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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

How can I develop genuine humility instead of forced politeness? How can I stop absorbing othersโ€™ emotional states so intensely? How can I begin to see the other person also as a child of The Mother, especially when I have to continuously work under them and old reactions get triggered repeatedly? And how does one change these inner feelings sincerely rather than only controlling outer behaviour?๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ฎ

In any group it is important to know the reason or purpose about why one is joining the group. If it is simply with the

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In YouTube I saw a video where tarot card reading was mentioned, out of curiosity I opened it, selected a pile intuitively and to my surprise few things that were told their were quite accurate. Firstly What exactly is tarot card reading and what purpose it serves, Is it a superstition? Did The Mother & Sri Aurobindo commented on this?๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿ”ฎ๐ŸŒ™

The Mother has not mentioned anything directly about the Tarot card. But if we take the essence of Her writings in these matters it would

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I wanted to seek your guidance regarding something that has been confusing me inwardly. My confusion is: in this situation, what should be my right attitude? Should I ask the Mother for success and surrender the outcome with faith, or should I simply act and leave everything entirely to her will without expectation?๐Ÿš€๐ŸŒณ๐Ÿ’ง

There is nothing wrong in seeking success in any given endeavour. One does work with the idea that it should go well. And hence one

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Alok Da, I have been involved with a married man who has a child. For three years, he has promised to leave his wife, but it has become clear that he has no intention of doing so. Now, he says he will marry me legally but also wants to continue his past life. I am becoming very insecure; what is the right thing to do in this situation?๐Ÿ’”โš–๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ช

It is not about right and wrong. It is simply this fact that no one can leave a child behind and get remarried to someone

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For instance, if an individual passed away in 2020 and a child was born in 2010, is it conceivableโ€”under any circumstancesโ€”that the psychic entity of the person who departed in 2020 could enter that child? Could the entity choose that specific body for the continuation of its journey, regardless of the timing? Furthermore, at what point in time does a psychic entity typically enter a child?โŒ›๐Ÿ”๐Ÿ›ž

As far as possibility is concerned, well everything is possible. But it would be rarest of rare instances as it doesn’t serve any purpose. What

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I recently read that the psychic being carries impressions from birth to birth, acting like a silver thread that connects several lifetimes. In contrast, the soul is considered eternalโ€”an essential part of the Brahman. Could you help me understand the distinction between these two concepts more clearly?๐Ÿ‘ฃ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿชก

We can understand it through a very simple analogy. If we take the creation as the progressive manifestation of the Divine then each soul is

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With the rapid evolution taking place in India, is it safe to keep my savings in Indian mutual funds for the long term? Given how quickly things are changing, is there a risk that the mutual fund industry might collapse or be significantly disrupted? I am asking because traditional options like fixed deposits often fail to keep pace with inflation.๐Ÿ“ˆ๐ŸŒฑโšก

Mutual funds are the safest investment still. Generally they take care of market volatility. Of course as far as the future is concerned, it is

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Is it wise to switch from BCom to an MA and PhD in English to pursue a Teaching career, following one’s Heart’s call over the corporate world, and what specific books or practical steps beyond the syllabus can help build the necessary command of the subject before the March entrance exam? ๐Ÿ“šโœ๏ธ๐ŸŽ“๐ŸŒŸ

It is a good decision and in keeping with your nature and temperament. Read Sri Aurobindo, read other good writers in English, speak in English

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