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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β 

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I’m under a lot of pressure to get married. I feel very, very, very lost. My parents have passed on a few contacts, and I have been talking to those guys. There is nothing wrong with these guys – in fact, they’re quite kind, mature, understanding and qualified, and one of them has a good depth of thought process and they are very interested in me. πŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜«[…]

I think you are mixing several things, especially two very different things. The first and most important is what you should do with your life.

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Pranam Alok Da. Mentally, I find Sri Aurobindo and the Mother to be complete in all aspects. Still, during meditation, I find it easier to meditate on Sri Ramakrishna than Sri Aurobindo or the Mother. Maybe I find Sri Ramakrishna more approachable when reading the gospel, and I see Sri Aurobindo as God, too tall, as described in Savitri, where some people find Savitri too high! Does it affect my yoga, or is it okay to continue like this? πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸͺ·

Yoga doesn’t move along one fixed line valid for all. The inherent complexity of nature and the vastness of the Divine Consciousness cannot be straight

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Why does it happen that every time I am being approached by my romantic partner close enough, with the intention of lovemaking or simply touching or being simply romantic, I feel a strong response of blackout(momentary loss of consciousness) and feel withdrawn with respect to consciousness. Is it a sign that he is an obstacle to the path of Yoga? πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

It is rather a good sign, the sign of an evolved person. There is nothing wrong with your partner or with you. It is just

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Can two people have the same Spiritual Path? Also, for a true Male-Female Relationship based on Psychic and Spiritual values, does it require that the Spiritual Path should be the same? This is in reference to a text I read: Mother’s letter of March 1933 [CWM 14: 291]* πŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»β€οΈβ€πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Yes, why not. Two people can have the same spiritual path as we see in the stories of Rishis and their partners. But then those

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I am walking through whatever life is bringing to me. But still, I am unable to find or understand the Purpose, the Goal, or the True Aim of my life. I keep offering all of this to The Mother, yet I wonder whether I am so unconscious, so ignorant, carrying so many impurities and tendencies that are far from the Divine? πŸ™„πŸŒ»πŸ¦‹[…]

It is because we are not made up of one piece. There are different parts in us, some open to Her, others half open, yet

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If the Divine Mother listens to all the prayers from any place, like the workplace, the cooking place, and the bathrooms, as some prayers & Gratitude come naturally at any time. Then can a man pray at that time or he has to preserve those prayers in his mind? And after going to the Samadhi or the Mother’s photo, should he tell those preserved prayers? πŸ€”πŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ»πŸŒ»[…]

One has to pray to the Divine in the heart. Prayer is not a thing of the mind as of the heart. Otherwise a parrot

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