We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย
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Last few days I suddenly had a desperation to come in contact with my psychic being to receive inner guidance. I sat in meditation and aspired that my psychic being come forward very intensely. I started experiencing a sharp pain in the center of my chest and a pressure in my throat. I then came across these words from The Mother – โ Yes, if you call very strongly, if you aspire very strongly, you may pull down a large number of forces into you,..๐๐ฏ๏ธ๐ชทโจ
This experience came as a guidance from your psychic being itself that one should give oneself more and more to the Divine rather than want

Dear Alok da, my colleague believes there is nothing like a “purpose or aim of one’s life”, and it’s only people running for needs. A poor person is in need of money, so he thinks his aim is to earn money and runs towards it..๐ช๐ณ๐ค๐ต
These are his beliefs and not rational propositions.
Flawed logic number one.
If one wants to earn money because of poverty then the logical

Dada nowadays I feel that a strong pressure from the heart which quite and widening the mind and that pressure go downward to quite the belly and sex part. When it enters to sex part, for few second I feel that the sex part is vanished. I also feel that something that part is drawn upward which absorb in either heart centre or mind and after that there is no sex impulse exist. What is this? Is the experience correct?๐ฅโก๏ธ๐ฆ๐งโโ๏ธโก๐ชท
his is a beautiful and true experience of descent of the Mother’s Force flowing through the psychic centre and a consequent ascent. This is a

Sir I had a doubt is Vibishan known for his support to the good by taking the side of Lord Sri Ram or is he considered a betrayer of his own family. How are we supposed to remember Vibishan?๐น๐ฒ๐๐
The sense of righteousness was more in Vibishan much more prevalent than compared to Bhismacharya and Guru Drona acharya. Is this what we conclude

I am new to The Mother’s and Sri Aurobindo writings so can you please explain the meaning of Thee Thy & Thou and many words or short form I think like this not easy to understand sometimes.โ๏ธ๐ฅ๐๐
It depends upon the context. But generally Capitals indicate referring to the Divine as the Lord and Creator.
Thee is the respectful version of

I have been in a relationship with an army special forces officer since few years. It started as a long-distance relationship since he was often on assignments โ we would exchange only a few messages now and then and meet every 2โ3 months. Even though we didnโt know each other very deeply, there was always a strong connection, and neither of us walked away. We also became intimate๐คซโค๏ธ๐๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐จ [conti]
On the contrary it is always the sign of a great inner strength to be able to love even though it is evident that he

As Neet PG results are out, I am confused about which speciality i should choose. I asked Maa to guide me towards the path that will bring me closer to her, I have this fear that hectic, demanding specialities might distract me, take me away from her as I have similar experience in the preparation phase of this exam.๐ญ๐๐ค๐ด
Yesterday night I had a dream – I was in a hospital which was above Sri Aurobindo aashram building, i was taking history in a

And can courage also depend on the genes? I mean to ask, does the son of a courageous man have a higher possibility of being courageous, and vice versa?๐ฆโ๏ธ๐ฆ โฐ๏ธ
There is no doubt a hereditary element that does enter into the formation of traits, especially of outer personality and behavioral tendencies. This is partly

I am confused about my sadhana. I got involved in The Mother’s work, physically also I love it, she also loves me very much, I am feeling that but my problem is that I am not sticking in one way of sadhana. One or two days I do japa of The Mother’s name MAA MAA,it is going very well but after two three days mind suggest, “Sri Aurobindo says it sometimes better to take both name” then my opinion changes I start “Om Sri Aurobindo Mira” then after 3 to 4 days I think Mother I have come here for transformation so whole day I say, “transform me transform others O Sri Aurobindo Mother’s light change all”. Then Suddenly mind says another day, ” Surender surender your thoughts feeling and work”,
Sadhana is to give oneself to the Divine. It is not a mental method or a technique or a mechanical process that we do to

Sri Aurobindo’s Yoga, Integral Yoga, belongs to which type of Vedanta, if we were to place it within that framework?๐ช๐โ๏ธ๐งโโ๏ธ
It doesn’t fit any framework of schools of thought. Its foundation is Vedanta, its aim is the fulfilment of tantra, its method incorporates the Gita

Sir, the more I read different philosophies and scriptures, the more confused I become. In my pursuit of knowledge, I feel that I truly know nothing at all. My mind is filled only with opinions, ideas, and imaginations, and they all seem like mere garbage. The only true thing I possess is faithโfaith in my heart. The only wealth in my life is my faith: the Mother, her name, her image, her love, and Sri Aurobindoโs Grace.๐โจ๐๏ธ๐
Guard your faith and love for Sri Aurobindo and the Mother as a priceless treasure. It is the key to all else including knowledge. It

I have a little confusion about the method of reading Sri Aurobindo within my short life span. I have developed aspiration to complete the main books The synthesis of Yoga, the Life Divine, Savitri, Essays on the Gita and the Upanishads. I am now 71 years old and would aspire to complete before I leave this world. All the books I have partially read and could not complete. Should I read the books one by one or earmark different timings in a day for different books?๐โ๏ธ๐ชทโ๏ธ๐ฅ [conti]
Beautiful aspiration. I am sure your aspiration will be fulfilled by Her Grace. It will be better to allocate different times in the day for

If I am not mistaken, the transformed being will have the purest form of existence, purest consciousness, purest bliss. But my question is – will these purest forms of existence, consciousness, and bliss in each being be finite (as the psychic being is finite) or will they be infinite?๐ฅ๐๐โจ๐๏ธ
Pure existence, pure consciousness, pure bliss is Sacchidananda, the Divine who is one and infinite. Creation is meant to manifest the same on a finite

My friend made me a comment about my complexion which was insensitive and I was hurt or should I say my vital was hurt. He did apologise and admitted that he’s been insensitive but I decided to not talk to him till I calmed down. I did calm down I told him it’s alright but how do I deal with such comments and people? Because I can’t talk to them or face them at all. I delete them off from my brain. Is it natural? Please help me out.๐ฌ๐คฎ๐คฌ
Such people are best ignored and such friends are best avoided. It shows not only an insensitivity towards others but also a superficial way of

Does the Divine love us perfectly and His infinite Love for us never flags, not even for a moment in the whole of eternity?๐๐ชทโค๏ธโ๐ฅ๐ค
There is only one Love and it is the Divine Love. All other love is either its diminution or distortion or perversion. It is the

I have never thought of staying in the Ashram forever, but the thought of visiting it comes again and again. Yes, but such thoughts do come and I also pray that Maa, some such arrangement should be made so that I can get food and shelter and my life can be devoted to serving you. Who knows, I may get entangled in the cycle of earning money๐ณ๐งโโ๏ธโ๏ธ๐ธ [conti]
Aspire and surrender to the Mother’s Grace to fulfil in its own time in Her own way.

You mentioned about Nietzsche’s commentary on Superman. Were you talking about Friedrich Nietzsche? And what exactly about him you mentioned? What should I know about him?๐ฆ ๐ฆโฐ๏ธ๐โค๏ธโ๐ฅ
Yes, Friedrich Nietzsche who proposed the theory of The Superman. But his Superman is the Asuric type whereas Sri Aurobindo’s Superman is the godlike type.

Something about Richard Brooks illusion. Excuse me if I used wrong names but that’s how I noted it down. And what did this guy say that you mentioned about him?๐๐ฉ๏ธโจ๐ฌ
Richard Bach’s book Illusions. The quote was ‘where we stand is less important than the direction we are facing’. His other book ‘Jonathan Livingstone Seagull’