motherhood is natural in women. It is a biological instinct strongly ingrained in us. If one ignores it for sometime it tends to pass away. Another way is to take up some children and be involved in their education and upbringing. It may trouble for 2 to 3 years more and then quietly fades away.

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Alok Da

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