We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

I’m under a lot of pressure to get married. I feel very, very, very lost. My parents have passed on a few contacts, and I have been talking to those guys. There is nothing wrong with these guys – in fact, they’re quite kind, mature, understanding and qualified, and one of them has a good depth of thought process and they are very interested in me. π§π»βπ€βπ©π»πΉπ«[…]
I think you are mixing several things, especially two very different things. The first and most important is what you should do with your life.

Pranam Alok Da. Mentally, I find Sri Aurobindo and the Mother to be complete in all aspects. Still, during meditation, I find it easier to meditate on Sri Ramakrishna than Sri Aurobindo or the Mother. Maybe I find Sri Ramakrishna more approachable when reading the gospel, and I see Sri Aurobindo as God, too tall, as described in Savitri, where some people find Savitri too high! Does it affect my yoga, or is it okay to continue like this? πππ»πͺ·
Yoga doesn’t move along one fixed line valid for all. The inherent complexity of nature and the vastness of the Divine Consciousness cannot be straight

Why does it happen that every time I am being approached by my romantic partner close enough, with the intention of lovemaking or simply touching or being simply romantic, I feel a strong response of blackout(momentary loss of consciousness) and feel withdrawn with respect to consciousness. Is it a sign that he is an obstacle to the path of Yoga? π¨π»ββ€οΈβπ©π»πΉπ΅βπ«
It is rather a good sign, the sign of an evolved person. There is nothing wrong with your partner or with you. It is just

I turned 25, thirteen days ago. I still live with my parents. I’m tired of it, and I am trying to be patient, but sometimes it feels like I’m losing my mind. I’m being a narcissistic brat, I know, but I can’t help it. π«π₯π¦ππΌ[…]
Leave aside parents, what is important is what we are doing with our life. If we are clear about our goal and what we truly

Whenever I get nervous, my hands start trembling. It is actually extremely embarrassing for me as a guy because I may come across as a coward. It also happens when I do intense exercise. Can you explain the reason for this? I started to take Magnesium B6, as it is said to help. ππΌπ°[…]
Pranayama, simple nadi shuddhi pranayama, along with asanas and meditation prepare the ground for the development.
There is also needed a shift in

Why is Trump so arrogant, senseless and feels America is the only country in the Universe? His tariffs have become like eating food every day. Why does he want Venezuela and Greenland? He wants all countries to be his puppets. πΊοΈπ₯Έ[…]
All the nations of the world are right now under the spell of the Asura of Falsehood who is making them think and act as

Is the transition from the last Kaliyuga to Satyuga explained, or are some signs that appeared given in our Vedic Literature? The current Kaliyuga is coming to an end and a new Satyuga is starting. My question is in this context. πππ€
The transition from Kaliyuga to Satyuga is given in the Puranas, especially the Matsya, Vishnu and Bhagawat Puranas as well as the much later Bhavishya

Can you give me one universal prayer, a specific one,Β by The Mother or byΒ Sri Aurobindo, if possible by both, to be recited every day during my pooja time along with my usual prayer hymns? πππ»πͺ·π₯[…]
This mantra was written by Sri Aurobindo as well as the Mother Om Anandamayi Chaitanyamayi Satyamayi Parame In the night as in the day be

Without having the desire to eat a Mango or Rasagulla, or without needing a Tea or Coffee, how can I enjoy eating or drinking? How can I enjoy a new Saree without liking it? π«£π¦π¦β¨[…]
What you are proposing is that the desires should first be sublimated from the rajasic asuric mode to the sattwic daivic mode through a conscious

If God already knows everything about us and our lives, then why do we still need to pray? πππ»π»
Think of it this way. A sculptor is moulding the material of which we are made. He wants to mould it into a beautiful image.

Alok da, if there’s a Physical, Vital, Mental, Psychic Love (Love based on Physical, Vital, Mental, Psychic affinities), of which you have spoken in your talks, is there Love corresponding to the different Planes of Mind too? π€πΉ[…]
Yes, the love that transcends the limits of the human mind is what is known as spiritual love. It is the love of the higher

Can two people have the same Spiritual Path? Also, for a true Male-Female Relationship based on Psychic and Spiritual values, does it require that the Spiritual Path should be the same? This is in reference to a text I read: Motherβs letter of March 1933 [CWM 14: 291]* π§π»βπ€βπ©π»β€οΈβπ₯π₯
Yes, why not. Two people can have the same spiritual path as we see in the stories of Rishis and their partners. But then those

Sri Aurobindo wrote about the Vedas, Upanishads, Ithihasas, Kalidas. Did He mention about Devi Bhagavadam? If not, why? If so, where? Which context? What is His say on that? πππ»π»π₯[…]
He didn’t take up any of the Puranas in detail apart from quoting here and there. He (and the Mother) held the Srimadabhagawatam in high

Every now and then, tamas overpowers the mind, triggering a downward whirlwind of mental state. Sometimes I wait it out, letting the tamasic state pass on its own; other times, I put too much pressure on my mind to snap out of it. πͺππ¦[…]
One must not succumb to tamas. If allowed it overpowers more and more. Day is meant for work and one should keep oneself occupied with

A recurrent thought of doing something wrong with someone is haunting me like ‘a bird caught in storms’. I feel as if anjane me hi sahi jo kiya hai maine us insan ke sath – usse kahi uska pura Career na affect ho jaye hamesha ke liye. π©π₯[…]
It is alright to learn from one’s mistakes, to rectify the part if it was done deliberately. But to brood over it is not only

I am walking through whatever life is bringing to me. But still, I am unable to find or understand the Purpose, the Goal, or the True Aim of my life. I keep offering all of this to The Mother, yet I wonder whether I am so unconscious, so ignorant, carrying so many impurities and tendencies that are far from the Divine? ππ»π¦[…]
It is because we are not made up of one piece. There are different parts in us, some open to Her, others half open, yet

There’s only Divine, nothing else exists, which is Light, Truth, Knowledge, Bliss, Beauty, Then from where this opposites – Darkness, Falsehood, Ignorance, Sorrow, Crookedness come? π€¨π₯π¦
Just as there is only Light and what we know as Darkness is either a dimming of the Light or else a limitation of our

If the Divine Mother listens to all the prayers from any place, like the workplace, the cooking place, and the bathrooms, as some prayers & Gratitude come naturally at any time. Then can a man pray at that time or he has to preserve those prayers in his mind? And after going to the Samadhi or the Mother’s photo, should he tell those preserved prayers? π€πππ»π»[…]
One has to pray to the Divine in the heart. Prayer is not a thing of the mind as of the heart. Otherwise a parrot