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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย 

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Dear Alok da, For the last 2 months I have been having dreams of Siddha Yoga Sadhaks and the dreams are symbolic like a Sadhak is giving orders to someone like a king, someone who shows more emotions from outside but from inside bows down to the Guru as a formality! How should these dreams be understood? ๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป […]

Yes it is never helpful to see the real or unreal defects of anyone, let alone sadhaks. Human nature is too complex and each one

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Administering medicine to my 1-year-old daughter is a challenge. She was underweight according to Australian standards and had a low appetite, so the doctor has suggested iron and multivitamin drops, which she absolutely despises. Initially, I would give them forcefully and we would both end up in tears. ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿฉธ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐ŸŒผ[…]

First with regard to the value of an action. It is not the action itself but the intent that matters most. Whatever you did was

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I had another question in this question and you did not answer it. (And how can we connect with Param Maa and surrender to her during such an activity and can we experience her as beloved? If we experience her as beloved, then what should be my feeling at that time and in what feeling should I feel myself?) ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿฆ‹

The idea of sex as being related to the Beloved is a misrepresentation of the idea of physical union as the ultimate expression of love.

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Can you explain the dream: I was on a scooter on a deserted wheatish barren land with scanty shrubs and a few buildings. There were two roads and on the straight one where I was, my previous roommate was there, saying Go away; it’s not safe here. Donโ€™t come. I get alarmed and I look around. ๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿค•๐Ÿ‘ฅ๐Ÿ’”[…]

It is a clear indication to stay a little away from these two persons who in some way are open to wrong forces. When in

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“God is our wise and perfect friend, because he knows when to smite and when to fondle, when to slay us no less than when to save and to succour…. There must be faith in the love and wisdom of God,… working out all for our good even when it is apparently veiled in evil.” (Sri Aurobindo, 1984 Ashram Diary, July 3 and August 22) ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐ŸŒผ[…]

It is true that we live in a universe where Ignorance predominates. Yet the Divine Force always supercedes it using every experience, good and bad,

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Alok da, I’ve been reading the message that you gave me and the Mother’s message as well, repeatedly; it soothes me and calms me down. But lately I feel so blinded and clouded by my thoughts and emotions that I’m not able to make the right decision, act in the right manner, and see things clearly. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน๐Ÿฆ‹[…]

You don’t need to join an Ashram to end this suffering which is primarily due to a gross mismatch between mutual expectations. Not going into

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I’m facing a peculiar problem. My father-in-law, who is 87 years old, is fond of watching sex videos. Since he is hard of hearing, he plays those videos loudly. There were a number of times when we took his mobile and formatted it. But every time, he himself installed those sites and watched those videos.ย ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿป๐Ÿ“ฑ๐Ÿฆ‹๐Ÿ‚[…]

You have to treat it as a medical problem. Social disinhibition is known in old age and certain age related conditions such as dementia. He

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