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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

I have been in a relationship with an army special forces officer since few years. It started as a long-distance relationship since he was often on assignments โ€” we would exchange only a few messages now and then and meet every 2โ€“3 months. Even though we didnโ€™t know each other very deeply, there was always a strong connection, and neither of us walked away. We also became intimate๐Ÿคซโค๏ธ๐ŸŒ™๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ‘จ [conti]

On the contrary it is always the sign of a great inner strength to be able to love even though it is evident that he

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As Neet PG results are out, I am confused about which speciality i should choose. I asked Maa to guide me towards the path that will bring me closer to her, I have this fear that hectic, demanding specialities might distract me, take me away from her as I have similar experience in the preparation phase of this exam.๐Ÿ’ญ๐ŸŒœ๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ˜ด

Yesterday night I had a dream – I was in a hospital which was above Sri Aurobindo aashram building, i was taking history in a

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I am confused about my sadhana. I got involved in The Mother’s work, physically also I love it, she also loves me very much, I am feeling that but my problem is that I am not sticking in one way of sadhana. One or two days I do japa of The Mother’s name MAA MAA,it is going very well but after two three days mind suggest, “Sri Aurobindo says it sometimes better to take both name” then my opinion changes I start “Om Sri Aurobindo Mira” then after 3 to 4 days I think Mother I have come here for transformation so whole day I say, “transform me transform others O Sri Aurobindo Mother’s light change all”. Then Suddenly mind says another day, ” Surender surender your thoughts feeling and work”,

Sadhana is to give oneself to the Divine. It is not a mental method or a technique or a mechanical process that we do to

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Sir, the more I read different philosophies and scriptures, the more confused I become. In my pursuit of knowledge, I feel that I truly know nothing at all. My mind is filled only with opinions, ideas, and imaginations, and they all seem like mere garbage. The only true thing I possess is faithโ€”faith in my heart. The only wealth in my life is my faith: the Mother, her name, her image, her love, and Sri Aurobindoโ€™s Grace.๐Ÿ“œโœจ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ“š

Guard your faith and love for Sri Aurobindo and the Mother as a priceless treasure. It is the key to all else including knowledge. It

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I have a little confusion about the method of reading Sri Aurobindo within my short life span. I have developed aspiration to complete the main books The synthesis of Yoga, the Life Divine, Savitri, Essays on the Gita and the Upanishads. I am now 71 years old and would aspire to complete before I leave this world. All the books I have partially read and could not complete. Should I read the books one by one or earmark different timings in a day for different books?๐Ÿ“–โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿชทโœ๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅ [conti]

Beautiful aspiration. I am sure your aspiration will be fulfilled by Her Grace. It will be better to allocate different times in the day for

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If I am not mistaken, the transformed being will have the purest form of existence, purest consciousness, purest bliss. But my question is – will these purest forms of existence, consciousness, and bliss in each being be finite (as the psychic being is finite) or will they be infinite?๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’Ž๐Ÿ”„โœจ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

Pure existence, pure consciousness, pure bliss is Sacchidananda, the Divine who is one and infinite. Creation is meant to manifest the same on a finite

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My friend made me a comment about my complexion which was insensitive and I was hurt or should I say my vital was hurt. He did apologise and admitted that he’s been insensitive but I decided to not talk to him till I calmed down. I did calm down I told him it’s alright but how do I deal with such comments and people? Because I can’t talk to them or face them at all. I delete them off from my brain. Is it natural? Please help me out.๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฌ

Such people are best ignored and such friends are best avoided. It shows not only an insensitivity towards others but also a superficial way of

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I have never thought of staying in the Ashram forever, but the thought of visiting it comes again and again. Yes, but such thoughts do come and I also pray that Maa, some such arrangement should be made so that I can get food and shelter and my life can be devoted to serving you. Who knows, I may get entangled in the cycle of earning money๐ŸŒณ๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™€๏ธโ˜€๏ธ๐ŸŒธ [conti]

Aspire and surrender to the Mother’s Grace to fulfil in its own time in Her own way.

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