We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Sir, I am facing the question: ‘Who is the Mother? ‘ Those who do not know Mother Sri Aurobindo: what is the standard way to reply to them? We are staying 5 roommates preparing for competitive exams in Bhubaneswar. ๐ฅ๐๐๐ป๐ป[…]
It is best not to engage in discussions with those who merely have an idle curiosity. You can simply direct them to read Sri Aurobindo

For quite some time now, Iโve experienced vibrations of sexual desire within me, but by the grace of the Mother, the urges donโt have as much influence anymoreโthey donโt compel me toward sexual acts. The Motherโs force doesnโt allow these urges to dominate. ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฅ[…]
If you don’t feel naturally inclined then it is better not to indulge especially if your wife is unwilling to walk the …

Someone told me most of our dreams come from the subconscient which are almost trash.ย We should only pay attention to dreams that repeat again and again.ย Please explainโฆ If they are all so mixed upโฆ How can one know which one is guidance and which one is trash?ย ๐ญ๐ค๐ป[…]
Dreams come from different sources. The subconscient dreams are quite chaotic. Interpreting them requires intuition and experience.
It is always good if one can remember

I have a question that makes me feel that people compare and based on their comparison, they decide and come to their preferences; they favour them. And when I see this play of ego, of pleasing the other person, and when one understands that oneโs higher-up favours him/her, one feels good about that closeness. ๐๐๐ฆ๐พ[…]
It is wonderful that you are able to see the falsehood behind this kind of vital love of praise which is indeed a kind of

Itโs easier to think about aligning with God when idle, but harder in moments of real choiceโespecially when torn between comfort and asking, โWhat would God want me to do?โ Acting with sincerity, enthusiasm, and self-forgetfulness, being a resource to others, and embodying cheerful equanimity feels like a truer way to connect with the Divine. Imagining Their presence and working for Them helps deepen that connection. ๐ซจ๐ผ๐ฆ[…]
The defects you enumerate are universal, though the extent and expression differs. Their root cause is ego, ignorance and desire which almost universally afflict all

Hello Da, I had once read writings by Sri Aurobindo and the Mother in which they described Winston Churchill as a vessel and vital instrument of the Divine during World War II, opposing the โdark Asuric forceโ represented by Hitler. They also expressed support for Churchill during the war against the Axis powers. ๐ค๐ช๐พ๐พ[…]
To justify one’s actions because of your background is, what I term as the Karna syndrome. Both karna and Arjuna had difficult harsh childhood. But

If Supramental’s manifestation upon Earth will bring major changes to human consciousness and the human body, what effect will it have on all terrestrial creation on Earth, e.g., vegetation and animals? And how does it affect the ‘Gods’; will they eventually merge with the Supreme, i.e., lose their separate identity? ๐๐๐ป๐ชท๐[…]
Yes, just as man’s coming had a direct and indirect effect upon the earth and its creatures as well as the gods, so too the

Is eating milk and white bread for breakfast with a dash of sugar a bad thing? Modern food guidelines are making too much of white bread and sugar. They have almost declared them as human toxins, to the point of cutting some food sources completely from one’s diet. And I believe in eating everything in moderation. Where is the truth behind such regulations? ๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐ค
Cow Milk has been the staple diet of many Indians through generations. It is also regularly provided in the Ashram Dining Room. Chemically it comes

Mother says not to have an ordinary outlook on things. How to develop a spiritual outlook on everything- circumstances, people, etc.? ๐๐๐ป๐ป
The simplest of ways to develop the spiritual outlook is Swadhyaya and Satsang, reading of books that carry the authentic spiritual vibration and the company

I’m telling the truth when I say I just know for a fact that, despite my limits and flaws, I know I want The Divine enough to do whatever I need to do. When I was sharing that I have doubts, I was observing the hesitation in parts of me in order to acknowledge and overcome it instead of hiding it; I was not choosing or identifying with those doubts. ๐๐๐ป๐ธโค๏ธโ๐ฅ[…]
I know that and there is no question of doubting any of it. I know your love for Them is genuine and so is your

Alok da, what is the real significance of Marriage in oneโs life? I feel the social and societal cause is too much of an extra emphasis. Whatโs the truth? ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐ง๐ผโ๐ผ๐ชท
Marriage is meant to represent the occult truth of Purusha and Prakriti. It is the coming together of the masculine or passive and ideative with

Sir, during the last few months, in a certain study circle, there was a discussion regarding a certain subject. After that, that person scolded me indirectly several times. ๐ฃ๐ผ๐ฆ[…]
One should grow strong, first, to bear the shocks of life, secondly, to master and conquer them. One should be able to discuss things without

As Sri Krishna says in the Gita, there are 4 categories of seekers. 1) arta 2) artharhi 3) jigyasu 4) gyaani. I am 50% in the arta category and 20%in artharhi category and 30% in the jigyasu category. ๐๐๐ป๐ป[…]
I feel it is too early or rather you are still young to enter a path right now. It is good to read spiritual literature,

How is the Inner Self different from the Psychic and what is the relationship between them?ย โค๏ธโ๐ฅ๐๐๐ป๐ธ
There is an outer self which relates to our physical surface personality and all that constitutes it. This outer personality is largely a product of

Please differentiate between the Spirit and the Soul? ๐ฅ๐๐๐ป๐ชท
The original meaning of the words were simple. The soul refers to the portion of the Divine in the individual. It is the Jivatma. The

I was just listening to your talk on ‘overmind and supermind’. I have listened to a few of your other talks referring to the same subject, which makes me ask a few questions about this. Didn’t the Overmind consciousness manifest on Earth while Lord Krishna himself was on Earth?ย ๐๐ฆ๐ชท๐ค
Sri Krishna took his station on the Overmind just as Sri Rama from the Illumined Mind and Sri Aurobindo from the Supermind. It was the

Sir, I had one question related to depression and healing. Are there any spiritual methods or books to help us get rid of these issues? ๐ฅ๐๐พ๐พ
The method that the Mother recommends to come out of depression is to stop thinking about oneself and replace it by thinking about the Divine.

Sir, Sri Aurobindo talks about the descent of peace, light, force while doing above-head concentration. he also speaks about higher planes of consciousness, e.g., higher mind, intuitive mind, etc., and the ascent of consciousness into these planes. What is the correlation between these two explanations? ๐๐๐ป๐๐ธ
Ascent means that the consciousness begins to operate in a new mode. It is somewhat like a child going from school into graduation wherein he