Ask Alok da
We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

I often struggle to express myself clearly in words. Even when I have a deep and clear understanding of something within me, I find it difficult to convey it accurately to others. When I try to speak, the words that come out are often confusing or don’t match what I truly mean🥲.
Quite a few people have this difficulty especially when one wants to convey things that are deep. I would suggest three things that will help

I’m a very introverted person 😳and rarely share my feelings with others. Only one or two people truly know me well. I don’t even share anything with my parents, I often hold back because I fear the someone might copy my thoughts, ideas, or actions without giving me any credit. I also hesitate to invite people into my home, partly because I worry they might judge it, and partly because I’m afraid they’ll take ideas from my décor. I see my ideas as unique, and the thought of someone imitating them makes me uneasy. Please help me understand this better—are these two separate issues, or are they connected?
Nothing wrong with being an introvert but the thought that people may take your ideas should not be entertained. Ideas do not belong to anyone

The other day when I was choosing music for the Podcast, I wanted Krishna’s flute music. So whilst I was scrolling through and clicked one video to listen to the music, it was Krishna’s photo playing the flute. A static photo whilst the flute played🦚
As you might be knowing if one reads Sri Aurobindo’s life and experiences, Sri Krishna and Sri Aurobindo are one. Sri Krishna is the Ananda,

Sometimes I feel following a spiritual path make one feel lonely🤔.
Yes initially it does so because one becomes somewhat disengaged from life as it is today. In a way it helps focus one’s consciousness upon

Is the Operation Sindoor a right stratergic action on India’s front. Would it lead to war scenarios as being predicted towards 25 May 25?!✈️
Operation Sindoor is a powerful message. The modus operandi, the name, the planning, briefing, the precision and choice of targets are all highly commendable. More

Some people lack enthusiasm in life and constantly say no to anything that might bring them joy like going out, enjoying a meal, or watching a movie. While I agree that such activities may not offer deeper or lasting happiness, they also show no interest in exploring higher or more meaningful experiences. Instead, they often sulk, complain, criticize others, and remain unhappy with everything in their lives😥.
Yes this is a kind of shrinking from life, a kind of tamas (inertia) and fear of getting out of comfort zones. As a result

Should children dedicate their entire lives to their parents because they gave birth to them, raised them, and made many sacrifices? Some children even say, ‘My parents are like gods to me, if they asked me to jump into a well, I wouldn’t question it.’🤨
This is an absurd logic and contradicts the very core of Indian culture. The Gita, the Mahabharata, the Ramayana are all about dedicating our life

How a beginner knows truly his swabhava and swadharma because person lives on surface. Please guide Alokda.
Swabhava is the Divine Impulsion in everything. Its unmistakable sign is that it comes naturally to you, without any external consideration or outer compulsion or

In yesterday’s question on marriage where parents emotionally blackmailing their child to get married you said it is extremely selfish act at its core but they also used to tell us like we are also becoming selfish by not fulfilling their wish. In such a scenario we really don’t have answer answer and such thoughts comes like are we also acting selfishly? Please guide whose demand is valid here😥?
There is a fundamental right given by the Divine to make our free choices and suffer the good or bad consequences. That is the whole

There are many people in India who do not understand the English used by Sri Aurobindo. But if they connect with the Mother and Sri Aurobindo with love, is that enough, even if they don’t read or fully understand their teachings🤔?
Reading and understanding about the principles of the Yoga but not all are required to undertake it nor is it indispensable for the practice of

A few days ago, I had a dream in which I saw that our stone mines were burning and white🫨, with a lot of stones. Last night, I had a similar dream in which I saw that a lot of white stones were extracted and sold for 500,000 rupees. My uncle took those stones. Other people were saying, “Can’t we take it now?” My father said, “It was bought earlier.” On the other side, my brother was saying, “What is the use of this? It only covers the expenses.” After that, a man was telling me how many more stones would be extracted in the future and how much money there is. Does this dream have any symbolic meaning?
Yes the dream does indicate that the Divine Force (fire) has begun to work in the area where you work. Its first action is to

Invitation to Travel. Let’s cast off the moorings of the mind for the open sea.What is the difference between a mental solution and a spiritual solution? A mental solution to a conflict between two or more people will always be shaky and may become the cause of new problems, right? Seeking a mental solution is energy-consuming because we want to understand, and in order to understand, we can lose sleep. We think about it all the time! The difficulties encounter, the challenges are like goads. We go from involution to evolution⛵.
It is not just a question of consuming Time and Energy. It is a question of qualitative difference between the mental consciousness and the spiritual.

Dada, my recent discussion with friends regarding mughal history removed from the syllabus. One of the argument that came up was that Hindu Emperor has also distriod Buddhist and Jain temples. Can you put light on this part. If they did there must be some reason to do so and how can I understand it with the point of view of Dharma🤨?
Yes, it is true that there was a time when Hindus and Buddhists and Jains fought against each other for religious and political supremacy. But

Why do we use bottles🍶?
Because we want to segregate one thing from another so that each can retain its uniqueness.

Dada, can psychic love 💓 be stablish with the one who holds very opposite point of view and believes in different school of thought. The person seems very beautiful at heart and respectful in nature. But when it comes to connect with thoughts and believes they seems to hold reasoning mind quite strongly. What should be my attitude in such senario and how to go about it. Please guide dada
Dada, can psychic love be stablish with the one who holds very opposite point of view and believes in different school of thought. The person

Who listen the Thoughts😐?
You mean who witnesses the thought and knows we are thinking? It is mental consciousness that stands behind the act of thinking and knows one

Can you explain this dream: Like we family members are in some fair, then everyone else left and we went searching for a car, it was quite late so we stopped there, some wedding was going from there, then we left and started searching for the way, then a staircase came, we got in it and sat in the train, then my friends came, they told me that they are saying there is no contact, no message was sent, so I told them that I don’t have a phone, my phone is with my father
It means that something in you is keen for progress and is searching for a way out of the usual rut and attractions of the

The Mother has made it very clear. The world is preparing for a change. She is asking whether we would cooperate. Here does she refer an in and out change in human consciousness? We can see the hour has begun since decades. We are witnessing war in and out. We are experiencing hostile attacks outside and inside of ourselves. So, in order to save ourselves collectively and individually should we give special preference to physical education like building a strong body, learning martial arts that can resist, endure the attacks as well as go though the changes in terms of Supramental Terms, like transform the way The Mother wants it to. Like i saw the pictures of many Sadhaks, including Pranab Da, our Tara Didi, even Puraniji who had built the body of real strength. So, in this hour of need, where does physical education stand? How do we build our women and children in this aspect?
Yes, the Mother has given a great importance to physical education in both men and women from an early age. Body is the base for