We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย
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Sir, in my relationship with the Mother, I would want it to be as pure as possible, without any demands or wishes for the satisfaction of desire, but in the worldly life I would like to succeed and be a great man. This is what I meant by my wish of not giving up desires.๐ทโจ[…]
I find it very beautiful to offer everything to the mother and I am content to receive her love, but in worldly life I wish

A part of me has been struggling with sexual impulses and masturbation for many years. Another part of me has been enjoying sexual impulses. I am a bit confused about the idea of accelerated evolution and the idea of patience when dealing with deep-rooted animality. ๐๐ป๐ฑ […]
This is how it gradually exits in most people. The higher centres respond and open, the psychic being steps out into the front. But the

Alok da, this might not exactly be a serious spiritual question with depth, but forgive me for asking this. One consistent pattern from childhood is that one sees is that in all the images and depictions that one gets acquainted of rishis, yogis that they really have massive long hair. ๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ๐ชท[…]
Hairs and Nails represent the inconscient atavistic elements in humans. They have an evolutionary necessity in animals but in human beings they are simply an

But doesnโt marriage keep people stable also – or would they drown themselves in alcohol and drugs, as in the West, due to loneliness?ย Free intimacy is also a hindrance, right? At least it fixes your emotional, physical, and financial needs. To explore higher areas of life… or wouldnโt everyone just live like animals? Osho’s ways were effective in giving an alternative to marriage? ๐ก๐ฟ
Marraige is like a double edged sword. If the partner is right it can help create stability. If the partner is not the right one

In the First Rik of the Rig Veda, Sri Aurobindo describes the nature of the Supreme as Sat-Chit-Ananda across different states of being. While explaining Nirguna and Saguna Sat, he uses phrases like “they nivแนtta, He nivแนtta” and “they pravแนtta, He nivแนtta”, which I find difficult to grasp. โ๏ธ๐๏ธ[…]
The Lord is both pravritti and nivratti, as the Fire and the Sun are both pravritti and nivratti. As Light they simply stand back and

Are Self-respect and Ego the same? ๐ช๐๐ป
Self respect is one of the forms of the ego. It could be a sattwic or a rajo-sattwic ego but an ego reaction nonetheless. The

Namaste Sir. If, in a relationship like marriage, there is no mutual respect for each other, what should be its fate? Marriage seems like a compromise, a cage, a dependency for the child’s future. I always pray to Mother for helping me to overcome such dependency. When bitterness overrides love, life searches only for escape. ๐ค๐ท
A marraige that does not fulfil certain basic conditions is not a marraige at all but a forced togetherness for both. Love and mutual respect

What is the spiritual significance behind the tradition of welcoming the Srimad Bhagavatam home specifically on Bhadrapada Purnima? ๐๐๐ป[…]
In ancient times, especially in India, the very concept of Time fascinated the advanced thinkers and sages. They tried to see the link between the

I am facing intense turmoil in my marriage due to my spouseโs chronic anger, alcohol struggles, and verbal and physical abuse, which have severely strained our home and my inner peace. Despite my sincere efforts to hold the family together for our children, the hostility and control have only escalated, leaving me anxious and exhausted. ๐๐ป๐ท […]
The only proper feasible option before you is to progressively detach yourself inwardly from your husband while outwardly doing your duties with the changed spirit

Is being detached the highest form of spirituality? If so, how would it essentially feel? When it feels like nothing will affect me because I donโt get closer to anything, it feels like Iโm not alive. Not feeling anything is like being dead.๐ค๏ธ๐๐ป[…]
Detachment is certainly not the highest spiritual virtue of spiritual life. It is one of the practices and not even the highest or the best.

From the underlined sentence from the paragraph, can we take Supramental and Vijnaanamaya to be the same? Please clarify โจ๐
Yes the Vijnanamaya of the Taittiriya Upanishad is the same as the Supramental except that the modern interpreters call it as the intellectual sheath. It

How can someone be Sincere? What exactly does it mean to be sincere? Please elaborate with the Grace of the Divine Lord Sri Aurobindo and The Mother. Jai Sri Maa.๐๐ปโจ
Sincerity means to be transparent before the Divine, not to hide or cover anything from the Divine. It also means to be open to the

Dear Sir, I had a dream; please explain what it means. I dreamed I was in a pristine, modern art exhibition that gradually turned bleak and discolored. The exhibits featured grotesque, mutated nudes and depictions of corpses beneath a veneer of artificial beauty. ๐จ๐ญ[…]
What you saw and describe is the actual truth behind modern art and postmodernism. It glorifies the grotesque and the ugly in the name of

My Mother has had a very tough life after marriage and she was tortured physically and mentally by her husband. She does not believe in Mother and Sri Aurobindo. Lately, she has made herself bedridden and refuses to go anywhere. She has also developed symptoms of fits, etc., like neck jerking. What should I do to make her come to her senses? ๐ค๐๐ป
Play some soft soothing music around her. If she believes in any traditional or other aspect of the Divine it will be helpful to recite

Hello Sir. I met a person 2 years ago. We didn’t talk personally, yet there was some exchange of feelings in silence. I didn’t see him for more than 6 months and also don’t know anything about him. When mind was vexed, I saw the mother’s message that ‘Love the Divine alone’. ๐๐ท[…]
What you experiencing is not love but a kind of obsession wherein the image of the person is coming to the mind again and again.

During my weekly Pilates reformer sessions, I have experienced intense episodes of deja vu and past-life intimations, where time and space seem to slide open. ๐๐๐ป[…]
What you seemed to have is not so much a past life experience but rather an entry into another dimension of existence due to the

Respected Sir, please explain the meaning of educating the cells in the Mother’s yoga and how to do it? ๐ทโจ
The cells and body organs respond habitually to certain forces such as fear, anger, lust, etc. On the other hand they are insensitive and closed

From your explanation of Buddhi Yoga, I understand it as two essential steps: first, turning the Buddhi inward by stepping back from impulsive sensory reactions to observe and respond consciously; and second, turning the Buddhi upward in quietude toward the Divine to receive higher guidance and act rightly. ๐๐ปโจ[…]
Absolutely. The quieter we are, full of trust in the Grace, the more we will be ready to receive the Guidance and the more effectively