We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย
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When Mother says get rid of of your lower nature. What does it mean in easy language?๐ชจโ๏ธ๐ช๏ธโ๏ธโ๐ฅ
It means that we should get rid of promptings of desire and ambition and their offshoots lust, greed, fear, jealousy, doubts, egoism etc

What is vital? Please explain in simple worlds or in the words of Mata ji and somewhere in Sri Aurobindo and the mothers writing please teel the meaning of thee thy and thou. Sometimes I feel that Mata ji is not listening to my prayer and the hostile thoughts get me even after praying from The Mother that make me out of that and this condition was I feel not good I feel so bad for myself and feel that if I was made for this yoga or not?โก๐๐๐ช๏ธโจ [Conti]
Vital is the life energy in a human being. Ordinarily this energy makes one restless and by habit we associate this restlessness with wants and

Sir, I have a small request… please make a video on the difference between higher mind, illumined mind, intuitive mind.๐๏ธ๐ง โจ๐ฆ ๐ค๏ธ
I think it is there somewhere on auromaa on planes of consciousness. But will make another simpler one.

In Savitri, Book 11, when Mother Savitri asks Supreme for a boon for the earth, why does Supreme ask her to merge into him, when he has created the universe and one day it has to become divine?๐๏ธ๐ค๐โพ๏ธ
It is because though She is the Divine Mother, She has descended here for the human lila. She is not asking anything for herself but

I had a dream, Dada: I was driving a car and a bike was moving ahead of me on its own. Then I got down from the car and reached a market. The bike was moving ahead on its own. Then suddenly in a second I saw that the bike had disappeared. I was scared to see what my father would say now๐ด๐ค๐๐ญ [conti]
Bike in front of car represents an escort, some kind of guidance and protection that momentarily left you in the market but returns back after

What is the method to surrender to The Mother and prayer to The Mother? Is there any good book to do it?๐คฒโจ๐โโ๏ธ๐ชท๐ค
There is no outer method in these things. Methods imply that God is a machine wherein you put in certain effort and get a return.

I’ve always been wondering that our current suffering has got anything to do with our past life sin. I just want to know about this because I’ve been suffering from mental illness. I’ve always wanted to commit suicide. I don’t like this life at all. One day I’ve had almost tried to kill myself but something was stopped me. I was also sexually assaulted by men. Is it also related to my past life sin๐ญ๐๐ค๐ฅ?
Sin is a human invention. The sense of sin and guilt played a role at some point of time in our social evolution. But they

What all things should we avoid in order to not make Maa angry with ourselves?๐๐ค๐ชท๐
Maa is never angry. Affectionately, Alok Da

Alok da what does Pran Pratishtha mean?๐ช๐ฟ๐ฑ๐
It is charging the idol or image with the presence and power of the Deity turning it into a living image. It is just as

Dada, there is a professor at IISC who is a sadhaka in the sampradaya of Madhvacharya, and he says that, according to him, the way to find your Swadharma is to do what you can persistently despite failure. I want to ask, is this a good way of practically knowing, or is it too reductionist? And according to you, what can be the best practical way for a young child?๐ง๐โจ๐ฑ
That is one way of looking at it. But a slightly negative and outer way of looking at it. There are plenty of things we

Is drinking small quantities of alcohol really that bad? Most people I know consume alcohol in some measure. I noticed that the ones who quit it completely face backlash from Society. For example, I heard business people say that you can’t trust a person who doesn’t drink. ๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ธ๐ถ[…]
It is not a question of good or bad from a moral point of view. But drinking alcohol is certainly harmful for the physical, as

Yesterday suddenly realised during my prayer with my mother that the seat of the Psychic Being is Highar Vital, in the Hridaya Chakra. Initially, I feel Peace, Bliss and Delight up to the Vishudhi Centre. Suddenly realised that my heart has received The Mother’s Peace and is spreading to all the centre of my all the inner parts and similar to the mother light also. Suddenly feel that the heart centre is doing everything. Alok da, is our Sadhana going in the right direction? Please guide me. ๐ชทโจ๐๐ฏ๏ธ
Yes absolutely, the psychic being is behind the heart centre and when open and in the front then all becomes easy and natural.

How to understand and know the Divine’s Will so that I can act accordingly.ย
One has to be very quiet and surrendered, that means without eagerness or preferences or fixed opinions, not wanting things to be this way or

Probably 4-5 years ago, I had read a book named ‘Immortal Talks’ by an author named Shunya. Last time I checked, the author hadn’t revealed their identity. So the book is about Hanuman and how He imparts the ultimate knowledge to this particular tribe of people every 40 years and the story revolves around it. You can call its genre fiction. As I read that, I felt such a deep connection with Hanuman. ๐๐น๐๐๐ป[…]
It is not a dream but a real contact with the ever living legendary Hanuman who continues to help the simple hearted devotees upon earth

The questioner and the question are they two different, or are they one and the same?๐โญโจโพ๏ธ๐ง
In the pure Adwaitic sense they are one but not necessarily the same. All is the One Reality but covered with Ignorance. That is why

Sometimes the Dreams are so vivid. Sometimes I can’t remember. How do I know from which plane/dimensions the Dreams are from?๐ญ๐๐ด๐ค
Vividness and clarity indicate that they are of the nature of visions. There are no general rules about the planes except that the closer the

Now my question is still, I am not able to know what is happening in my life and I do not know who Mother is and what is Her relationship with me, though I heard a lot of speeches of yours on YouTube and read some books of Mother and Aurobindo.โจ๐ธ๐ค๐ฎ[…]
I completely understand the difficult time that you are going through. But why connect it to your visit to the Ashram or any other outer

Despite knowing that pain and difficult situations can often bring us nearer to the Divine, I abhor pain and want to repel it from my life. What should I do?๐ณ๏ธ๐ฎโ๐จ๐ฅ๐ช๏ธ๐ฉน
Of course one should not love pain. Abhoring pain is natural, healthy and normal. However if it comes, then instead of shrinking or react with