. I do understand she is just a child of an environment that has been biased towards male child. Today I do understand it and to an extent dont hold her responsible, but still the lifelong hurt is there. But this question is more about her than me, has she created Karma? Can she resolve it in this lifetime? But for that I have to tell her that I have been hurt.She is 89. Dada and her were married for 69 years and after his passing has started talking about being ready to die. So telling her at this time seems cruel.
But telling her and giving her time to resolve this Karm ( if it was created at all ) is that way to go or letting it go and working on my own feelings is the right way to go? Will giving her chance to resolve this Karm help in her evolution. Or this was not Karm at all and will dissolve as minor matter?
She has created karma by attachment and its inevitable result is suffering regardless of the nature of attachment.
It is not good to judge people and give our views until they ask. You can tell her you have been hurt to clear your grudge but it will create pain and guilt in a lady who is growing old..
Best is to offer it all to the Divine Grace and leave her, yourself and others to go through the lessons of Fate..
Affectionately,
Alok Da
. He has ācall centersā where scammers working for him call innocent elderly people, war veterans, students, and all kinds of other vulnerable people, and tell them that their ābank account is frozen and they have to pay a certain amount of money to unblock itā, and other similar lies ā all aimed at scaring and threatening these people to make money off them. And the worst thing is that these people are often times already highly vulnerable and poor in the first place. Another business that he has revolves around microfinancing, where people are given short term loans that quickly rise in interest. Again, the whole thing is meant to scam people. . A person takes 100-200 dollars to buy something, and in many cases they do it under difficult circumstances such as having to buy medicine, or under influence of drug addiction or gambling addiction. And the interest rises every week or month to the point where the initial 100 dollars becomes 10 thousand dollars in a matter of months! And then, they take away that personās apartment [conti]
? Like they are still not there when you need them as their priorities are different even today, can you explain this from dharma point of view as well? 
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