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Dada, please tell if the following is a sign that he is an obstacle to the path of Yoga? Why does it happen every time I am being approached by my romantic partner close enough with the intention of lovemaking or simply touching or being simply romantic, I feel a strong response of blackout (momentary loss of consciousness) and feel withdrawn with respect to consciousness. πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

It is not because he or anybody is an obstacle. All obstacles are within us. Normally our physical body and biology are hardwired to respond

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I sometimes feel deep guilt or sadness about my past relationships. A few men in my life chose not to marry after our relationships ended and have said that they would only have married me. I am now happily married to someone else, but I sometimes wonder whether my presence in their lives prevented them from moving on, finding love, or living life fully. I am no longer in contact with them, but I hear these things through mutual friends. πŸ˜₯🌹[…]

The decision to get married or live with someone is a serious one, especially marraige. It cannot be taken based on promises made during a

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Alok Da, I have been having clear dreams for the last few days. My wife, who is pregnant, was feeding milk to the lion’s babies. I brought the milk from somewhere. And when I asked her to come closer, my wife refused and said not to come inside, the lion can attack. Sometimes in dreams, my breathing stops, but I feel alive. And in my entire life, I never gone through this kind of clear dream. πŸ€±πŸΌπŸ‘ΌπŸΌπŸ¦

The child in your wife’s womb seems to be a special soul. Is she on some path or has an Ista devata? The sense of

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I’m under a lot of pressure to get married. I feel very, very, very lost. My parents have passed on a few contacts, and I have been talking to those guys. There is nothing wrong with these guys – in fact, they’re quite kind, mature, understanding and qualified, and one of them has a good depth of thought process and they are very interested in me. πŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜«[…]

I think you are mixing several things, especially two very different things. The first and most important is what you should do with your life.

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Pranam Alok Da. Mentally, I find Sri Aurobindo and the Mother to be complete in all aspects. Still, during meditation, I find it easier to meditate on Sri Ramakrishna than Sri Aurobindo or the Mother. Maybe I find Sri Ramakrishna more approachable when reading the gospel, and I see Sri Aurobindo as God, too tall, as described in Savitri, where some people find Savitri too high! Does it affect my yoga, or is it okay to continue like this? πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸͺ·

Yoga doesn’t move along one fixed line valid for all. The inherent complexity of nature and the vastness of the Divine Consciousness cannot be straight

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Why does it happen that every time I am being approached by my romantic partner close enough, with the intention of lovemaking or simply touching or being simply romantic, I feel a strong response of blackout(momentary loss of consciousness) and feel withdrawn with respect to consciousness. Is it a sign that he is an obstacle to the path of Yoga? πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

It is rather a good sign, the sign of an evolved person. There is nothing wrong with your partner or with you. It is just

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Can two people have the same Spiritual Path? Also, for a true Male-Female Relationship based on Psychic and Spiritual values, does it require that the Spiritual Path should be the same? This is in reference to a text I read: Mother’s letter of March 1933 [CWM 14: 291]* πŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»β€οΈβ€πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Yes, why not. Two people can have the same spiritual path as we see in the stories of Rishis and their partners. But then those

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