We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Ā
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Generally speaking, I don’t tend to pay much attention to what people say about me, or hurtful things etc.. Because when they do, I just think they’re entitled to their own opinion and what they say doesn’t really pierce my heart because I can see they’re just angry or perhaps just want to hurt me intentionally – so I just offer it and move on swiftly. Like I couldn’t care less most of the timeš . [Conti]
It is a sign that you are inwardly quite developed. With this inner development, some people, develop a suprasensitive nervous system. What is needed is

Please tell us about the most famous Hindu mantra – Gayatri Mantra. It is said to be the oldest mantra chanted by mankind. [1] Why is so much importance given to this particular mantra in our scripturesš¤Ø?
The Gayatri mantra given by Rishi Viswamitra is primarily the mantra of illumination for the human mind and its intellectual faculties by the higher light

Sri Aurobindo was Rama and Sri Aurobindo was Rishi Agastya, So how can that be possible as both were there on the same timeš¤?Ā
I don’t think Sri Aurobindo was Rama. Besides each Avatar passes through his own unique line of evolutionary process for the ultimate role as an

For the last two months my things are getting lost in very quick speed, even the things I have not touched for the past six months, also one thing that was lost got found in an extremely strange place, I donāt know what should I do ? Mumma is saying now keep a watch on your things more vigilantly⦠what should I do ? And how does this happenš„¹?
This happens when our mind gets distracted and we are doing things without due attention. The remedy is to do things consciously. Another thing is

Today is Aurovilleās day can you please share few words on Auroville š ?Ā
Auroville is the Mother’s occult experiment to realise human unity. It is also to prepare the earth for a higher spiritual evolution. It is for

A couple of months back a guy I went for lunch with paid for my lunch because the place didnāt accept card payment. At the time I was sick, and so I forgot about it. A month later, the person reminded me of it (the amount was trifling). I was going to do it, but got distracted by various other things and so forgot again, and so the next day this person gave me a middle finger, called me a thief, telling me that he wishes I get into an accident, and swore at me. I finally gave him the money the same day, apologised for the delay, but also told him that what he told me was over the bar and unacceptable. He didnāt even reply anything. Now, whenever I see this person, he looks away and avoids me. Any normal person would have long apologised and behaved appropriately, but I suspect that this personās extremely strange behaviour is due to his drug use (he told me earlier that he took psychedelics recently). Something in me pities him, yet at the same time I also donāt feel comfortable around him because of his strange behaviour. Can you suggest what is the best attitude I should take in this situationš«¤?
It is the sign of meanness. It is best to keep distance from such people unless you are responsible for them in any way. To

There is always a bitter taste behind the human loveāit is only the Divine Love which never disappoints”.Ā How does one deal with disappointments, expectations, even when we think we are ready from within to deal with everything suddenly a blow comes and shatter everything. The more I get engaged in these outer things, the more farther I find myself from The Mother.Ā Which is the most heartbreaking thing for meš£.
One has to go through the experiences of life to understand this profound truth. Some learn fast, some slowly the lesson of life that in

How do some people move from one relationship to another so quickly, almost overnight? Do they not have feelings, or do they simply not care about the emotions of the person they leave behind? Itās heartbreaking how relationships that once seemed so deep filled with words like “I love you so much” and “You’re my everything”ācan end so badly. Were those words ever real, or do people change so easily? Now they will say the same words to other person. How can someone who once cherished you now walk away so easily with someone else, hurt you, and immediately start a new relationship as if nothing happened? Do they ever reflect on the pain they cause to otheršŖ?
It is difficult to generalise such things and, i must say very very rare to move suddenly overnight. Generally a build up is taking place

Is Trataka a good practicešļø?
It is an elementary practice for concentration. It can be done but like anything, an excess of it, can be harmful.

A few days ago, I went to manage my dad’s work at a granite mine. Near the mine, there is a temple of a local deity where alcohol is offered every day, and the people living at the mine also indulge in alcohol and other substances. When I was at home, my spiritual practice was going well, but after going there, I feel like I’ve lost control over myself. Irrelevant thoughts come to my mind, and I have no control over them. Strange thoughts start wandering in my mind, and then I get troubled by themš„¶. Is this the effect of that environment, or have I internalized all of this?
It is definitely due to the atmosphere created by the presence of lower vital entities. Keep the Mother’s blessing packet with you and call Her

Alok Da, These days there is so much trafficššµ and I drive the car from here to there, so many phone calls to attend and people to manage, how to find peace in this chaos ?Ā
There is a long answer and a short one as well as an ultimate answer. The long answer is to never take a call including

The Mother has spoken about the light and shadow parts in our being. Can you give some practical examples and how do we recognise and correct them in our daily lifeš?
By light is meant the parts that are open to something higher, nobler, beautiful, divine, for example courage, generosity, wideness, perseverance. The shadow is that

When i go to outside in market and my college I don’t feel any positive vibes. I feel I am burning inside. Another I feel lonely inside and also I can’t tolerate the friend circle activities. The environment of college aren’t bearing myself. What should I doš? I have face the same problem with my learning and examination.
It is understandable and even good that the usual run of the mill kind of activities do not appeal to you. To seek solitude is

Most of us worship gods for a better life. Do they really respond to our worship or is it just a psychological tool developed by our rishis so that a person in need does not lose hope�
The gods are not psychological tools but cosmic forces, energies, powers that stand behind the various workings of the cosmos. Since these forces are not

I come from a very orthodox brahmin family and my parents strictly oppose inter caste marriages, my girl friend is from another caste, so my parents will never accept this thing.Ā Should we worry about thisš„? Ā Or leave everything in The Mother’s hands.
Whether parents will agree or not is a later thing. The most important thing is whether you both agree with each other or not. The

What is the difference between Psychic being and Soul ??
The soul is the divine seed within us. It develops through number of lives and puts on a distinct psychic personality just as a seed

Very interesting perspectives in your answer. When you talk of the crisis of faith, normally one would associate it with a lack of religious faith. In terms of the dynamic will-to-be, which you referred to, what is the way to restore it in children and teenagersš¤?
We have to be living examples of what we want our children to be. They must know and understand, not just by words and stories

What is Dharma in the light of the Mother and Sri Aurobindoš?
Sri Aurobindo writes in Essays on the Gita. ‘Dharma is a word which has an ethical and practical, a natural and philosophical and a religious