My mother lives in denial and delusion about herself and her equation with everyone around, now that is a problem more for the people around her and if I tell her anything like how she behaved in the past, she will plainly deny and fight with me, How to deal with this kind of a person?

Dear Alok da, in the following passage, “The boon that we have asked from the Supreme is the greatest that the Earth can ask from the Highest, the change that is most difficult to realise, the most exacting in its conditions. …” 😊🪷🌻✨[…]

March 11, 2026

Matter is the jada tattva of which all earthly life is based upon. Its nature is obscurity, inertia, darkness. It carries its own truth within but is unable to release or deliver it except through much resistance. It has so far released life (living creatures) and mind (thinking man) out of its womb of …

Alok da, how do I deal with this sense of fusion, that I feel within my being, as if I’m a bit torn apart, because I feel like I want to take part in all that is part of the bourgeois ideal, like a bit of marital sweetness, a bit of cultural activities, good money, societal prestige, etc. … 😣👥🫂🌄💖[…]

March 11, 2026

These longings are normal and natural at your age. There is nothing wrong in going through these aspects of life consciously, offering it all at the Mother’s Feet for purification and with an aspiration that the togetherness with your prospective partner be not just a means of personal pleasure but a means for Her Work …

I primarily do Nama Japa and try to remember the Mother before doing any work, most of the time, except when reading Mother and Sri Aurobindo’s writings. 🧑🏻‍🤝‍👩🏻😐🌹✨[…]

March 11, 2026

Yes, that is what I meant about the complications that married life brings. However it is also a good preparation as it opens the heart’s doors to human love and finer emotions such as tender affection, teaches us the spirit of …

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My mother lives in denial and delusion about herself and her equation with everyone around, now that is a problem more for the people around her and if I tell her anything like how she behaved in the past, she will plainly deny and fight with me, How to deal with this kind of a person?

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Dear Alok da, in the following passage, “The boon that we have asked from the Supreme is the greatest that the Earth can ask from the Highest, the change that is most difficult to realise, the most exacting in its conditions. …” 😊🪷🌻✨[…]

I primarily do Nama Japa and try to remember the Mother before doing any work, most of the time, except when reading Mother and Sri Aurobindo’s writings. 🧑🏻‍🤝‍👩🏻😐🌹✨[…]